Kotero, ndizochita ziti zomwe zingakuthandizeni kuti mukhale ndi luso lapamwamba lamagetsi zomwe mungagwiritse ntchito panthawiyi? Yambani ndi minofu ya manja, yomwe ingathandize kuthetseratu minofu yonse: kukwapula manja awo mu kuyenda kozungulira, kuyambira pakati ndikukwera mpaka pamphuno, ndikuwombera pamtundu uliwonse, kuwupunthwitsa kuchokera kumbali zonse, kuwasakaniza mopepuka. Kwa mwanayo anali ndi chidwi, ndipo maphunzirowo anawoneka ngati masewera osangalatsa, mukhoza kuchita masewerawa pansi pa "Soroku-crow".
Patangopita nthawi pang'ono, mwanayo atayamba kuyesa kugwiritsira ntchito chinthu china, mwapadera pamanja, amaika phokoso labwino. Musati mudandaule ngati mwana wanu samangotenga nthawi yomweyo kusunga m'manja mwake, ndipo sakufuna kuti akhalebe m'manja mwake. Pakapita nthawi, mwanayo adzalidziwa luso limeneli, ndiyeno mungathe kulimbikitsa ntchitoyo - kuti mwanayo atenge kale chidolecho m'manja mwanu. Ntchitoyi ndi yovuta kwambiri, chifukwa sichitha kulamulira zolembera zanu ndi zala zanu zokha, komanso zimagwirizanitsa malingaliro a malo ndikutha kuganizira pa phunziroli.
Patangopita nthawi pang'ono, pamene mwanayo akuphunzira kutembenuza pa mimba yake, mukhoza kumugula kapena kupanga matebulo otukuka kwambiri. Kwa makina otukuka mungagwiritse ntchito mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zipangizo, zibisole, mabatani, zokopa, appliques, maulendo. Zidzakhala zosangalatsa kuti mwana azikwawa pamtunda wotere, akuphunzira minofu yambiri kuti agwire ndi mtundu wake, akuwombera mabataniwo, ndikuyesa kukopa. Zida mu rugayi zingasinthidwe nthawi, kuwonjezera zatsopano ndikuchotsa zakale ndi zosangalatsa. Ndipo mwana wanu akamaphunzira kuyenda, mphasayi ikhoza kukhala pamtambo pamwamba pa malo osewera kapena malo ochezera, zomwe zingalole kuti mwana wanu apitirize kusewera ndi chidole chokondweretsa komanso chokondweretsa.
Komanso, mukhoza kupereka mwana wanu masewera otere: kutsanulira mbewu zosiyanasiyana mumitsuko, ndipo mulole mwanayo amachepetse mitsukoyo, ndikuwerenga zomwe zilipo kukhudza. Kusuntha mbewu zing'onozing'ono, mwanayo amapanga motility zala zachindunji, amaphunzira kutenga ndi kugwira zinthu zing'onozing'ono. Mungathe kuumitsa pang'ono ntchitoyi ndikukumba m'maso mwa mwanayo m'magulasi a zinthu zing'onozing'ono (mabatani kapena ndalama), ndipo mwanayo ayenera kuwapeza. Musamusiye mwana wanu pamaseŵera otere osasamala, chifukwa mwana akhoza kumeza zinthu zing'onozing'ono!
Ngati mwanayo ndi wamkulu komanso amadziwa kale kulankhula, mukhoza kuika zinthu zing'onozing'ono m'dothi laling'ono (casket, bokosi, mtsuko) zomwe mumatsimikiza kuti mwana wanu amadziwa bwino (izi zikhoza kukhala mabatani, ndalama, zingwe, ulusi, zovala) ndi kumuitanira iye ndi maso otsekedwa kuti apite pa phunziro limodzi ndikumverera poganiza kuti ndi mtundu wanji wa izo. Mwana wanu ndithudi adzakonda masewerawa. Ndipo ngati mwana wanu akudziŵa kale makalata ndi manambala, mungathe kuyikapo chikondwerero chilichonse cha mafano atatu kapena malembo, ndikupereka mwanayo, ndikufufuza ndi dzanja lake chinthu chosadziwika, kuti mudziwe mtundu wake womwe ali nawo. Zochita zoterezi zimangothandiza kukhala ndi luso lapamwamba lamagetsi, komanso kuthandizira bwino kuloweza manambala ndi zilembo.
Pali masewera apaderadera apadera ndi malipiro omangidwa pa mfundo yakuti mukuwerenga nyimbo, ndipo mwanayo pakali pano akuwonetsera zala zake ndi zolembera zomwe mumazitcha. Kapena mumangomutcha mwana chinthu, ndipo ayenera kuwonetsa. Mwachitsanzo, "kutseka": mwanayo nthawi yomweyo amakolole chogwirira ndilolola. Kapena "magalasi": mwanayo pazogwirizanitsa zonsezo amapanga mizere kuchokera ku ndondomeko ndi zala zazikulu, ndipo amaika mabwalo awa kumaso.
Palinso zinthu zambiri zomwe zimathandiza kuti pakhale njira zamagetsi zabwino zazing'ono ndi zala. Zithunzi za pulasitiki, zojambula, kusonkhanitsa okonza, mapuzzs, ndi zina zotero. Pali masewera olimbitsa thupi omwe amathandiza kuti apange maluso abwino, monga "kugonjetsa" (mwanayo amakoka mzere, ndipo, popanda kuchotsa manja ake, ayenera kufika pamalopo), akugwirizanitsa mfundo zonse kuti atenge chithunzichi. Masewera ambiri mukhoza kudziganizira nokha, pogwiritsa ntchito zomwe mwana wanu amakonda. Ngati uyu ndi mnyamata, ndipo amakonda magalimoto, apatseni magalimoto-otembenuza, omwe angathe kusonkhanitsidwa ndi kusokonezeka. Ngati uyu ndi mtsikana, mukhoza kumubweretsa kuti amuthandize ndi ntchito zapakhomo: kusamalira zomera za mkati, kuphimba ulusi, kupukuta, ndi zina zotero.
Chitani zochita zoterezi pa chitukuko cha maluso abwino ogwira ntchito mothandizidwe. Ngati mumagwirizana ndi mwana tsiku lililonse, mutha kuzindikira mwamsanga kuti kuyenda kwa mwana wanu kumakhala kosavuta, kosavuta, kumagwirizana nthawi iliyonse. Mudzakhala odzitukumula, kuti dzulo mwana wanu sangathe kugwira chikhomo ndi dzanja lake laling'ono, koma lero aligwiritsitsa kale ndikuyesera kuti alowetse ku dzanja lina. Ndipo zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri kuti mwana azikhala ndi nthawi yocheza ndi amayi kapena abambo, komanso kusewera masewera olimbitsa thupi omwe amamuthandiza kudzidziŵa iye mwini ndi dziko lalikulu lomweli.