Mnzanu wapamtima ndi chibwenzi

Mnzanu wapamtima ndi mnyamata wodziwa bwino ndipo ananena kuti mtsikana yemwe ali ndi chibwenzi sangakhale bwenzi? Osati ife ... Muli ndi abwenzi apamadzi azimadzi, omwe mumawawona tsiku ndi tsiku, kukambirana za mavuto anu, kudumpha maphunziro ndi kumwa khofi mumphepete mwabwino. Iwo amadziwa inu ndipo amakumvetsa inu. Koma pazifukwa zina, kampani imodzi ya amayi sikwanira kwa inu. Ndipo mukabwerera kunyumba madzulo, mumangotenga foni ndikuyimba nambala ya mnyamata wanu wodziwika kwambiri. Mwina angakhale bwenzi lanu laubwana (m'miphika ya m'munda amaima pambali), mnzako (zaka zana amakhala ndi kudziwa zonse za wina ndi mzake), wachibale (madzi asanu ndi awiri pa kissel, koma masiku onse a sukulu akhala pamodzi ndi agogo anga) kapena kamodzi kukondana ndi inu mosasamala bwino mnyamata (kale kale, kale kwambiri kuti simukumbukira zaka zingati zomwe mumayankhulirana, ndipo ubale wanu wasamuka kuchokera ku lyric osamvetsetseka kupita kwa anzathu).

Mwala Wamwala. Kotero ife atsikana tikukonzekera kuti tikusowa thandizo la mwamuna, phewa kapena kuleza mtima kwa munthu. Paliponse mu chidziwitso mulibe zenizeni: ziribe kanthu zomwe zimachitika (kuchokera ku bulb yofiira ku chigumula), tili ndi "khoma lamwala" (ngakhale "khoma" ili ndi mita mu kapu), yomwe mungabise. Ndibwino ngati banja liri ndi abambo kapena achikulire kapena wokondedwa amene adzanong'oneza bondo ndi kumvetsa. Ngati palibe, komanso kugonana ndi okondedwa anu sikunapangidwe, ndiye amadzapulumutsa - mnzanu wapamtima, ndipo kwenikweni - bwenzi lanu lapamtima. Mnyamata wozoloŵera adzakumverani, kumvetsa, kuseka ndi bata. Ndipo ngakhale kutsutsidwa kuchokera pamilomo yake ku adiresi yanu sikudzawonetsedwa ndi chidani - "Pambuyo pa zonse, iye amafuna zabwino kwambiri."

Ndi "bwenzi lanu lapamtima" muli ndi zofuna zambiri, mumatha kusangalala komanso kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi ndikusokonezeka. Chabwino, ngati ziri choncho. Komabe - khalani osamala. Pambuyo pa zonse, monga tikudziwira, tikuwona zomwe tikufuna kuziwona. Iye si bwenzi lenileni osati "khoma lamwala", ngati: mumupempha malangizo kwa iye - iye ali chete; Musayambe kukhala osakondwera ndi mavuto anu; Akuiwala kukuthokozani pa tsiku lanu lobadwa; Nthawi zonse mumamutcha iye, amamuitana pokhapokha ngati akusowa chinachake (mwachitsanzo, chidule cha nkhani). Ngati zonsezi ziribe zokhudza iye, muyenera kuyamikiridwa. Ndipotu, mnzanu wapamtima ndi mnyamata wodziwika bwino. Mwa mawu, bwenzi lenileni! Bwenzi lomwe nthawi zonse ndi ponseponse lidzakuthandizani ndi bwino kuposa abwenzi onse omwe mumaphonya maphunziro amathandizira kusankha mphatso kwa bwenzi lanu lokonda. Zopindulitsa zanu zonse kuchokera kwa abwenzi amuna - ziri zoonekeratu! Ndipo mabhonasi ndi ati? Mnzanu wapamtima - chibwenzi ali ndi ubwino wapatali - amadziwa zonse za iwe.

Kusintha kosangalatsa. Anyamata ndi abwenzi abwino nafe pa zifukwa zambiri. Choyamba, malingaliro a mkazi pa zinthu ndi osangalatsa kwa munthu wanzeru (ndipo ife sitiri abwenzi ndi anthu opusa, chabwino?). Chachiwiri, chisoni, kusangalala, kudyetsa - nthawi zonse, chonde. Ndife, akazi, timakonda ndipo timatha. Chachitatu, perekani malangizo pa chibwenzi ndi mtsikana (zomwe munganene, zomwe maluwa ndi mphatso amapereka ) - inde, palibe funso! Kuwonekera kolondola, kusintha kwamasinthidwe - tonse ndife ojambula ndi ojambula! Muuzeni za zomwe zimayambitsa machitidwe a amayi ndikuwalangiza momwe angapeweretsere ... Kotero mukudziwa chibwenzi chanu, ngati chibwenzi, chothandiza kwambiri. Chifukwa cha kusintha kwa "chikhalidwe" chimenechi, mumadziwitsidwa za "zovuta" za kugonana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi anzawo. Izi zidzathandiza kuthetsa kulephera pamsana payekha. Koma zimakhalanso kuti bwenzi lanu - bwenzi lanu lapamtima likhoza kukhala limodzi: kudzutsa malingaliro anu kumapangitsa mnzanu kukhala wosatetezeka. Ndipo ngati inu simunayanjane nazo, musathamangitse kwa inu koma osamvetsetsa malingaliro - koma bwanji ngati ichi chiri chikondi chenicheni?