Momwe mungapangire mayi kutenga chibwenzi chake?

Achinyamata ndi okonda kwambiri amakonda kuvomereza kuti makolo amatsutsa mgwirizano wawo. Koma ndi nkhaniyi ndi misonzi ndikumenya mbiya yomwe imapezeka m'mabanja ambiri, mwanayo akadzabweretsa "chikondi cha moyo wake" mnyumbamo.

Zimene mayiyo amachita zimasiyana, koma nthawi zambiri zimakhala zolakwika. Ochenjera kwambiri ndi anzeru amakhala chete, kuyesera kugonjetsa malingaliro osati kupereka mtima weniweni. Ena, makolo ambiri okhudza maganizo, ali okonzeka kuchita zonse kuti athetse achinyamata ndikusankha kukonda kwambiri mwana wawo wokondedwa.

Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, amphamvu kwambiri atagwirana manja, kukhala okoma mtima m'maso mwawo, kuyang'anana wina ndi mzake, ndibwino kuti apongozi awo apite patsogolo. Phunziroli ndikumveka koyipa mwachindunji kwa mnyamatayo, ndikukambirana ndi mwana wamkazi, mtima womwe umakhalapo mwangozi. Palinso kutsutsidwa momveka bwino ndi zotsatira zowopsya.

Zikuwoneka kuti njira zamphongo zochepa zomwe sitingathe kuzipeza. Olekanitsidwa mwamphamvu, otenthedwa ndi matope, okonda adzangoyang'anana okhaokha. Zowonjezera zowonjezera zimaponyera nkhuni zatsopano mu moto wa chilakolako chawo chaunyamata. Ndipotu, ngakhale opambana kwambiri opambana omwe apita kusukulu zaka kuphunzira yekha, kukula. Ndipo palibe mayi wokondedwa amene angaime izi.

Amayi zolinga

Monga mukudziwira, amayi osakwatiwa amaumirira ana awo molimba kwambiri, ngakhale ali kale zaka 30 ndipo ndi nthawi yabwino kuti ayambe banja lawo. Chifukwa chake apa ndichachepa, amayi okalamba akudya mantha:
Musamenyane ndi amayi anu chifukwa cha izi. Kutsegula mikangano sikungachititse kuti mukhale ndi chibwenzi chokwanira ndi makolo anu, koma mumabweretsa wokondedwa wanu kamodzi kokha ku "mndandanda wakuda" wa amayi popanda ufulu wokhululuka.

Inde, n'zovuta kumvetsera ndemanga zakupha za theka lanu lachiwiri ndikukhalabe osayanjanitsika. Ndipotu mumamvetsa kuti sizingatheke, ndiye kuti ndikukumana ndi mayi anga, yemwe ndi wokoma mtima komanso wokoma mtima, mwadzidzidzi adasanduka mkwiyo. Ndipo pali vuto lalikulu lachibwana, ngati amayi anga sali amayi nkomwe, ngati akusiya kukukondani ndipo akufuna kuti mukhale oipa.

Izi siziri choncho, Amayi akadali ofanana ndipo amakonda kwambiri, amangoopa. Dziko lanu laling'ono lasintha, ndipo mwawasintha, motero mukunyalanyaza kholo lopambanitsa la zomwe akuzoloƔera kuyambira mutabadwa. Podziwa izi, zidzakhala zosavuta kuti mukhale ndi moyo mu nthawi ya nkhanza zoopsa.

Njira zovuta:

Njira yoyamba ndi yopitiliza kukana. Ngati mwanayo akupitiriza kuchita zinthu ndi amayi ake mwachikondi komanso mosamala monga kale, sagwirizana ndi zomwe akukumana nazo, ndipo akupitiriza kukumana ndi wokondedwa wake, pamapeto pake mtima wa makolo ukhoza kuugontha. Komabe, pakuchita njirayi sikugwira ntchito nthawi zonse.

Njira yachiwiri ndikuthamanga, ndi kutali. Wakula kale, ndipo ndi nthawi ya moyo wako, banja lako komanso kusankha kwako. Ziri zosatheka kuziyika mkati mwa makoma a nyumba. Mtunda wapatali umapereka ulemu kwa inu ndi amayi anu. Adzakhala ndi nthawi yoganiza ndi kuvomereza. Pomaliza, sakufuna kutaya mwana wake.

Kukhala pakhomo, kulolera kukopa, kukhumudwitsa munthu wapafupi, simungangosinthana nokha, mumathetsa moyo wanu. Musakayikire: concert, yomwe yapambana kamodzi mu moyo wanu, idzakhala nambala ya korona. Kuonjezera apo, amayi adzakhala ndi nthawi yowonjezereka kuti athe kupeza mfundo zina.

Tangoganizani kuti tsiku ndi tsiku, njira komanso mwachikondi zimakukumbutsani kuti mukuyenera zambiri. Zing'onozing'ono pang'ono, ndipo inu nokha mudzayamba kuyang'ana molakwika kwa mwamuna wanu. Uwu ndiwo mphamvu yopanda malire ya mawu a mayi, ngati si ambiri a ife, ndiye ambiri.

Palinso mbali yachitatu ya chitukuko cha zochitika - kuponyera wokonda mu chiyembekezo kuti patapita nthawi, pokambirana ndi ambiri olembapo, amayi anga adzafika kumaganizo ake ndikudandaula ndi chisoni za munthu woyamba ndi yekhayo amene anathamangitsidwa ndi moyo wake. Ndipo zambiri zidzadalira pa inu.
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