Kusankha mtundu wa khalidwe la mwana

Choleric, blood, melancholic, phlegmatic - kodi ana angagawike kukhala mitundu ya chikhalidwe? Mphamvu imaperekedwa kwa munthu kuchokera kubadwa. Sizingasinthe, koma ndizofunika kuphunzira kumvetsetsa ndi kuziwerengera. Mwanayo amabwera kudziko lapansi kale ndi dongosolo la mitsempha, ndi omwe adzawonetsetse kukula kwake kwaumtima, khalidwe, njira yowonetsera malingaliro, kuthekera kuti adziwe chidziwitso chatsopano, kutengeka kwa mtundu wina wa ntchito, ndi zina zotero. Kawirikawiri mwanayo amalandira chikhalidwe cha wina wa makolo kapena amachitanso chimodzimodzi kuchokera kwa aliyense. Chifukwa chake, maonekedwe a ana omwe ali ndi mitundu yosiyana siyana ndizotheka m'banja lomwelo. Kudziwa mtundu wa chikhalidwe cha mwana kudzakuthandizani kuphunzira zambiri za mwana wanu.

Chabwino, mitundu!

Chiphunzitso cha mtima chimabwerera ku ziphunzitso za dokotala wachigiriki wakale Hippocrates. Anakhulupirira kuti "chiŵerengero cha zinthu zinayi zomwe zimapanga thupi la munthu zimayambitsa matenda a thupi ndi maganizo." Malinga ndi Hippocrates, mtundu wautsogole wa chikhalidwe umadalira chimbudzi chachikulu m'thupi la munthu (nyemba yofiira ndi yakuda, magazi otentha, mazira ozizira). Malinga ndi izi, adawagawa anthu mu mitundu iwiri.

• Choleric (kuchokera ku Chigriki chole - "bile") Mtundu wa dongosolo la manjenje: amphamvu, osagwirizana, mafoni Posangalatsa mbali: ntchito ndi mphamvu, luntha, chidziwitso, chidziwitso, chipiriro ndi chiyanjano, mawu okhwima. kukwiya msanga, kukwiya, kukonda, kusinthasintha kawirikawiri, kudzilamulira.
• Sanguine (kuchokera ku Greek sanguis- .rock) Mtundu wamantha ndi wolimba, wololera, wathanzi Makhalidwe abwino: kuwonekera ndi kuyenda, chizoloŵezi cha zinthu zatsopano, kukondwera, chilakolako cha bizinesi, chikhalidwe, chimwemwe ndi chiyembekezo, mawu olankhula bwino, utsogoleri. : kusowa ntchito ndi nesobrannost, kusasinthika ndi kusakhulupirika, kusaganizira, kuchita zinthu mwachidwi, zolinga ndi chipiriro.
• Mapulogmatic (kuchokera ku Greek phlegma - "mucus") Mtundu wa manjenje: amphamvu, oyenerera, onert Makhalidwe abwino: kuthekera kuika maganizo, kulekerera ndi kukana kupanikizika, mtendere, kuzindikira, kudzipereka, zolinga Makhalidwe oipa: kusaganizira, kusowa, kuyenda , kulephera kupanga zosankha, kuuma ndi kusunga malamulo.
• Kusakanikirana (kuchokera ku Greek melas - "wakuda", chole - "bile") Mtundu wa manjenje: ofooka, osagwirizana, osayenerera. Zosangalatsa: kutengeka kwakukulu komanso luso lomvera chisoni, khalidwe labwino ndi khalidwe labwino, chiyanjano. Zinthu zolakwika: kusatetezeka kwakukulu ndi manyazi, kusowa chidaliro mwa iwoeni ndi zochita zawo, kudalira kudzidalira, kudzipatula, kuchitapo kanthu komanso kusaganizira kwambiri.

Kodi ife tikuzilingalira izo?

