Heroine wa mafilimu otchuka a Soviet, Tosya Kislitsyna, ankafuna kukhala ndi kukongola kotere kotero kuti iye adzawakankhira amuna onse mmiyendo pamapazi ake. Koma kodi zokongola zokha zimatha kulimbana nawo pomwepo? Mayi aliyense ali ndi njira zake komanso njira zake. Mwamwayi, malingaliro achikazi ndi olemera kotero kuti chiwerengero cha njira zogonjetsera munthu chiribe malire. Koma kodi zonsezi n'zothandiza, zoyenera ndi zosangalatsa kwa amuna? Aloleni amuna okhawo anene izi. Pa nthawi yomweyi, ndikumvetsera kwa iwo, ndizo zizolowezi za amai zomwe zimawagwiritsira ntchito modabwitsa. Ndipo kulola kuti anthu alandire chakudya chokwanira sikuti ndi owona mtima kwambiri, koma amuna ambiri amasangalala kuti "asocheretsedwa" ngati achita mwaluso.
Makhalidwe aakazi asanu omwe amamenyana nawo amuna pomwepo
Anthu onse amapanga zokonda ndi zokonda, kuphatikizapo. komanso kwa amayi, chifukwa cha zifukwa zambiri. Ndipo zingakhale zolemetsa komanso zosapindulitsa kusonkhanitsa fayilo ya maganizo kwa munthu aliyense yemwe mumamukonda momwe khalidwe la mkazi lidzamuwononge ndendende. Inde, ngati pali nthawi, mwayi, komanso chofunika kwambiri - zowunikira, ndiye izi zingakhale zothandiza kwambiri. Koma ngati mukufunikira izo mofulumira komanso molondola, mudzayenera kukonza zofuna za amuna onse ndikupanga njira imodzi yomwe ingathandize kumusangalatsa munthu yemwe ali ndi chidwi pa "scapulae", pabedi kapena "m'matumba" omwe ali bwino pa guwa lachabechabe. Kuti tichite zimenezi, timayang'ana maofesi a amuna, omwe amuna a mibadwo yosiyanasiyana, maonekedwe awo ndi chikwati chawo amagawana mavumbulutso awo pazinthu zazikazi zazikazi zomwe amatsogoleredwa nazo, monga momwe amachitira.Tidzakhala kuti chiuno?
Amuna ambiri ndi opindulitsa kwambiri omwe amachititsa kusankha kwawo, otchedwa chiŵerengero chabwino cha ziwalo zokongola kwambiri za thupi lachikazi. Zowonjezereka kuti zikhale zokopa kwa amuna ndi anyamata awo, omwe amawonekera kuti asinthe kusintha pakati pa chifuwa, m'chiuno ndi m'chiuno. Ndipo pali chitsimikizo cha sayansi pa izi. Zakachitika m'mbiri kuti amuna omwe ali ndi chiwerengero cha chibadwa amatha kuwerengera monga chiwerengero chomwe chimatsimikizira kuti mayi ali ndi thanzi labwino, kubala, amatha kupirira ndi kubereka ana. Momwemo, akazi, omwe chilengedwe chawapatsa chiwerengero cha "hourglass", ndikokwanira kusabisa mawonekedwe awo. Ndipo amayi, omwe alibe chingwe chochepa kwambiri cha chiuno, ayenera kutenga uphungu kuchokera kwa stylists, ndi kuwonekera mothandizidwa ndi zida za zovala ndi zipangizo zomwe zimapanga ziwalo zochititsa chidwi kwambiri za thupi lawo kukhala zazikulu kwa amuna.Liwu lololera la Siren
Kodi khalidwe la liwu lachikazi limakhudza amuna? Amuna onsewo komanso maphunziro a sayansi amanena kuti, makamaka. Akazi amamvetsanso mchimwene wamwamuna, posankha, monga lamulo, eni ake omveka komanso omveka. Liwu lotero limapanga mwamuna pamaso pa akazi otchuka, okongola komanso okwera, mosasamala kanthu za kukula kwake kwenikweni. Ndi lingaliro lachimuna chithunzi chomwecho. Azimayi omwe ali ndi mawu omveka amamverera ngati aang'ono, opanda chitetezo komanso ogwira mtima. Zoonadi, ife sitinali m'nthano, ndipo mawu omwe akuphimba khutu la munthu sikuti amamangiriridwa ndi wofukiza aliyense, koma ndizotheka kumupatsa zakuya ndi zolemba zokopa, ngati Agiriki Achigiriki Akale. Ndi nkhani chabe ya chikhumbo ndi maphunziro.Mtundu wa golidi
