Kugonana, mwinamwake, sikusintha moyo wanu, kuthetsa mavuto, sikudzaloledwa kulowa mkati mwa zinsinsi za chilengedwe chonse. Koma komabe, pamene iye ali moyipa, ndi, inu mukuwona, kufooketsa. Makamaka ngati mnzanuyo sali kanthu: ndipo ali wabwino, ndi wachikondi, ndipo adzatero. Koma momwe zimayendera m'chipinda chogona, mumayamba kuganizira za mabedi osiyana. Kodi chifukwa cha "kusagwirizana" ndi chiyani?
1. Mutha kukhala osinthasintha m'njira zosiyanasiyana
Ndiko kumangoyang'ana koyamba zikuwoneka kuti chikondi sichimalire malire ndi zopinga. Kwa mausiku angapo a chikondi kumayambiriro kwa chibwenzi, mwina simukusowa maluwa ndi chidziwitso cha Shakespeare pachiyambi. Koma kupitiriza kusiyana mu maphunziro, kulera, chipembedzo chidzanenapo mawu ake ofunika pakukula kwa ubale wanu.
Sergei anapita ku France. Kamodzi mu cafesi anakumana ndi mkazi. Mnyamata wokongola anachita chidwi ndi mayi wina wa ku France ndipo, mwachizolowezi m'dziko lodabwitsa, mkaziyo nayenso anaganiza zonse. Iwo anabwera kunyumba kwake, panalibenso kanthu koti akambirane. A Frenchwoman sankadziwa Chirasha, Sergei ankadziwa Chifaransa pokhapokha mu filimuyo "Musketeers atatu". Tinayamba kugonana pabanja, ndiye ku khitchini patebulo, pansi pamoto, m'chipinda chogona pabedi ... Pa tsiku lachiwiri, mnyamatayu sanachite mantha: adadabwa kupeza kuti kugonana komweku kuti akhale osangalala sikukwanira.
2. Fad yaing'ono
Nthaŵi ndi nthawi, aliyense wa ife ali ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi chinachake, ndipo akuchikweza pamwamba pa "lamulo laumwini", amayesa kuswa malamulo ndi malamulo onse. Nthawi zambiri zimakhudza kwambiri ubale ndi abambo.
Irina - msungwana wotchuka, amuna nthawi zonse ankamumvetsera, ndipo amatha kusankha osankhidwa kuti azikhala. Madzulo ano kusankha kumeneku kunagwera pamtali wautali wofiira. Anamuyang'anitsitsa ndi maso omwewo, omwe matope ake amatha kufalikira mthupi lake lonse. Patatha maola angapo iwo anali atagona. Anang'amba zovala zake, anakumbatira, kumpsompsona ... nthawi zonse, osayima, kulikonse ... osati pamilomo.
Irina anaganiza kuti kutentha kwa chilakolako choyamba mpaka chikondichi sichinafike pamapeto. Koma pa tsiku lachiŵiri iwo adachitanso popanda kupsompsona. Kachitatu, adamuchotsa mwamphamvu mtsikanayo kumamatira iye ndipo anafotokozera kuti sanapsompsone milomo yake, ndizo mfundo zake. Irina sanasankhe koma kusiya munthu wosauka yekhayo ndi mfundo zake.
3. Kupitirira Zoyembekezera
Ife tonse timabwera ku chipinda chokhala ndi katundu wa zochitika zakale. Wokondedwa wanu wakale adakondwera pamene muli, ndipo tsopano mumagwiritsa ntchito chinyengo ichi kwa mnzanu watsopano. Mukutsimikiziridwa: mutadutsa nthawi yotsiriza, mudzadutsa "ndi bang" ndi izi.
Andrew ankakonda akazi, ankakonda kupatsa mphatso, kuti azigwira manja ndi kukondwera pabedi. Ndi bwenzi lake lapamtima, adayesa mitundu yonse ya kugonana, koma makamaka idayamba pamene iye akufungatira m'chiuno mwake ndi manja ake, mwakachetechete atakakamizidwa kuti alowe. Andrew akugwiritsidwa ntchito kwambiri pa nkhaniyi ya moyo wa kugonana ndipo adachitanso zomwezo ndi msungwana wake watsopano. Anadabwa kuti msungwanayo sanachite zimenezi. Ndi kulira kwa ululu, iye anamukankhira iye kuchoka kwa iye, ndipo, atapereka chirichonse chomwe chimaganizira za iyemwini ndi kunyenga kwake, anachoka. Mpata wokonzanso Andrei sanaperekedwe.
4. Chinthu cholakwika
Ngati, kuyambira pachiyambi, chinachake chokhumudwitsa mnzanuyo chimakukwiyitsani, musadzisangalale nokha ndi lingaliro kuti lidutsa. M'malo mwake, izo zidzakula ndipo, pamapeto pake, zidzatsegula mabungwe ake onse.
Ella anakumana pa bar ndi munthu wokongola. Anamwa mowa, adayankhula. Wothandizana nawo anali wabwino ndi oseketsa. Ella anaganiza-bwanji, chifukwa iye analibe mwamuna kwa nthawi yayitali. Anapsompsona mu tekesi, pa masitepe, akupsompsona pamene Ella anayesera kuyika fungulo mulola, ndikupsompsona panjira ... kufikira atapukuta. Ella anawona mapazi ake. Zozizwitsa mapazi pang'ono zinali zodabwitsa kukula kwake. Kugonana sikugwira ntchito.
5. Penyani kwinakwake
Kodi mukuganiza kuti kwa inu nokha panthawiyi kugonana kunakopeka kale? Inu mwamsanga mukulemba izi pa msinkhu, kutopa, kugwira ntchito mwakhama ndi mbiri yakale yokhala pamodzi. Ndipo mwina chifukwa chake n'chosiyana kwambiri? Mwinamwake kukopa kwa inu sikunatayika nkomwe, koma munthu amene mukumuchita naye?
Anna ankakonda mwamuna wake wam'tsogolo kwambiri. Osachepera, kotero zinamuwoneka. Nthaŵi zonse, poganizira za iye, anakumbukira mnyamata wamphamvu, wothamanga, kuyesetsa kuti apambane ndi zopambana. Anakumbukira momwe anamutetezera kwa anthu osauka, momwe adanyamula manja ake kupita kuchipatala pamene adathyola mwendo wake, momwe anagulitsa ulonda wake wokha kuti am'gulire tsiku la kubadwa. Momwe iye ankamukondera iye!
Amakonda? ... Zozizwitsa zodzidzimutsa zinadabwitsa Anna. Ndipo kodi iye amamukonda ndani tsopano? Wokonda mowa wonyezimira, wokhala ndi ubweya wonyezimira, ali ndi maso akuthawa akuyendayenda pakhomo ndipo akudikirira, atakwera masewera otsala, amupatsa mbale ya soseji. Anna anayang'ana modabwa pa zomwe amamutcha mwamuna wake, ndipo anazindikira kuti sanali HE, osati konse HI, osati yemwe ankamukonda kwambiri!