Kodi "mukupota" kuchokera mu mphamvu yanu yotsiriza, ndipo akuchita chiyani panthawiyi? Inde, zimagwira ntchito, zimapanga ntchito! Zoonadi, zokhazokha za banja lanu - zanu ndi ana. Ndipo nthawi zonse amakhala pamisonkhano yamalonda yomwe imakhala ndi malo odyera okwera mtengo kwambiri, magulu a saunas a anthu, pachilengedwe - panthawi yowedza kapena kusaka osati nthawi zonse oimira nyama! Kotero chikhumbo cha mkazi uyu chiri choyenera.
Ubwino wake. Koma bwanji osasintha malo ake, ndiko kuti, kukhululukira - kugonana? Osachepera kwa kanthawi. Kotero, ine ndikufuna kuti ndikhale mwamuna, kuti ine ndikanati ndichite ngati ine mwadzidzidzi ndinakhala izo ^ Ine potsiriza ndidzapeza zomwe iwo akufuna kwa ife akazi. Chifukwa ndi zobisika kwambiri, zosasokonezeka ndi kuzizira, zomwe nthawi zina zimakumbutsa Stirlitz kumbuyo kwa mdani. Ndipo ziribe kanthu momwe iwe sunapemphere mwakhama kuti: "Wokondedwa wanga, nchifukwa ninji uli wokhumudwa lero (wokondwa, wokondwerera, wokondwa ...)? - pamene mukuyang'anitsitsa mosamala ndi mowona mtima, komabe poyankha yankho mudzamva chinthu chosadziwika. Ndikufuna, posachedwa kapena mtsogolo, ndikukhala bwana wamkulu. Chilichonse chimene anganene, ndi kosavuta kuti munthu apeze ntchito yodalirika: safunsidwa pa zokambirana: "Ndi liti pamene udzatenga mimba nthawi yotsatira ndipo iwe udzatani kuti ukhale ndi ntchito yodalirika komanso yodalirika ngati uli ndi mwana wamng'ono?" Ndipo kumaliza kukambirana ndi kukana mwaulemu: "Inde, ndinu katswiri wabwino, koma mumamvetsa ..." Kotero chilakolako cha mkazi sichiyenera kunyalanyazidwa. Bwanji osalota, osachepera! Ndikhoza kupanga ndalama zambiri. Si chinsinsi kuti amuna amapezekanso akazi ambiri pamalo omwewo. Zambiri - izi si zokwanira?
Ndipo onse chifukwa abwana athu ambiri ali ndi malingaliro a mphanga. Kotero, mbuyanga, mbuyanga, mbuyanga, munayankha pempho langa loti ndiwonjezere malipiro: "Chifukwa chiyani mukusowa ndalama? Kodi mulibe mwamuna kapena sangathe kukupatsani? "Ndipo nthawi yomweyo anandiuza kuti ndikudzidandaulira yekha.
Osati kwaulere, ndithudi. Ndinayesa kunena kuti ine ndekha ndinagwira ntchito ziwiri, ndikuposa antchito ambiri abambo, koma "lingaliro" lake silinagwedezeke. Koma ngati ine ndikanakhala munthu, iye akanadzutsa malipiro anga chifukwa chomwe ine ndiri mwamuna. Ndipo ndikusowa kusamalira banja langa. Ndiye ndiuzeni kuti chikhumbo cha mkazi kuti akhale mwamuna ndi misala.
Amuna. Koma sikuti zonse ziribe mtambo ndipo ndi zabwino mudziko lachimuna. Amuna samadziwa kutaya mtima. Ayenera kumadziona okha atsogoleri komanso kuntchito, m'banja, popanda, omwe amaganiza kuti, moyo walephera. Mwinamwake ndichifukwa chake amakhala osachepera akazi. Iwo ndi akuluakulu oyang'anira, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zovuta kukonzanso ndi kusintha moyo watsopano. Iwo pafupifupi m'mawa uliwonse amafunika kumeta. Mwamuna sangamvepo chozizwa chotani kuti apirire ndi kubereka mwana. Amuna amatha kuvutika ndi zovuta zosiyanasiyana za kugonana ndi zovuta zawo zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Ndipo, malinga ndi chiwerengero, amuna ali ndi mpikisano muzowunikira, amayi ali ndi chiyambi chothandiza amuna omwe apeza. Kotero, anyamata, tiyeni, mwinamwake, tizikhala limodzi!