Inde, pamakangano ndi kusagwirizana, akazi amakhala oposa maganizo kuposa amuna, ndipo chifukwa chake nkhanza zimakula kwambiri. Ndipo kuti asasokoneze maganizo ake, osati kwa iyemwini, kapena kwa wokondedwa wake, choyamba chofunika kuphunzira momwe mungagwirire malingaliro anu. Khulupirirani ine, chifukwa chakuti tikukhala okondwa, sikudzakhalanso kosavuta kuchoka ku mkwiyo ndi kusakhutira ndipo mavuto sadzatha, choncho chifukwa chiyani ifeyo tiyenera kusokoneza mitsempha yathu, yomwe ili ndi zizindikiro za ukalamba pakhungu osati osati kokha. Lamulo nambala 1 siliyenera kukhala loopsya popanda kupeza chirichonse. Inde, ndi mbali yathu ya misonzi kulira chinachake chosamvetsetseka kwa amuna, koma maganizo athu owonjezera adzangowonjezera malo athu komanso udindo wa ubale wathu.
Zimakhala zosavuta kuti abambo achoke kwa mkazi wobangula ndi wofuula ndikudikirira mpaka titakhazikike osati chifukwa samasamala za ife, koma chifukwa chosavuta kuti achoke kusiyana ndi kutonthozako cholengedwacho. Chiwerengero cha nambala 2 sichilira mofuula, kuti sungapume, muyenera kupukuta misozi, kukanikiza chisoni, chifukwa popanda misonzi mkazi akhoza kusintha kukhala robot, ndi chifuwa, kulira ndi kulira amuna osayenerera. Ndipo misozi yowonongeka ndi kuyankhula modekha kungathe kusintha chirichonse. Kusamvetsetsa komanso kusowa kwanzeru kumawapha, choncho zonena zonse ziyenera kuyankhulidwa molondola ndi Swiss precision.
Lamulo nambala 3 , zokambirana zikhale zopanda mantha, musati muwonetsere kulakwitsa kwanu mwachitsanzo. Simukusowa kulankhula ngati robot, kusonyeza kuti simusamala za iye komanso za ubale wanu nokha, koma musasonyeze kudzikonda. Khalani ndi maganizo oyenera. Fotokozerani momveka bwino nkhani yokambirana ndi chifukwa chosakhutira.
Lamulo loyamba lachinayi , pokambirana, ligwiritseni lilime lanu lakuthwa, monga momwe anthu ena akunena kuti: "Mawu si mpheta, idzawulukira - simungaupeze," choncho zingatheke kuti pamapeto pamtima kapena m'mitima yanyoza wokondedwa wanu, mudzaiwala , koma adzakumbukira. Palibe chifukwa choyesa kumupweteka kwambiri, makamaka ngati mafunso akukhudza bedi, chifukwa posachedwa mudzapitiriza kukhazikitsa mtendere, ngati chirichonse sichikupangitsa kupuma. Ndipo sikuli koyenera chifukwa cha kukangana kwina kumayika mtanda pa chiyanjano, chifukwa ndi mawu omwe amathandiza kwambiri, osati zochita. Ndi mawu omwe amakumbukiridwa koposa ntchito zolakwika.
Lamulo lachisanu ndi chiwiri , pambuyo pa mkangano, usiku wa chiyanjanitso ukhoza kutsatila, ndipo pakali pano, musakane ndi "kupereka mpata kuchoka pachipata" kwa munthu wokondedwa wanu, chifukwa kwa inu kusonyeza kuti mukulakwitsa kungakhale kosiyana kwambiri, munthu wanu akhoza kupita kukafuna chitonthozo mu manja a anthu ena. Tsono ndi bwino kuika mchenga wachitsulo pabedi ndikuiwala za chirichonse choipa.
Lamulo nambala 6 , kukambirana mwamtendere, mwamtendere ndi mwamtendere - ndicho chitsimikiziro cha chigonjetso chanu. Fotokozani kwa zilakolako zanu zonse ndi zikhumbo zanu zonse, kukhutira kwanu ndi kusakhutira, chifukwa amuna samadziwa kuwerenga maganizo athu. Chifukwa chakuti nthawi zambiri mumaganizira mozama za chinthu chomwe mukufuna kumudziwitsa mwamuna wanu, sadzalandira maganizo anu. Maganizo amawerengedwa muzithunzi za TV za ku Brazil, kumene munthu tsiku ndi tsiku akhoza kukwaniritsa zofuna za wosankhidwayo.
Mmodzi wa abwenzi anga nthawi zonse amagula zinthu zawo zabwino kwa okondedwa awo, amagula zovala, kenako T-sheti, "adzalumikiza" lumo latsopano, ndiye adzawapatsa chithunzi chachikulu ndikuwapereka ku chikho, koma palibe chomwe chidzatenge maluwa ndi maulendo ku cinema kapena m'mapaki. Amafunanso kuti apereke chinachake kwa iye, ngakhale mankhwala opangira mano, monga adanena. Pafunso langa, kaya adalankhula naye za zilakolako zake, adakwiya mwachidwi kuti "ayi, ndithudi." Ndipo mwachabe, chifukwa anthu sawona chomwe tikusowa ndipo nthawi zina tikhoza kusankha nsabwe m'malo mwa duwa. Osakhumudwitsidwa ndi iye ndikupulumutsa cholakwira, mumangofunika kufunsa kuti: "Wokondedwa, ndigule ichi ndi ichi." Inde, ndithudi zingakhale zabwino kulandira mosayembekezereka ngati mphatso chinthu chochepa chomwe tinkafunikira ndi mawu akuti "wokondedwa, ndazindikira ...", zomwe zinali pazinthu zathu zochepa, koma, tsoka, amuna sali othandiza monga ife tirili, ndipo osawona , zomwe tikuwona.
Sikovuta kupeza mgwirizano, choncho sikofunika kuti ntchitoyi ikhale yovuta kwambiri. Mkwatulo, ndithudi, ndi othandiza pa kugwedeza ubale, akatswiri a maganizo amaganiza kuti, ndikusintha maganizo ndi maganizo, mikangano ndi mayeso a mphamvu zathu, koma ngati ali ambiri kapena opanda chifukwa chotsatira, izi ndizoipa kale. Choncho chotsani malingaliro oipa mwa njira zina, osati kupyolera mu mikangano. Pambuyo pa zonse, pali njira zambiri zosonyezera ndikusintha malingaliro anu. Tiyeni tiwone bwino ubalewo ndi kutuluka kunja kulikonse popanda mawu okwezeka mu liwu ndi misonzi!