Mphamvu ndi khalidwe labwino la chibadwa, koma kuwonetsera kwake kumayambira pokhapokha pa nthawi yokhala munthu pamalo amtundu wa anthu (ndi zaka 3-4). Kawirikawiri mwa aliyense wa ife pali mitundu inayi. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kudziwa mtsogoleri. Ndicho maziko ake ndikupanga khalidwe ndi khalidwe.

• Choleric

Mfundo yake yaikulu ndi "Ndikufuna zonse mwakamodzi!" Kusinthasintha mobwerezabwereza komanso kusasinthasintha kwa maganizo ndizo zizindikiro zazikulu za munthu wa kolera.

♦ Kuyambira ali mwana, ubweya wa choleri umadziwonetsera mukumveka kosalekeza nthawi iliyonse komanso popanda. Cholakwika chonse ndi dongosolo losasunthika komanso losasamala.

♦ Ana a Cholera amayamba kuvutika, nthawi zonse maganizo awo amafunikira chidwi ndi zomwe amapeza, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti anthu azichita zambiri.

• Ndi wopanga zosalungama komanso wosokoneza, nthawi zonse amakonza zovuta ndi mikangano. Nthawi zambiri amayesa kukakamiza ena maganizo ake.

• Kulankhula momveka bwino, mofulumira, ndi kumeza mawu ena, koma momveka bwino komanso pamaganizo. Maulendo ndi othamanga, amphamvu, amphamvu.

• Zatsopano zatsopano zimamveka, koma mwamsanga amaiwala chilichonse. Amasintha mosavuta ku malo osadziwika.

♦ Ali ndi chizoloŵezi chosewera pagulu, amafuna owona, omwe akuyembekezera kuvomerezedwa. Ozungulira ake ndi ochuluka, pamene akusewera ndi ena, ndikukambirana mavuto ndi ena.

• Akuganiza kuti maganizo ake ndi oona okha. Iye sakudziwa kupirira, kuyembekezera ndi kumangokhalira kumverera.

• Amagona movutikira.

• Chilango chilichonse, chimayankhidwa ndi kuyandikira kapena kukwiya.

Zochita zanu:

• Kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu ya mwanayo m'njira yoyenera, thandizani kupeza zosangalatsa zomwe mumakonda;

• Musamangoganizira kwambiri za mitsempha ya mwana;

• Ntchito zina zosuntha ndi zokhudzana ndi zofuna;

• Kuwunikira;

• Fotokozerani mwanayo kuti nkofunika kubweretsa mlanduwo kumapeto;

♦ Musati mufuule, musalole kuti zikhale zonyansa;

• Gwiritsani ntchito mawu omveka bwino muzofunsira kwa mwana wanu;

• Musayambe kukwiyitsa mwana waukali ndi mkwiyo. Zikatero, khalani ndi makhalidwe abwino, fotokozani momasuka kwa mwanayo kuti amangowonjezera khalidwe lake;

• Onetsetsani kuti mwanayo akudziwa kuti maganizo ake ndi ofunikira kwambiri kwa inu;

• Tengani mwanayo masewera: kusambira, tennis, masewera. Kotero mphamvu zopanda malire za cholera zidzapita ku chitukuko chakuthupi, ndi chiwawa chokwanira - kukwaniritsa zotsatira za masewera.

• Sanguine

Mfundo yake yaikulu ndi "Ndikukhulupirira iwe, ndipo iwe undiuza?" Mwana wamagazi ndi wokoma mtima, wokondwa, koma wokondweretsa komanso wololera.

 Ndibwino kuti muthe kucheza ndi anthu ena komanso malo atsopano.

• Mankhwala osasamala omwe amawoneka amachokera ku mwayi wachibadwidwe komanso mphatso. Ndili pakati pa anthu amtundu umenewu omwe ambiri omwe amapita nawo komanso alendo.

