Momwe mungakhalire okondwa komanso okondedwa

Kwa munthu aliyense lingaliro la "chimwemwe" limaphatikizapo zikhalidwe zina. Monga lamulo, anthu amafuna chikondi, chuma, thanzi, mwayi, ntchito yabwino, komanso kuphatikiza pa chirichonse-chirichonse. Koma pazifukwa zina nthawi zambiri zimakhala kuti, ngakhale kuti tili ndi zonsezi pamwambapa, kusungunuka kwathu kumadya tsiku ndi tsiku, palibe chosangalatsa, ayi.

Kumbukirani nthawi yanji yomwe mudali osangalala? Kodi munakhumudwa bwanji kenako? Chimwemwe chiri mofulumira, osati kukhalapo kwa mtundu wina wazinthu kapena zosapindulitsa, koma kukhala wosangalala ndi moyo wa moyo. Ingosangalala tsiku lirilonse, dzuwa kapena mvula, kupeza chimwemwe tsiku lililonse.

Yesetsani kupanga mofulumira maganizo, kuwongolera mapewa anu, kumwetulira . Ndizotheka, mundikhulupirire, mukufunikira kuyesetsa. Ngakhale kuyesayesa kumeneku kumayambitsa kumwetulira kosasangalatsa. Yesetsani kugwira boma ili kwa mphindi zisanu. Ndipo kachiwiri, avomereze zomwe mumachita mwachizoloŵezi chosakondweretsa ndikuzindikira momwe sizinthu zachilendo komanso zosasangalatsa.

Mulole maminiti asanu achimwemwe akhale kwa inu kachitidwe ka tsiku ndi tsiku , yonjezerani nthawi "yokhala osangalala" tsiku lililonse kwa theka la miniti. Pambuyo pa zonse, kuti musinthe malingaliro anu a dziko lapansi, mufunikanso nthawi ndi maphunziro abwino. Posakhalitsa kuti muzisangalalanso tsikulo, kukhala ndi moyo kumakhala kozoloŵera monga kudya ndi kumwa.

Maphikidwe achimwemwe ndi ochepa, ndipo onse ndi osavuta, monga onse ozindikira . Sungulani mobwerezabwereza, musaganize kuti "kuseka popanda chifukwa ndi chizindikiro cha chitsiru." Icho chinapangidwa ndi anthu omwe sasangalala ndi moyo, omwe amadana ndi chisangalalo cha wina.

Pezani zolaula , chifukwa pali chinachake chimene mwakhala mukuchifuna, chomwe mumadziŵa zambiri, sungani mfundo. Izi zidzakuthandizani kukhala interlocutor yokondweretsa, kudzipangitsa kudzikuza kwambiri.

Khalani wowolowa manja, perekani chikondi ndi chikondi kwa anthu, thandizani ena . Zakhala zikudziwika kale kuti munthu amakhudzidwa nthawi zambiri pamene amachitira ena zabwino, osati kwa iye mwini. Choncho zosowa zathu zimakhutira kukhala zofunikira komanso zofunikira, kungopangitsa winawake kukhala wokondwa ndikuzindikira kuti ndilo chimwemwe kale kubweretsa chimwemwe.

Pewani iwo omwe nthawizonse samakhutitsidwa ndi chirichonse chomwe chimachitika pozungulira , kapena mwinanso mumuimbire munthu uyu kwinakwake ndi inu ndi kusangalala. Ndipotu nthawi zambiri anthu amaoneka osasangalala chifukwa amadziona ngati opanda pake komanso opanda ntchito. Kwa munthu aliyense, mutha kusankha chinsinsi choyenera ndipo ngakhale zomwe munaganiza kuti zinali zopangidwa ndizomwe zingakhale zabwino kwambiri.

Dzipumula, usayese kukhala "injini yosatha", nthawi zina umayenera kudzipumula . Mulole nthawi zina kuti zithetsedwe ndi zochita zowonjezereka, kubwezeretsa mayiko amenewa ndi njira yabwino yopezera kuvutika maganizo ndi kutopa kwambiri.

Ndipo kumbukirani nthawi zonse za "kusangalala kwanu". Pitirizani kumverera motere nthawi yaitali. Sikofunika kuti mutulukemo, mulole kuyenda pambali panu mu moyo wanu wonse. Chisangalalo chochuluka sichidzavulaza, chingathandize iwe ndi anthu omwe akuzungulira iwe. Kukhala wokondwa ndi wokondedwa ndi luso loperekedwa kwa aliyense kuchokera pa kubadwa, koma m'kupita kwanthawi timadula luso la chimwemwe ngati mwana m'mawa ndipo mbalame ikuimba pamtengo. Choncho, tifunika kuphunzira izi.

Inu, ndithudi, mumadziwa anthu omwe amawalitsa kuwala, zomwe nthawi zonse zimakhala zokondweretsa kulankhulana, zomwe anthu amawatambasulira. Kotero kukhala mmodzi wa iwo, ndizo zophweka. Ndipo lolani ena, atawona kuti akumwetulira pankhope panu ndikutuluka m'maso mwanu, adzanena pambuyo pake: "Anthu osangalala ... Osangalala ..."
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