Sitikufuna kutaya okondedwa athu, sitifuna kumva ululu, koma nthawi zina zimachitika. Ndikupempha kuti ndiyang'ane mkhalidwe ndi maso aakazi.
Tikamakangana ndi munthu wokondedwa, kawirikawiri ngakhale mosadzimva, kunyada nthawi zambiri kumatiteteza kuti tisachite zoyamba kuyanjanitsa, kapena kuyambitsa kukambirana kwa mtima ndi mtima. Zikuwoneka kuti ngati ndife oyamba kuti tilandirepo chiyanjano, ndiye kuti tikuvomereza kulakwitsa kwathu, ndipo tidzakhala pachifundo cha zisankho za anthu. Ndipo ife sitikudziwa momwe tingamuwuzire munthu kuti chikondi sichidutsa, kuti kukangana ndi miniti yokha yofooka, yomwe mkaziyo walakwitsa kale maulendo zana. Ndipotu, ife, amayi nthawi zambiri timayankhula, timachoka, tikufuna kuti okondedwa athu akhale ndi ife. Koma tiyeni tiyese kuyang'ana mkhalidwe mwakachetechete komanso mofatsa.
Choyamba, tiyeni tiwone nthawi. Kodi mwakhala mukuphwanya kwa nthawi yaitali bwanji, ngati mutangokangana lero kapena masiku angapo apitawo, mwinamwake kukwanira kuti mupemphe chikhululuko (ndithudi, ngati inu mwakhala mukulakwitsa) ndikumuuza munthuyo kuti mumamukonda kwambiri, kuti ndi wanzeru kwambiri, , wokoma mtima kwambiri, wokongola kwambiri, ndipo popanda iye mudzangowonongeka, simungathe kukhala ndi tsiku. Amuna amakonda kukondweretsa, ndipo chikondi chimakhala chofunika kwambiri.
Ngati miyezi ikupita, ndipo simungakhoze kuiwala izi, zonse zidzakhala zovuta kwambiri. Choyamba yesetsani kupanga anzanu ndi kukhala "abwenzi", ngati mutagawanika ndi chinyengo. Kulankhulana ndi wokondedwa wanu, mukhoza kuyesa kupeza zomwe akumva inu tsopano, mwinamwake mu mtima mwake amakukondani, kunyada ndi kudzikuza kwa amuna sizimamulola kuyika maganizo ake. Ndipo pokhapokha mutatsimikiza kuti bamboyo akufuna kupitiriza kumanga ubale ndi inu, mungamuuze kuti chikondi chanu sichidutsa.
Sindikukulangizani kuti muthamangire mu dziwe, ndipo nthawi yomweyo muulule makadi anu onse. Musaiwale kuti munthu mwachibadwa ndi msaki, ndipo amakonda kusaka nthawi yayitali. Ndikokwanira kunena kuti simukutsutsana ndi chiyanjano, koma ena onse akudandaula. Pambuyo pake, kuyambira kale, anthu adakondwera ndi amayi okongola, osati mosiyana.
Ngati mumasankha kuuza munthu kuti mumamukonda, iye amangotaya chidwi ndi inu. Kapena, ngati njira, ayamba kupeŵa, kuzindikira kuumirira kwa akazi, poopseza ufulu wake.
Ndipo ngati mwamunayo samakuzindikira iwe mochuluka ngati mkazi. Koma, mwachitsanzo, monga bwenzi. Lankhulani za kumverera kwanu kapena kukhala chete, ziri kwa inu. Nthawi zina ndizofunikira kulankhula, ndiye zimakhala zophweka. Ndipo nthawi zina, ndi bwino kungochoka, yesetsani kuti musakumane ndi munthu uyu, kuti musadandaule ndi bala lakale. Nthawi imachiritsa chirichonse, posachedwa kapena mtsogolo, ndipo icho chidzadutsa. Ndipo ngakhale panopa, pamene mukuvutika, ndipo kotero inu mukufuna, ameneyo anali pafupi ndi inu, tsiku lililonse kupweteka kudzasokonezeka, ndipo tsiku lina kudzuka m'mawa, mukumvetsa kuti moyo ukupitirira, komanso kwa inu.
Komanso m'pofunika kuganiza, ngati n'kofunika kuyesa kubwezera munthu amene mwamusiya. Ndipereka chitsanzo, mnzanga anakomana ndi mnyamata, ndipo zonse zinali zabwino mpaka nthawi yomwe anapeza kuti ali ndi pakati. Mnyamatayu sanawoneke kwa miyezi ingapo, ndipo nthawi yomweyo adalengeza, mwachiwonekere kuti amusokoneza mitsempha yake ndikuonetsetsa kuti sanamuiwale. Ndipo mtsikanayo anali kuyembekezera kuti adzalandira maganizo ake, ndipo adzakhala ndi banja lachibadwa, amayesetsa kuti agwirizane naye. Koma tsiku lina, mtsikanayo adadziwa kuti ndi munthu uyu, sikungathe kukhazikitsa ubale wabwinobwino, chifukwa ngakhale amaufuna, amaopa mantha. Pambuyo pake, pamapeto pake, chirichonse chili ndi malire ake, ndipo kuleza mtima kulibe malire.
Zoonadi, izi sizosangalatsa, koma zikuwonetsa kuti nthawi zina amuna sali oyenerera chikondi chathu. Inde, nthawi zonse ndimafuna kukhulupirira zinthu zabwino zokha. Ndikufuna kukhulupirira kuti wokondedwa adzatha kukhala chiwongolero ndipo ayamba kuchita moona mtima ndi moyenera mwachiyanjano ndi inu, koma kawirikawiri zimakhala monga momwe tikufunira. Ndipo ngakhale ife amai nthawizina sitikudziwa momwe tingauzire amuna kuti chikondi sichidutsa, koma musanachite izi, ganizirani mosamala ngati wosankhidwa wanu ali woyenera chikondi chanu. Ndipotu, ndife okha, amai, timasankha ndi omwe tiyenera kukhala, ndi ubale womwe ulipo. Ndipo mwinamwake tsopano zikhala bwino kupukuta mano anu ndikupeza munthu woyeneradi. Mwamuna weniweni yemwe adzakukondani kwambiri kuposa moyo, ndipo adzachita zonse zomwe zingatheke komanso zosatheka, kuti mukhale osangalala pamodzi kwa zaka zambiri za moyo wanu.