- Iwo amanyamulidwa ndi chirichonse chatsopano ndi chosadziwika. Mwanayo ndi wokonzeka kuthana ndi chilichonse mwakamodzi, nthawi zambiri osamvetsera khalidwe labwino. Nthawi zambiri amapereka mlandu, osatsirizika, komabe, mosavuta komanso mofulumira amamvetsa mfundoyo.

• Ntchito ndi zokoma zimawonetsedwa mwa ana okha ngati amakonda ena. Iwo anali ndi mbiri ya narcissism.

• Mwana wamwamuna amatha kusokonezeka mosavuta, mosavuta kukumana ndi zolephera. Popanda mavuto, alowetsani gulu lirilonse ndipo limasinthira kumalo osadabwitsa. Kulankhula kwa magazi kumalongosola, kumagwirizana, molondola.

• Kugona tulo popanda coaxing komanso kugona, monga akunena, popanda miyendo.

• Kuwombera, mwanayo amachitapo kanthu mwakachetechete, mopanda kukwiya kwambiri komanso chizoloŵezi chokangana.

Zochita zanu:

• Chinthu chachikulu ndikuphunzitsa mwana kusunga malonjezo ake ndi kusunga mawu ake;

Onetsetsani khalidwe ndi zochita za mwanayo, musakhale waulesi kumkumbutsa za bizinesi losatha;

• Kuwona momwe ntchito ikuyendera, samalani ndi khalidwe la mwana ndi kulondola kwa ntchito zake;

• Pezani ntchito ya mwana wamng'ono;

• Ndi mwana wamagazi, munthu ayenera kukhala wochenjera kwambiri komanso wolemekezeka, pokhapokha ngati akuyamikiridwa ndi mayamiko, anawo amayamba kukhala ndi chizoloŵezi chodzidalira kwambiri;

• Musayese kukhala ovuta kwambiri. Makamaka mfundo yolumikizana yofanana;

• Yesetsani kukhazikitsa zolinga za mwana wanu. Mwana wanu ayenera kusankha nthawi zonse kupeza njira zothetsera ntchito zomwe apatsidwa;

♦ Kusankha mosamala masewerawa ndi chilakolako cha mwana wanu - poyamba ayenera kukhala kosangalatsa ndi zosangalatsa kwa iye. Zigawo zabwino pa masewera a masewera ndi masewera.

• Phlegmatic

Mfundo yake yaikulu ndi "Ndidzachita zonse, kanthawi kokha! Ana achikondi amasiyana kwambiri ndi kukhazikika ndiumakani. Ndizosatheka kumukweza.

• Mwana wotereyo nthawi zonse amakhala wosasokonezeka komanso wodekha. Kukhalapo kwa ana ena kwa iye sikoyenera.

• Pofuna chakudya ndi kusintha kwa malo okhala, makanda amasonyeza conservatism. Amazoloŵera kwa nthawi yayitali ndikuyesa zakudya zatsopano mosakayika, osagona mu malo atsopano. Sindinayende bwino ndi sukulu ya kindergarten.

• Kutanthauza mawu ndi zochita. Zimakhala zovuta kulowa muzocheza nawo. Sankhani mosamala anzanu.

- Kumverera kwa phlegmatic kuli kolimba, kosatha, koma ngakhale. Chilakolako, kukwiya, mkwiyo, nsanje - makhalidwe onsewa amachititsa ana kusokonezeka ndipo amachititsa chisokonezo.

• Mwana woteroyo, ngakhale kuti sali wofulumira, koma kukumbutsa kukumbukira, kudzipereka, kugwira ntchito mwakhama, kupirira, zimasinthidwa kuti azichita zinthu zosasangalatsa komanso zosasangalatsa. Kawirikawiri kusukulu, ana awa amatchedwa zubrilkami, onse amapita pang'onopang'ono.

♦ Ana omwe ali ndi mafilimu si atsogoleri, samakonda kupanga zosankha zawo. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, iwo amakhala osamala kwambiri komanso omvera. Samasintha zosankha zawo, iwo ali ouma kwambiri.

