Kodi wokondedwa ndi wabodza? "Wina walonjeza kudzaitana Loweruka, ola limodzi madzulo. Ili kale Lamlungu, theka lapitai ... "- mtsikana wokonda ndi windy chevalier amanyozedwa. "Kwa chaka chathunthu ndinalonjeza kuti nditenge mwanayo ku nyumba yosungiramo zinthu zakale, koma m'malo mwake mumapita naye kumasewero opusa!" - uyu ndi mwamuna wosakhutira. Iye analonjeza ^ O, bwanji iye sanalonjeze! Sinthani tile m'chipinda chosambira, mugule tikiti ya ballet, pemphani achibale ku malo odyera nsomba, perekani ulendo ku Mallorca, meta ndevu zanu za Marita wachisanu ndi chimodzi ndipo musamalumbirire pa gudumu. Ndi chiyani chomwe chiri chodalirika kwambiri ku mawu kapena malonjezo opanda kanthu? Nthawi zina zimawoneka kuti amangochita zomwe amapereka malonjezo opanda kanthu. Kodi kukhulupirika kwawo kuli kuti? Chifukwa chiyani iwo ali abodza? Inde, chifukwa ife, pamene tinali ana, nthawi ndi nthawi tinalumbirira amayi kuti tisatuluke wopanda chipewa, kuseka ndi ching'onoting'ono m'makamwa mwathu, ndipo pamapeto a sabata tidzakonza zinthu mu chipinda chathu. Monga analonjezedwa, iwo anapanga malonjezo opanda kanthu kumbuyo. Kotero, anthu onse ndi onyenga mwachibadwa?
Kuti tipewe chikumbumtima chathu chokhazikika , kapena kuti tipulumutse okondedwa athu ku chiwawa, tidzakambirana mfundo zotsatirazi za sayansi. Akatswiri a zamaganizo apeza kuti kukhulupirika kwathu ku mawu (kapena chizolowezi choiwala mokondwera) kumakhudzana ndi kudzidalira. Koma ... osati molunjika momwe zikhoza kuwonekera. Izi sizowona kuti ngati munthu amadzilemekeza yekha, adzakhetsa magazi m'mphuno kuti akwaniritse malonjezo ake onse. Kusokoneza kotereku kumakhala kwa anthu omwe ali otetezeka kwambiri. Kuwonjezera pa keke yopanda phokoso kuti asunge mawu, iwo ali odzadzidalira, omwe akusowa, osaganizira, koma ngati zonsezi n'zofunikira kwa aliyense. Mwa njirayi, "amphamvu" oterewa amamva kupweteka kwambiri kwa mitundu yonse yosakhala yololedwa. Ngakhale mawu akuti "Tidzaitana mwinamwake pamapeto a sabata" mwati mwaulemu zingayambitse munthu kuyang'ana usana ndi usiku ngati pali mayina aliwonse omwe anaphonya pafoni. Ndipo, poonetsetsa kuti simunawonekere, adzakhumudwa kwambiri ... Mwachidziwikire, tiyenera kusunga mawu ndi malonjezo athu, chifukwa amayembekeza kuti tikwaniritse, mawu a mphepo, yesetsani kusiya. Muyenera kusankha kusankha kukhulupirika ku mawu kapena malonjezo opanda kanthu. Zili zovuta kwambiri nthawi zina zimatuluka kuti zisapereke malonjezo opanda kanthu ...
Kuchokera kumutu kunagwera ... Ndichifukwa chakuti kukumbukira kuli kovuta! Apanso, ndinalonjeza mnzanga kuti abweretse disk yodziphunzitsa yekha pa hatha yoga. Iye sakusowa iwe, iwe sungagwirizanepo, koma mnzako akuledzera. Manyazi pa inu? Ndipo inde, ndipo ayi. Koma, malonjezano ayenera kukwaniritsidwa, kwinakwake - mwaiwalika kwathunthu ... "Kuiwalika sikuti nthawi zonse kumakhala ndi makhalidwe odzudzula ngati osayamika kapena kulemekeza anthu," anatero katswiri wa zamaganizo. - Kawirikawiri zoperewera zoterezi zimafotokozedwa ndi ntchito imodzi mwa njira zokhudzana ndi maganizo, kutanthauza kusamuka. Komabe Sigmund Freud anazindikira kuti mothandizidwa ndi kuthamangitsidwa kwathu psyche kumadzitetezera ku zosasangalatsa. Pomwe tikudziŵa, sitingathe kulumikiza zofunikira zina pazochitika zina, koma chidziwitso chimakonza zonsezi, kuchoka pamtima ntchito zomwe sitingafune kukwaniritsa. "
Ngati nthawizonse mumaiwala za pempho la wina, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kulingalira chifukwa chake muli ndi "vuto la kukumbukira"? Mwinamwake chibwenzicho akupempherera mphatso zopanda malire, osapereka kalikonse, ndipo inu mukukhumudwa ndi malingaliro a ogula. Ndipo tiyeni tinene kuti, apongozi ako okondedwa, omwe mumakhala "chakudya cham'mawa" nthawi zonse, ndi ovuta kwambiri m'zilakolako zanu. Kotero inu mumagwiritsa ntchito kwa izo ndondomeko yabwino ya chitetezo cha msilikali - dikirani kuti muchite, ikani! Kapena mukungopatsa wina lonjezano, simungathe kubwerera. Pachifukwa ichi, pofuna kubweza mawu, munthu ayenera kudziwidwa kwa munthuyo mwamsanga, ndipo panthawi imodzimodzi ... akhululukire onyenga amuna. Mwa malingaliro awo, iwo sali osiyana ndi ife, moona mtima!