Kodi amuna akufuna chiyani? Sitikumvetsa malingaliro awo. Amati amalemekeza amayi ndi okoma mtima, koma amadzipereka okha kumbuyo kwa abambo ovuta. Amayang'ana mkazi wosadzikonda, koma amakondana ndi "phwando" limene chikondi chake chimayesedwa ndi kuthekera kwa munthu kudzaza moyo wake ndi Gucci, Maserati, Tiffany. Amalota kugwirizanitsa tsogolo lawo ndi mkazi yemwe amatha kumvetsetsa ndi kukhululukira, ndikukwatirana ndi munthu wotsutsa. Kotero kodi choonadi chiri kuti, ndipo amuna akufunanji kwa akazi?
"Tawonani, penyani, mvetserani kwa amuna, koma musakhulupirire zomwe zimawonekera m'machitidwe awo. Werengani pakati pa mizere! "- alangizeni akatswiri a maganizo. Mwamuna akufuna kuti awone pambali pake mkazi woleza mtima, koma osati wofooka; osadzikonda, koma podziwa kufunika kwake; kumvetsa, koma kukhala ndi lingaliro lake lomwe. Mu "wokwerayo" wamwamuna muli mndandanda wa zosowa zofunika, kukwaniritsidwa kwa zomwe zidzalola kupeza malo apakati ndikumupatsa munthuyo zomwe akuyembekezera kuchokera pachiyanjano:
Kugona
Amuna, amayamba nthawi zonse. Ndi ichi simungathe kukangana ndikupempha mau a zifukwa, osati zachibadwa. Ikhoza kulandiridwa ndi kugwirizanitsidwa. Mwamuna akufunafuna zosangalatsa. Mkazi kwa mwamuna nthawizonse amakhala gwero la zosangalatsa: zokondweretsa, zachibadwa, zakuthupi. Ndiwo chikhalidwe chawo, monga momwe amayi ali ndi zofunikira za chibadwa kwa munthu wopeza ndalama komanso womutetezera yemwe angapereke moyo wabwino komanso wotetezeka kwa iye ndi ana awo. Kupatsa mwamuna usiku wokongola ndi ntchito yabwino kwa mkazi. Munthu wokhutitsidwa ndi munthu wodzichepetsa. Mayi woona amapanga maubwenzi apamtima kukhala nangula, mankhwala osokoneza bongo, chizolowezi choledzera, ndipo mwamunayo amabwereranso kwa iye kuti adziwe "dose". Koma bwanji kubwereranso, ngati simungathe kuchoka?
Kukhulupirika
Kukwanitsa kupatsa mwamuna khalidwe loyenera kugonana kumakhala nthawi zonse kumphumphu ndi kukhulupirika. Apo ayi, ngakhale chikondi chapamwamba kwambiri chidzakhala mwamuna woganiziramo ndipo chachepetsedwa kukhala "chizoloŵezi choyambirira." Kulongosola kwa izi kuyeneranso kuyesedwa mu chikhalidwe cha amuna. Mwamuna akakhala ndi chisangalalo chogonana ndi mkazi, amaganiza kuti tsopano ndi iye yekha, ndipo akufuna kutsimikiza kuti palibe wina amene angalandire chisangalalo kwa iye. Chifukwa chake, amuna nthawi zambiri amakhala achisoni komanso amatsutsana ndi kukonda akazi awo ndi "amuna" ena. Samalani kwa iwo, kumwetulira, kutsika kwakukulu komanso ngakhale zovala zamtengo wapatali zomwe angathe kuzizindikira mozama ngati zinthu za masewera achikondi. Amuna samamvetsetsa zovuta zonse zokhudzana ndi kugonana, ndipo ngakhale kumwetulira kosasangalatsa pa kuyamikiridwa kwa munthu kungakhale chifukwa chofunsira kukhulupirika kwa mkazi wake.
Kulemekeza ndi kuzindikira
Maubale ochuluka samakhazikika kapena kusokonezeka chifukwa cha kupanda ulemu kwa mwamuna. Akazi akhoza kunyalanyaza ulemu mu maubwenzi, molakwika kukhulupirira kuti kale akunenedwa kuti: "Ndimakhala naye, choncho, ndikulemekeza." Kuzindikiritsa zoyenera za anthu pamaso pa banja, ana, ntchito, chikhalidwe - udindo wamkazi wosafunika. Simungalemekeze ndi kuyamikira zomwe munthu amachita, amatha kupita kukafuna ulemu kumalo ena, osati amayi ena okha. Mwachitsanzo, iye angapereke zambiri kuti azigwira ntchito kapena kukhala ndi anzanu omwe amalemekeza ndi kuzindikira kuti apambana, zirizonse zomwe ali - bizinesi, zosangalatsa, zosangalatsa, ndi zina. Choncho, wina ayenera kulemekeza zonse zomwe zilipo: nthawi, chuma, luso, luso. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, musakhale chete pa izo. Lankhulani moona mtima, koma musakhale mawu okha, koma zochita. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mutaphunzira kuwonongera ndalama zomwe adapeza, amadziwa popanda mawu omwe mumalemekeza ntchito yake, nthawi ndi thanzi lake. Kulemekeza kumabweretsa ulemu. Ndi zophweka kuti anthu ambiri saziwona izi ngati njira yothetsera mavuto a maubwenzi. Ndipo zopanda pake!
