O, amuna awa ... Ife, akazi, ndife ovuta kwambiri ndi ozindikira, ndipo mtima wathu umamvetsa ndikumvetsa, sayansi ndizosavuta kwenikweni. Kodi mungamvetse bwanji chilengedwe ichi cha Mulungu, cholengedwa ndi chifaniziro ndi maonekedwe omwe mkazi adapangidwa kuchokera ku nthiti?
Ndipo ngati mutayang'ana kuchokera ku lingaliro lachilengedwe, ndiye kuti mwamunayo si wina koma mwamuna wamwamuna yemwe ali wosiyana ndi mkazi pazochitika zogonana. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuzindikira nthawi, omwe panthawi yomwe munthuyo ali "mawonekedwe" abwino, okondedwa kapena amphongo chabe a mtundu wa Homo Sapiens.
Mutatsimikiza bwino yemwe ali patsogolo panu, mumatha kupirira mosavuta. Sikutanthawuza kulimbana kuti tipulumuke kumadera ena, koma kuthekera kupeza chinenero chimodzi ndi chilengedwe ichi ndi kukhazikitsa "gawo limodzi". Ndikofunika kuchita izi musanapite mutu kumutu kukakwatira wokondedwa, koma munthu wosamvetsetseka.
Kaya timakonda kapena ayi, anthu amapanga gawo lalikulu la anthu athu.
Choncho, kumvetsa munthu, kaya mu malingaliro, kaya mu mtima, kapena ndi chithandizo cha lingaliro la sayansi - ndilofunikira kwambiri. Mwiniwake, ndikuganiza choncho, ngakhale kuti amakhulupirira kuti amuna ali ochepa kuposa akazi. Koma ife timakumana nawo nthawi zonse - kunyumba, kuntchito, pamsewu, poyendetsa ... Ndi ndani, amuna athu? Abambo, abale, amuna, ana, okondedwa, abwenzi ... Onsewa ndi anthu apamtima, omwe timasamala nawo, ndipo maubwenzi omwe ndi ofunikira kwambiri kwa ife. Ndipo popeza chiyanjano, ndikukhudzidwa kwanga, chiyenera kubweretsa zokhazokha, ndizofunikira kumanga bwino, ndipo izi ndi zotheka kwa mkazi, mwamuna sangathe kuvutika nazo.
Sikuti mkazi aliyense akhoza kudzitama kuti iye ndi amuna ake ali ndi ubale wabwino. Ndipotu, monga akunena, "munthu sangamvetse malingaliro, sayansi ndi lingaliro lopanda mphamvu". Kukhalitsa ubale ndi amuna kapena akazi ndizosayansi zonse, ndipo ndi chifukwa ndi malingaliro, nzeru, kufotokozera kumvetsetsa kwa munthu wanu, kopanda chikondi chikondi sichitha mphamvu. Koma popeza palibe nthawi yoti tiyang'ane mabuku athu, pali milandu yambiri, ndipo sikuti mafunso onse kumeneko angapeze mayankho, tiyenera kudalira pazochitika zathu zonse.
Ndipo ndizofunikira kupitilira pa mfundo yakuti munthu aliyense - payekhapayekha komanso ndondomeko iliyonse ya konkire - ndizochitika zonse zenizeni. Mkazi ayenera, ayi, ayenera, akhale wanzeru. Si zophweka kuti tipereke nzeru izi, koma tawunikira poyankhulana ndi anthu, zomwe tiyenera kunena ndikukuthokozani kwambiri. Simungakhumudwitse anthu, kukwiya, ndi zina zotero, muyenera kuzikonda.
Ine ndikuganiza, monga tsopano ambiri a inu, anthu amzanga okondedwa, munalumpha pomwepo. Kodi zimawakonda motani? Kwa chiyani? Pambuyo pake, iwo ali otero-ndipo-oipa kwambiri ndipo onse sali momwe inu mukufunira. Koma mulimonsemo, chiyanjano chiyenera kukhala chabwino. Pambuyo pa zonse, ngati mukuganiza chifukwa chake timafunikira amuna? Ndithudi, kuti tisakakamize, takhala tikuvutitsidwa, miyoyo yathu.
Ngati ubale ukhoza kumangidwa molondola, ndiye kuti ife, amayi, tidzakhala ndi moyo wosalira zambiri komanso osangalala kwambiri. Kawirikawiri, kuthetsa chinenero chofala kumakhala ndi munthu wololera. Ndipo ngati munthu ali ndi chidwi kwa ife, ndiye kuti tidzatuluka pakhungu, koma tidzisonyeza tokha mbali yabwino, sichoncho?
Kuyambira izi zikutsatila kuti kuti tipeze kumvetsetsa ndi mwamuna, ayenera kutikonda ife, kapena bwino komabe - mochuluka. Ndicho chifukwa chake pachiyambi cha maubwenzi sitiriwona zolephera za osankhidwa. Iwo amati chikondi ndi khungu ... Chabwino, mwinamwake wina amachita izo, mwachitsanzo, kuchokera kwa amayi osadziŵa achinyamata, koma mkazi wodziwa zambiri nthawi zonse amayeza ubwino ndi chiwonongeko, ndipo pokhapokha iwo "adzamveka" mwamuna.
Njira yokhayo yokopa chidwi cha amuna kapena akazi ndi yovuta, koma, monga lamulo, ndi bwino kuchita zomwezo. Amuna-onse ndi osiyana ndipo aliyense amafuna njira yake yapadera, ndipo mawu akuti "munthu sangathe kumvetsa malingaliro, sayansi ndi lingaliro lopanda mphamvu", makamaka ndi loyenera kwa olota omwe akuyembekezera ndipo sangapeze "akalonga" awo mwa njira iliyonse.
Kwa mkazi, moyo wake wa uzimu ndi wofunika kwambiri, kotero ngati mumakhala womasuka ndi mwamuna yemwe wakusangalatsani, ndiye kuti kale ndi theka la kupambana. Zimakhala zovuta kuti mwamuna aliyense amvetsetse mkazi. Ndipo ngati muli ndi "kopi" yotereyi yomwe imamva ndikukhoza kufotokoza ngakhale theka la zochitika zanu - kondwerani. Ndipo mukakondwerera izi, mukhoza kukwatira mosavuta kapena kungomanga ubale wautali kwambiri.
Nthano ina yomwe imapweteka miyoyo yathu ndi maonekedwe a amuna za kukongola. Zonse zofalitsa ndi banja zimatipatsa ife lingaliro lakuti kwa Iye, wosankhidwayo, kukongola ndikofunikira kwambiri. TV ndi magazini akutiuza momwe tingakhalire osasunthika komanso angwiro. Koma panthawi yomweyi, amuna omwe ali ndi chidwi, amatha, osati okongola, koma amayi omwe amawakonda. Ngakhale, pang'ono amakhulupirira izi, kukhala woona mtima.
Zoonadi, ngati timakonda munthu ndipo ndi wofunika kwa ife, tikhoza kumukhululukira chifukwa cha zolakwa zake zonse. Ndikufuna kukhululukidwa chifukwa cha zofooka zathu zabwino.