Koma nthawi zonse momwe msungwana kapena mtsikana akudabwa ndi funso lakuti: "Ndi mwamuna wanji wabwino?" - sikuti basi ... Kuchokera pa munthu amene mumasankha kukhala mnzake wa moyo, banja lanu ndi chisangalalo chanu chimadalira. Ndipo ngakhale kuti pali zaka zapamwamba zamakono ndi za kusiyana pakati pa amuna ndi abambo pabwalo, palibe yemwe amadabwa pamene mkazi amatsogolera kampani yaikulu ndi yofulumira. Koma, monga zaka zana zapitazo, kwa mkazi aliyense chofunika kwambiri chimwemwe ndi banja: mwamuna, ana ... chabwino, mwina galu.
Pa nkhani yosankha mwamuna woyenera mwamuna, analemba mabuku ambiri, magazini, maofesi onse aakazi ali ndi ndemanga komanso maganizo pa nkhaniyi. Koma, tiyeni tiyandikire funso ili mosamala kwambiri, kapena, tiyeni tiyesere kuyankha funso lofunika: ndi mtundu wanji wa mwamuna wabwino?
1. Pamene akunena: "Timakumana ndi zovala, timaziwona m'maganizo". Ndipo, mwachibadwa, posankha munthu wa loto , mumamvetsera maonekedwe a wofunsira. Mwamuna ndi munthu amene mumakhala naye kwa zaka zambiri, zaka zambiri. Ndikuganiza kuti nthawi ino idzakhala yosangalatsa kwambiri ngati wosankhidwa wanu ndi wokongola kwambiri kusiyana ndi primate.
2. Munthu, ineyo, ndimakonda kwambiri ubongo wake. Ndipo, ndikufuna kudziwa kuti sindiri ndekha. Ndi munthu wanzeru nthawi zonse amakhala wokondweretsa komanso wokondweretsa nthawi. Munthu wanzeru nthawi zonse amadziwa zomwe ziyenera kuchitidwa kapena izi. Ngati ine ndayankha funsoli, "Ndi mwamuna wanji wabwino?", Yankho langa likanati: "Wongolerani!".
3. Mwamuna woyenera ndi mwamuna yemwe nthawi zonse amadziwa zomwe akufuna. Iye amapanga zolinga ndi kukwaniritsa zolinga zake. Ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, mu zolinga zake zamtsogolo nthawi zonse muli malo anu - wokondedwa ndi mkazi yekhayo.
4. Kuti mwamuna akhalebe wabwino kwa inu, payenera kukhala chodziwika chodziwika bwino kapena chinsinsi mwa iwo, mwa kuyankhula kwina. Ndipotu, ndizodabwitsa bwanji, pamene mwamuna wokondedwa sakuleka kukudabwitsani mosangalala pa moyo wonse wa banja.
5. Kupitiriza kuyankha funso: "Kodi ndi mwamuna wabwino bwanji?", Tiyenera kukumbukira sizofunikira kwenikweni! Chifukwa cha inu, mwamuna ndi wokonzeka kusintha. Mwachibadwa, kwabwino. Kwa msungwana aliyense ndi wapadera kuyesa kusintha wosankhidwayo, koma, amuna samapereka ku maphunziro - amatsimikiziridwa ndi asayansi. Ndipo, ngati akonda inu ndi mtima wake wonse ndi moyo wake wonse, iye mwiniyo adzafuna kusintha ndi kuchita zinthu zonyansa.
6. Ziribe kanthu momwe mwamuna wanu aliri wabwino komanso sangakhale ngati sakukugonjetsani kugonana, ndiye kuti sipadzakhala chimwemwe chokwanira. Mwamuna woyenera ndi mwamuna wamunthu yemwe amadziwa zomwe mkazi wake akufuna ndipo amasangalala nazo kuti akukondwereni.
Ndipotu, kukakambirana pa mutu wakuti: "Chimene iye ali mwamuna wabwino" chingakhale nthawi yaitali. Pambuyo pake, aliyense wa ife ali ndi malingaliro athu omwe pazofunikira, aliyense wa ife ali ndi zopempha zathu. Ndipo, ndikuganiza, sitiyenera kuiwala kuti anthu angwiro sangakhaleko.
Angamenyedwe, koma m'mawu awa choonadi ndi njira yopezera chimwemwe zimabisika: "Kondanani wina ndi mzake, chitetezeni, yesetsani kumvetsa ndi kuvomereza mnzanuyo monga momwe zilili. Ndipo, ndiye, munthu wanu adzakhala wopambana kwambiri. Ndipo mumutu wanu wokongola simudzakhalanso funso lakuti: "Ndi mtundu wotani wamwamuna wabwino?". Yang'anani mmbuyo, iye akukhala pafupi ndi inu pabedi, akugwira dzanja lanu - uyu ndi mwamuna wanu!