♦ Anthu achigulume samadziwa kunena zabodza komanso kukhala osamala, chifukwa cha izi nthawi zambiri amapeza zochititsa manyazi.

♦ Ana ndi okoma mtima komanso amtendere, yesetsani kuti musalowe mukumenyana ndipo, ngati n'kotheka, musiye nkhondo. Sakonda kukangana ndi kutsutsana.

♦ Sankhani kuti muyambe kuwerengera zonse zomwe zimayenda komanso kutuluka. Zomwe zikuchitika zikukonzekera kwa nthawi yaitali, ndikukonzekera kuchitapo kanthu ndikukhalitsa zinthu zonse mtsogolo. Aliyense amachita izo panthawi yomaliza, nthawi zambiri chifukwa cha izi zimatembenuka mwanjira ina.

• Kulankhulana kwa mwanayo ndi wosasamala, wamtendere, wopanda manja ndi nkhope. Pokambirana, samagwiritsa ntchito epithets kawirikawiri, mawu ake ndi osavuta ndipo nthawi zambiri amabwerezedwa. Krosha amagona tulo mwamsanga komanso mwakachetechete, koma sauka nthawi yomweyo. Kuti apeze kachilombo, amafunika nthawi, pamene sakukhutira.

Zochita zanu:

• mu maphunziro a phlegmatic wina ayenera kuganizira pa nthawi imene mwana wanu amadziwika. Kawirikawiri, ana awa amafunika nthawi yochuluka kuti amalize ntchitoyi. Khalani oleza mtima, musamufulumize mwanayo;

• Panthawi imodzimodziyo musalole kuti phokoso libwezeretse bizinesi pamapeto pake, phunzitsani kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yake moyenera;

• Musaike patsogolo zolinga za mwana ndi ntchito zomwe zimafuna mofulumira komanso mofulumira, musamukakamize kuti apikisane ndi ana okhudzidwa kapena akuluakulu;

• Musamadzudzule (makamaka pagulu) kuti mukhale wochenjera kapena wodekha kwambiri;

• Limbikitsani chidwi cha mwanayo pa masewera aliwonse apakompyuta, ntchito zakuthupi ndi zokondweretsa, nthawi zambiri mumutamande;

• Musalole kuti mwana wanu azikhala maola ambiri, kumupempha kuti ayambe kusinthasintha kapena kusintha kayendedwe ka kalasi yake nthawi ndi nthawi:

• Kugonjetsa mwanayo kusankha zochita payekha, sungani mawuwa ndikuyamba kuchitapo kanthu;

• Yesetsani kuphunzitsa mwana wanu luso loyankhulana mu gulu - pitani maphunziro opititsa patsogolo, sukulu, nthawi zambiri kuyenda pabwalo lamasewero;

• Kusakanikirana

Mfundo yake yaikulu ndi "Sindikusangalatsa, chifukwa ndine wokhumudwa!" Kunyada, manyazi ndizofunikira kwambiri pa khalidwe.

♦ Kuyambira ali mwana, izi zikuwonetsedwa mu kukula kwa makhalidwe monga kuchepa, chikondi, mantha. M'tsogolomu, iwo amawonjezera manyazi, mkwiyo, chiopsezo.

• Chifukwa cha kusakhazikika kwa kayendedwe kabwino ka mitsempha, mwanayo akukhumudwitsa ndikuphwanya kanthu kakang'ono.

• Ndi zowonongeka, muyenera kukhala ofatsa, odekha, osamala, olamulira mawu ndi zochita zanu. Misozi mwa ana oterowo - chiyeneretso, amatsatiridwa ndi zifukwa zawo zonse. Zochitika zambiri - kuchokera kuzinthu zopanda pake.

• Ana awa amayamba kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino, omwe amawonetseredwa mukumvera, chifundo, malingaliro. Ana amakhala osatetezeka, amatha kudandaula kwa nthawi yaitali.

