Nazi chitsanzo chimodzi cha moyo. Mtsikana wina kwa zaka ziwiri sakanatha kuchotsa mapaundi angapo, omwe amamulekanitsa ndi kulemera kwake. Iye adapanga njira zosiyanasiyana, ndipo pamapeto pake adatha kuwachotsa, koma atangomasuka ndi kudzipereka yekha, toko anabwerenso.
Msungwanayo anapita ku maofesi osiyanasiyana okhudza zakudya. Nthaŵi zingapo patsiku ankakhala pa intaneti pazitukuko ndipo adafunsa anthu za momwe amalephera kuperewera, komanso kudzitama pazochita zawo kapena kudziimba mlandu. Ndipo mtsikanayo ndi wopambana kwambiri, ali ndi ntchito, mwamuna wachikondi, mwana wamphongo.
Pa chitsanzo cha msungwana uyu, tidzakambirana ndi inu zotchinga zosamvetsetseka zomwe zimalepheretsa kulemera kwa thupi.
Pofufuza tanthauzo
Mtsikanayo atatembenukira kwa katswiri wamasitolo, anafunsa funso lakuti: "N'chifukwa chiyani mukufunika kulemera? Ndipotu, mukuwoneka bwino kwambiri. " Mtsikanayo anayankha mosayankha kuti: "Zingakhale zosavuta kuti ndigule zovala zokongola." "Kodi izi sizingatheke?" Anafunsidwa ndi odyetsa. "Wokongoletsa, koma izo zidzakhala zabwino kwambiri." - Anayankha mtsikanayo. Ndiyeno zinaonekeratu kuti sizinali za zovala. Nthawi yomweyo mtsikanayo anayamba kuyang'ana zifukwa zina. Kodi mumakonda mwamuna wanu? Koma bwanji, ngati amamukonda kwambiri kuti akhale wathanzi? Inde, choncho ndi thanzi zonse zili bwino. Kotero mmutu mwake iye anali kutulutsa zifukwa zambiri ndipo potsirizira pake anafika pamapeto kuti cholinga chake ndi chinthu chachikulu.
Zili choncho kuti msungwanayo sadziwa kwenikweni chifukwa chochepetsera thupi. Koma ngati iye akupitirizabe kuchita izi, ndiye chifukwa chake akadali pomwepo. Amangozibisa mozama. Tiyeni tiyesere kuchipeza.
Zimayambitsa ndi zotsatira
Chiyambi choyamba - kubwerera ku unyamata
Mwinamwake mtsikanayo ankafuna kuti abwerere ku ubwana wake kuti akhale wokongola monga kale. Koma bwanji adaganiza kuti zonse zidzakhala ngati kale, ngati akuponya mapaundi angapo? Ndipo kodi akuganiza kuti si wokongola? Ayi ndithu. Msungwanayo ali ndi chidaliro chachikulu mwa iyemwini. Mwachidule, kwa kukongola kwake, iye samayang'ana kwenikweni munthu wamkulu. Mbaya, mkaziyo ali wamng'ono, iye ndi wabwino. Koma kukongola kwa mkazi kumatsimikiziridwa ndi kudzidalira kwake. Ndipo kumvetsa kwa izi kumadza ndi usinkhu. Choncho, mtsikanayo akuwopa kuti akukula, chifukwa amadziwa kuti kukula kumaphatikizapo makwinya, kusowa kwa kuyamikiridwa kwa amuna ndi zolemba zina pambali.
Iye akuyang'ana vuto lake osati kumene kuli vuto, kuyandikira, kumene kuli kophweka kwambiri. Aliyense amadziwa kuti anthu athunthu amawoneka achikulire kusiyana ndi msinkhu wawo. Choncho mapeto amadziwonetsera okha - kuwoneka ngati phokoso lochepetsera thupi. Koma moyo ungasinthe bwanji ngati mutachotsa makilogalamu asanu osapitirira? Ayi, osati zambiri. Anthu oyandikana nawo adzazindikira mtsikanayo mofanana ndi kale, ndipo palibe aliyense amene angamuzindikire kuti ali wolimba mtima. Pamapeto pake, zikutanthauza kuti kuzunzika koteroko ndichabechabe.
Zikanakhala zosiyana kwambiri ngati msungwanayo sankadziwa kuti msinkhu wake ndi cholepheretsa kapena kuopseza moyo wake. Pambuyo pa zonse, chidziwitso chimadza ndi chidziwitso. Ndipo tsopano akhoza kusankha munthu amene akufunikira, ayenera kudziwa zomwe akufuna kuchokera moyo uno. Izi ndizo zimasiyanitsa mkazi wamkulu ndi mwana - amatha kusankha yekha.