Kuyamikira ndi kuyamikira
Amayi ambiri amavutika kuti amvetsetse, koma kuyamikira ndi kofunika kuposa bedi. Sadzakhala ndi chiyanjano ndi mwamuna, adzapita kukafunafuna iye kumbali. Tsoka ilo, kuthekera kwa kuyamika ndi kuyamikira, monga lamulo, ndilolumikizana ndi maubwenzi atsopano. Kukhala limodzi kwa zaka zambiri, chitani ntchito iliyonse. Mwamuna amamanga nyumba, amabzala mtengo ndi kulera mwana wamwamuna, koma osazipeputsa. Njira yoteroyo ndi yolakwika kwambiri! Amuna ngati ana, amayenera kutamandidwa chifukwa cha phala lodyedwa (makamaka ngati silikuyenda bwino lero), zikomo chifukwa cha kumvera (kuchotsa zinyalala, kugula chandelier, kutenga apongozi anga ku dacha) ndikuyang'ana bwino (anajambula mpanda, adatetezera chitsimikizo, adalandira milioni). Palibe chilimbikitso chachikulu kwa munthu kuposa kuyamikira ndi kuyamikira kuchokera pansi pamtima. Awa ndi matsenga enieni. Onani!
Chisamaliro ndi chidwi
Chinthu chachikulu apa ndikumvetsetsa zomwe mukudera nkhawa mwamuna wanu. Aliyense wa iwo ali ndi lingaliro lake payekha ponena za kusamalidwa kwa chisamaliro cha amayi. Winawake ndi wokwanira kuti mkazi wokondedwa amaswa khofi m'mawa uliwonse ndipo samaiwala kuponyera mchere pamenepo, monga munthu akukondera; munthu sangakhale ndi moyo popanda kusintha mipango tsiku ndi tsiku ndi mtundu wa shati m'thumba la chifuwa cha suti yogwira ntchito; ndipo kwa ena mwa amunawo, mwinamwake chisamaliro chapamwamba kwambiri chiyenera kukhala kupereka mkaziyo ndi banja pamene ali paulendo wobereka ndi mwanayo. Ziri choncho, koma kusunga mwakuya miyambo ya tsiku ndi tsiku, miyambo kapena zochita zowonongeka zimapangitsa kuti ubale ukhale wachikondi.
Thandizo
Munthu wolimba mtima, wopambana, wamphamvu ndi wozunza amafunikira thandizo. Pamene akulenga ubale ndi mkazi, akuyembekeza kuti mwachinsinsi kwambiri mawu omwe ojambula mafilimuwa adzakhala "muchisoni ndi mu chisangalalo, mu chuma ndi umphaŵi, mukudwala ndi thanzi." Adzagwirizanitsa moyo wake ndi mkazi amene, ngakhale dziko lonse likutsutsana naye, adzaima kumbuyo kwake ndikumupatsa makhadi. Mutha kukhala othandiza kwa mwamuna, kumuthandiza ndi chidaliro mwa iyemwini, kupereka chithandizo pamene akuchifuna mlengalenga, ndipo adzakuchitirani zonse komanso za ubale wanu.
Mfundo za m'banja
Banja la amuna ambiri ndi injini ya zochitika zawo. Mwamuna, mosiyana ndi mkazi, akudziwika kwambiri kudziko lakunja - amamanga ntchito, amapindula ndi ufulu waumwini ndi kuzindikira monga gulu. Pa gawo linalake la moyo wake, pamene atseka maziko, safuna banja. Zimasokoneza. Koma kodi amafunikira zambiri? Ayi, si choncho. Zolinga zatsopano zimayamba kutaya tanthawuzo, ndipo kuzindikira kwina sikuperekanso kumbuyo kwathunthu kwa lingaliro la moyo. Ziwerengero sizinama pamene zimanena kuti abambo amtundu amakhala moyo wautali. Ali ndi wina woti azikhalamo. Kwa ana, mwa akazi awo, mu mgwirizano wawo, amapeza tanthauzo lozama ndi kuzindikira zamaganizo awo akale. Kumukankhira munthuyo ndi zikhalidwe za banja, kusonyeza ubwino wa moyo wa banja, kumuthandiza kudalira chikondi chako, ndipo adzakhala ndi iwe kosatha.