♦ Awa ndi amantha enieni, amawopa chilichonse. Iwo sagwirizana nawo ndipo amasintha molimba ku gulu latsopano. Osati atsogoleri, nthawi zambiri amakhala otsekedwa mwa iwo okha.

♦ Chilango chimaonedwa ngati chowopsa. Ngakhale akadakali wamng'ono, izi zingachititse kusamvetseka mu maganizo awo. Kusungunula pang'ono kumakhala kovuta kwambiri pa kusintha konse. Zatsopano, makamaka zosagwirizana ndi zochitika zimatayika, kukangana kwakukulu, kuyesera kupita mumthunzi.

• Pakakhala mikangano, malingaliro ake ndi malingaliro ake amacheperachepera, iye, mosakayika, ayamba kugonjetsa mphamvu zake zachirengedwe. Kukumbukira chidziwitso chatsopano chimaperekedwa movutikira. Chifukwa cha kusokonezeka kwa chidwi, mwanayo amasokonezedwa nthawi zonse ndi zinthu zopanda pake ndipo sangathe kuganizira za bizinesiyo. Ana osungunuka amatha kutopa chilichonse - kaya kusewera, kuwerenga, kapena maphunziro. Chifukwa cha kutopa nthawi zambiri amasintha maganizo awo. Mlungu wonse ndikuyembekezera ulendo wopita ku zoo, koma atatopa paulendo, chiwombankhanga chikhoza kukhala chiwombankhanga ndikusiya kuyenda.

• Kulankhula mosakanizika kuli chete, kosatetezeka, koma kulemba ndi kulemera.

• Zonse ndi zochitika ndizosawerengeka komanso zochepa, ngati kuyesedwa.

• Zovuta kwambiri kugona, ndikumadzuka ndi zovuta.

♦ Ngakhale kuti ali ndi khalidweli, ana a chipsinjo amakhalabe chimodzi mwa zilengedwe zowonongeka komanso zomvetsa bwino. Iwo samatha kumvetsera ngakhale chimodzi mwa mavuto anu, koma iwo amasonyeza chifundo chenicheni. Ali ndi kukoma kodabwitsa komanso kumva bwino. Mwa awa, aesthete adzakula ndithu.

Zochita zanu:

• Chinthu chachikulu mu maphunziro a ana osakanikirana ndi madzi sichikuthandizani kuti azikhala osangalala. Mukamalankhula ndi mwanayo, musagwiritse ntchito mawu okhwima ndi onyansa. Musamadzudzule mwana woteroyo ndipo musafuule, kumverera kwanu ndi kumveka kwakukulu kungachititse kuti "asamve" kapena kumupweteketsa mtima;

• Njira yabwino yolankhulirana idzawonetseratu chikondi chanu, chisamaliro ndi kulekerera, chitonthozo cha kunyumba ndi kutentha;

• Musagwiritse ntchito mawu achikondi ndi ofatsa, kutamandani ndi kulimbikitsa ngakhale kupambana pang'ono;

• Yesetsani kufotokozera mwanayo nthawi zonse momwe dzikoli silili lofiira, monga momwe likuwonekera. Tiyeni tikhale ndi chifukwa choseka, musamangoganizira za zowawa ndi zoopsa;

• Musatchedwe mwana wanu crybaby kapena whiner. Musamukakamize pamaso pa ana ena kapena akuluakulu;

• Limbikitsani mawonetseredwe a kudzidalira, kuchita mwakhama ndikuyesera kupanga zosankha zawo. Perekani zida zosavuta, zophweka zosautsa;

• posankha mapulogalamu a maphunziro, kutsogoleredwa ndi luso lapamwamba la zinyenyeswazi;

• Mwanayo sangakhale wothamanga, choncho zochita zilizonse siziyenera kukhala zolemetsa. Maphunziro oyenera kwambiri mu sukulu kapena nyimbo zamakono.