Njira yachiwiri - kulimbana ndi kulemera kwakukulu - ntchito yomwe imapangitsa moyo ndi tanthauzo
Zingakhalenso kuti mtsikana yemwe amakhala mu chuma chambiri ali ndi zonse zomwe akusowa sakondwera nazo. Choyamba pa nkhani zonse chikhoza kukhala cha mwamuna. Mwachibadwa, muzochitika zotero n'zovuta kuganizira kuti moyo wanu uli wokhutira kwambiri: umasowa zochitika, mavuto, zilakolako. Choncho, mtsikanayo ndikupeza phunziro lothandiza - kulimbana ndi kulemera kwakukulu. Ndipo mothandizidwa ndi maofesi, amatha kumva kuti akufunikira, kupereka uphungu kwa atsikana ena.
Pokhapokha cholingacho chitaperekedwa - kudziletsa kumachepetsedwa. Zimatheka chifukwa msungwana amamvetsa pa msinkhu wosadziwika kuti simungakhoze kulemetsa kachiwiri, mwinamwake cholinga chidzatayika ndipo moyo wake udzakhalanso wotopetsa komanso wosasangalatsa.
Baibulo lachitatu - popanda kulakwa ndilolakwa
Ngati wina sakhutira ndi moyo wake, ndiye kuti mukufunika kusintha. Ndipo ngati mulibe kulimba mtima kuti muchite izo ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti musatenge kanthu kalikonse. Koma kuti sikunali kunyozetsa nokha, mungathe kusuntha mulandu wonse ... kulemera kwakukulu. Ndipotu, amayi omwe ali ndi mutu amatsutsa kuti amuna amakonda atsikana akumanga ndi zina zotero. Kenako timayamba kumenyana ndi ife tokha. Ndikokwanira kuti musinthe zakudya zanu ndi kuyamba kudya zakudya zathanzi. Koma ayi, timapita mwamsanga kumayendedwe amphamvu - timayambitsa njala. Chotsatira chake, zochita zonse sizikutsatira cholinga cholemetsa, momwe angadzipangire okha zoo ndi zofooka zauzimu. N'zachidziwikire kuti kuyambira pano kwa nthawi yaitali tikukula. Koma mu chikumbumtimabe pali chiyembekezo kuti tsiku lina tidzatha kusangalala, ndipo zonse zidzasintha m'moyo wathu.
Tsamba lachinayi - kuwopa "kusiya mapiko"
Pofuna kukwaniritsa zolinga zake, adazindikira kuti sizingatheke kutaya mapaundi owonjezera. Zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti mukhale wolemera. Pang'ono pang'ono mumadzimangiriza nokha - ndipo tsopano, kuphatikiza mapaundi atatu, omwe amafunikanso kuti agwetsedwe. Msungwanayo adabwera ndi lingaliro lakuti ngati atapeza makilogalamu atatu mosavuta, ndiye kuti akhoza kutsegula mofanana ndi makumi atatu onse. Choncho, simungathe kumasuka. Koma lingaliro lakuti izi zidzatha moyo wonse, zimawopsya. Msungwanayo akanakhala wokhutira mwangwiro, ngati iye anali ndi chidaliro kuti kulemera kwake kudzakhala kokongola. Koma alibe chidaliro choterocho.
Mphoto ya Consolation
Kutsiliza: Ngati mukufuna kulemera, ndiye poyamba mumvetse chifukwa chake mukufunikira. Dzikonzekeretseni cholinga chowonekera. Apo ayi, simungathe kupeza zotsatira zokha, komanso kutaya thanzi lanu. Ndipotu, zakudya zambiri zimavulaza thupi. Ngati atayika kwa nthawi yayitali, gastritis, zilonda zam'mimba, ziphuphu zimatha kupanga, chitetezo chochepa chingachepetse, chidziwitso chikhoza kuonekera, ndi matenda ena ambiri. Kuwonjezera apo, mutatha kuwonongeka kulikonse, mapaundi anu otayika adzabwerera pa liwiro lalikulu. Ndipo nthawi zonse mumagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zambiri kuti muchepetse thupi komanso kusunga zotsatira.
Zonse mwazochita zathu, zomwe, zenizeni, zingakhale zosafunikira kwenikweni, posakhalitsa zimadzetsa mavuto aumwini a malingaliro. Choncho ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa zilakolako zanu ndi chiyembekezo ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo. Ndipotu, koposa zonse, zoyesayesa zathu zokhudzana ndi kutaya thupi, ndiko kusonyeza kusasangalala kwa maganizo. Ndipo tiyeneranso kuvomereza kuti sizilograms ndizo zimayambitsa zolephera zathu, ndipo ife eni. Ndibwinonso kumvetsetsa kuti zidzakula kuchokera podziwa kuti sitikudalira tokha ndi miyoyo yathu.
Nanga bwanji za kulemera kwambiri? Ganizirani, ngati mutachotsa maofesi anu, mukufuna kuchotsa mapaundi owonjezera? Ngati inde, kutchera sikungakhale kovuta kwa inu. Ndiponsotu, mutaya kulemera, opanda ana okhwima ndi kuchita zovuta, kuganizira za thanzi lanu. Mudzadzikonda nokha kuti ndinu ndani. Ndipo izi zikadzachitika, ena adzakuchitirani mosiyana. Pambuyo pake, amakonda akazi otsimikizika.