Pali mitundu yambiri yachitsulo, ndipo ndiyomwe mukufunikira kudziwa momwe mungakhalire nayo bwino. Malingana ndi mtundu wanji wa mpikisano wanu, bwenzi kapena chibwenzi, muyenera kusankha kachitidwe kachitidwe. Mwachitsanzo, pali ziphuphu zomwe zakhala zosavuta chifukwa chakuti iwo amakhumudwa ndi amuna ndipo, kotero, amakwiya nawo. Ndipotu, akaziwa amalota kupeza munthu wamba, koma asalankhule za zilakolako zawo. Ndi anthu oterewa nkofunika kukhala ndi chiyanjano komanso osagwira malo odwala. Ngati uyu ndi bwenzi lanu, ndibwino kumuwuza mnyamata wabwino. Koma, mungathe kuchita izi pokhapokha mutadziwa kuti ali ndi khalidwe labwino komanso kuti amakonda. Ngati munthuyo sakuchita bwino, ndiye kuti chidontho chotere chimakwiya kwambiri, osati kwa amuna okha, koma kwa inu.
Ndiponso, pali ziphuphu zomwe zimadziwa kuyang'anira bwino amuna. Ndi bwenzi loterolo simudzakhala ndi mavuto, chifukwa amatha kupeza zinthu zofunikira kuchokera kwa munthuyo, zomwe sangathe kupumula yekha, koma inu. Amayi oterewa ali anzeru mokwanira kuti aziyendetsa bwino anyamatawa, amawoneka kuti akudziimira okha ndi ozizira. Amuna amakonda zimenezi kuti akwaniritse, motero, mpikisano wa mtundu umenewu ndi wowopsa. Mutha kupambana pokhapokha ngati simukudziwa bwino ndipo mumatsimikizira kuti mwamunayo akusowa ndalama zokha ndipo sakuganizira zapamwamba.
Palinso ziphuphu zomwe samafuna chirichonse kwa amuna nkomwe. Amayankhula kwa anyamata ngati gulu lakumunsi ndipo sangamvetsetse chifukwa chake munthu amakonda zinthu zoterezi. Azimayiwa ndi ovuta kwambiri kulankhulana, chifukwa iwo samvetsa mavuto anu ndikuganiza kuti zonsezi ndi zopanda phindu. Ndi amayi awa, tifunikira kuyankhulana ndi "maphunziro" ndikuyesera kutsimikizira tokha kuti m'dziko lino palinso amuna wamba. Koma, sikuli kutali ndi kuti mutheka bwino. Choncho, ngati mungathe kuyanjana ndi mnzako, ndiye kuti musamamvetsere zachilendo. Chabwino, ngati icho chikukukwiyitsani kwambiri, ndiye mumangofunika kudula kapena kuleka kuyankhulana. Zosakaniza, sizitsulo zokhazokha, chifukwa, anyamata samawaima konse.
Ndiponso, pali bitch omwe nthawi zonse ndi kulikonse amadziona okha mfumukazi. Iwo amaganiza kuti ali ndi ufulu wogawaniza aliyense mu anthu oyambirira, achiwiri ndi achitatu. Ndi atsikana oterewa n'zosatheka kukhala anzanu pamtunda wofanana. Amakonda kuona malo awo oyandikana nawo. Choncho, ngati simudzakhala mdzakazi wa ulemu, ndiye kuti kuyankhulana ndi mkazi wotere sikungathandize. Otsutsa, iye akhoza kukhala msungwana ameneyo, yemwe ali ndi mnyamata wokongola ndi wodalirika. Mfumukazi imafuna kukhala pafupi ndi iye yekha munthu wabwino kwambiri. Choncho, amapita ku chirichonse, ngati akuwona munthu yemwe akuyendera mfundo yake. Zoona, sikuti anyamata onse amakonda amayi oterewa, koma abambo samawaletsa. Kotero, ndi mtundu uwu wa tchire, mofanana muyenera kukhala osamalitsa kwambiri ndi kukhala ndi makhalidwe kotero kuti wokondedwayo asakayike kuti ndinu wabwino kwambiri. Pambuyo pa mfumukazi yamtendere mungatayike msungwana yekha yemwe sakudzikonda yekha ndipo nthawi zonse amatsindika izi mu khalidwe lake.
Ndipo pali ziphuphu-zaluso. Amakonda kuyendetsa galimoto ku backwoods ndi malingaliro awo ndipo amakondwera kwenikweni pamene wina ayamba kupereka patsogolo pawo. Ndizosatheka kutsutsana ndi amayi otero, chifukwa nthawi zonse amayesa kusiya mawu omaliza. Ndi atsikana awa mutha kukhala abwenzi, koma amayi okha omwe safuna kuti azikhala okha ndipo angakhale chete, akudziyesa kuti amavomereza. Ngati simugonjera, mukakhala ndi chidaliro chokwanira, ndiye kuti mwinamwake mnzako sakhala nthawi yaitali ndi mnzako. Kuwonjezera apo, akaziwa sakudziwa kunama. Amakhulupirira kuti nthawi zonse ndi koyenera kunena zoona, kuwonetsa anzao zolakwa zawo za achinyamata awo, ngati amaphunzira chinachake chosasangalatsa, samachibisa. Ngakhale osamvetsa maonekedwe. Ngakhale, muzochitika zimenezo pamene sizingatheke kwa aliyense. Choncho, nthawi zambiri, atsikana omwe amamwali aakazi amatsutsana, chifukwa ndizo chifukwa cha mavuto awo. Ndipo mabadi pafupifupi moona samamvetsa zomwe iwo achita molakwika, ndipo amapitiriza kukhala ndi makhalidwe monga kale.
Chovuta kwambiri pa mtundu wa chiwonetsero - ndizosangalatsa. Ndi amayiwa ambiri sitingathe kukhala mabwenzi, ndipo ndizovuta kuti tipikisane. Atsikana awa amadziwa ngati amadzikonda komanso amadziwa. Iwo ali ovuta kwambiri kuti iwo, pafupifupi konse, sangakhoze kubweretsa milandu. Mkazi uyu pa mtsutso uliwonse amapeza zotsutsana za milioni ndipo "akuwuma mwa madzi." Choncho, ngati munthu ameneyo ali pafupi ndi inu, mumucitire ngati mnzanu ndipo musatsegule moyo wanu. Ngakhale ngati zikuwoneka kuti panopa iye ali woona mtima. Anthu otere nthawi zonse ndi kulikonse akufunafuna phindu. Choncho, iwo samaphonya mwayi woti asonkhanitse mfundo zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito motsutsana ndi wina. Ngati intrigante wakhala mdani wanu, samalani kuti asaphunzire chilichonse chomwe chingasokoneze ubale wanu ndi okondedwa anu. Ngakhalenso tcheru akhoza kupereka kotero kuti mnyamatayo adzakuimbirani mlandu wa machimo onse. Mwamwayi, anthu ambiri amakopeka, koma iwo enieni sakhudzidwa ndi zowawa zawo. Choncho, ndi bwino kuti musatuluke ndi amayi oterewa kumenyana, kuti musamavutike ndi miseche kwa zaka zambiri. Chimene amachotsa mwaulemu. Anthu oterewa ndi ovuta kwambiri kuwongolera, chifukwa ndiwo mwachilengedwe ndipo amakondadi kalembedwe ka moyo.