Amuna amanena kuti akhoza kuvomereza kuti mkazi sangakwanitse kuphika, kukhala wokondedwa komanso amayi, koma sangamukhululukire konse zoipa zake. Mzimayi yemwe amatha kuganiza, safuna kumvetsera, kumvetsera zosowa ndi zolakalaka za munthu, amatenga malo otsiriza poyesa akazi. Ndipo ngati chifukwa cha anthu ndife okonzeka kusintha magawo athu, ndiye tiyenera kuthana ndi khalidwe lomwelo. Tsopano kuposa kale lonse, kuphunzitsa ndi kuyankhulana kwa akatswiri a maganizo akupezeka, ndipo intaneti ndi masamulo a mabuku ogulitsa mabuku ali ndi mabuku apadera omwe amathandiza kuti apange khalidwe la golidi.Kukongola kwachilengedwe
Momwe amuna amachitira ndi maonekedwe a amayi. Kuchokera pamalingaliro achikazi - zabwino. Apo ayi, nchifukwa ninji amatha maola angapo patsiku pazithunzi za nkhondo? Kodi anthu amaganiza chiyani izi? Inde, amuna ena amakondadi maonekedwe omwe amachititsa kuti maso kapena milomo yazimayi iwonongeke. Komabe, kafukufuku amene anachitidwa ndi malo ena odziwika bwino a chibwenzi anasonyeza zotsatira zomwe amayi 139 okha mwa khumi ndi awiri (12) mwa amayi khumi ndi awiri (1200) amakhudzidwa ndi amuna chifukwa cha kukonzekera kwawo. Zowonjezereka kuti atenge chidwi cha amuna mwa amai omwe amasankha kugwiritsa ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku zojambula zolimbitsa thupi ndi maonekedwe achilengedwe ndi matani.Mphamvu ya zofiira
Mtundu wofiira ndi mithunzi yake imakhudzana ndi amuna omwe ali ndi chilakolako, choncho amakhala okongola kwambiri mwa amayi omwe saopa kugwiritsa ntchito mtundu umenewu m'moyo wawo wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Izi zimatsimikiziridwa ndi kufufuza kwa akatswiri a maganizo pa yunivesite ya Rochester. Anapanga kuti amuna asankhe chinthu chomwe amawakonda kuchokera ku zithunzi zojambulidwa mu mafelemu ochokera ku zoyera mpaka kufiira. Zambiri mwazokha popanda kukayikira zinkasonyeza zithunzi za atsikana achichepere mu mafelemu ofiira. Amakhalanso ndi chidwi ndi zithunzi, zomwe akaziwo anali kuvala madiresi ofiira. Yesetseroli liyenera kukhala lingaliro lovomerezeka kwa amayi omwe amawona mtundu wofiira kukhala wosayenera, wosayenera kapena wowopsa. Ganizirani momwe mumamvera. Ngati mtundu wasankhidwa ndi kukoma ndi malo, umakhala msampha weniweni kwa amuna.Amatsenga a mawu
Amuna amalankhula mofanana kuti amayi aziyankhula. Lankhulani, musalankhule! Lingaliro lomwe amayi amakonda ndi makutu awo ndi nthano chabe. Amuna, zimakhalapo, musamangoganizira za matsenga omwe amayi amawatamanda mphamvu zawo, kulimba mtima, kupatsa, ndi zina zotero. Inde, kuwonongeka kosavuta ndi kosavuta kwa mawu okongola pano sikuchitika. Amuna kwambiri amadziona kuti ndi onyenga, ndipo nkofunika kugwira ntchito mwakhama kuti awone zoyenera zawo, ndipo m'kupita kwanthawi, kupita kumalo komanso pa nkhaniyi mozindikira. Pakati pa mawu ogwira kwambiri, amuna amadziwika:- Ndiwe wolimba mtima wanga!
- Ndiwe katswiri!
- Ndiwe munthu weniweni!
- Ndiwe wabwino kwambiri!
- Inu nokha mumandimvetsa!
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- Ine ndiri ndi inu ngakhale mpaka kumapeto kwa dziko!
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