Choyamba, mkazi ayenera kumvetsera maganizo a woimira amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Ngati maso a munthu amakuvutitsani, ndiye ichi ndi chizindikiro chabwino. Ndipo mosiyana, ngati izo zimapangitsa kumverera kuti munthu kachiwiri amazengereza kukuyang'anirani inu ndi kuwona, ndiye nkoyenera kulingalira. Mwinamwake, iye amachita manyazi pa kugonana, ndipo, chifukwa chake, akhoza kukhala wokonda wofooka, wosakhala woyambitsa.
Kodi amasewera nawe? Kodi mumaganiza kuti maso ake amakulepheretsani? Kapena, mmalo mwake, malingaliro ake ndi achisoni chotero kuti iwe watsala pang'ono kumira mmenemo. Komabe, malingaliro oterewa sikuti amasonyeza kuti ali ndi luso lapamwamba. Mwinamwake, munthu uyu ndi wokonda wachiwiri.
Osadandaula za kusayang'anitsitsa kwa munthu pamene alibe magalasi. Ndipotu izi sizisonyezero zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Tsopano, ngati mwamuna sakuyesera kuyang'ana maso a mkazi, kukwatira ndi kumuyang'anitsitsa, komanso osayesetsa kudziwa bwino mkazi, ichi ndi chizindikiro chowona kuti akuyesera kuti awononge bukuli, kuti amugone.
Kuwonjezera pa kuyang'ana, muyenera kumvetsera momwe munthu ampsompsona. Ngati ali ndi chipsinjo chakupsompsona, ndiye kuti mwamuna yemwe ali pachiwerewere adzachita zomwezo. Ngati mwamunayo akugwira mwakachetechete milomo yanu, n'zoonekeratu kuti adzakuchotsani pang'ono muzigawo izi. Mwamuna wotero amafunikira mkazi yemwe amaona kuti kugonana ndi udindo wosakwatirana muukwati. Ngati munthu akukupsompsona akukuponya mumatumbo, mukhoza kupereka gawo limodzi mwa magawo zana pa chitsimikizo kuti zokhudzana ndi chiwerewere sizikukhudza iye.
Wokondedwa kwambiri poyamba kumpsompsona ndithu adzagwiritsa ntchito chinenerocho. Ngati mwamuna sakudziwa momwe angagwiritsire ntchito chinenerochi, ndiye kuti, ndithudi, adzasokonezeka ndi kusasangalatsa pabedi.
Ngati mzimayi akuwombera thupi lonse kuchokera kumunthu wamwamuna, ndiye kuti munthu wotereyo amachititsa kuti azichita bwino pamasitepe otsatirawa. Koma ngati munthu ali ndi masewera oyeretsa kavalidwe, gwiritsani bayi, musamamuyembekezere kuti azikhala wachifundo pabedi.
Nkhaniyi ikufotokoza zizindikiro zina zomwe zimathandiza kuphunzira kuchokera ku khalidwe la munthu ngati ali wokondedwa. Kuti muzindikire mnzanu wogonana, amayi amafunika kumvetsera mwachidwi. Kuyesa kwa mtundu umenewu kumathandiza kwa amuna ndi akazi onse mu ubale. Mkazi adzadzipulumutsa yekha kukhumudwa, ndipo mwamuna adzadzikuza.