Mwina sikuti amayi onse akufunsa funso: Anthu oyandikira akuchoka ku nkhondo - izi zingatheke bwanji? Amayi ena amatha kusiya mwakachetechete ngakhale anthu ammudzi. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti anthu sali okondedwa kwa iwo. Ndizoti akazi oterewa amawoneka kuti sadziwika okha kuchokera pa izi, yesetsani kuganiza za kuti mwamuna wapamtima sali pafupi. Koma si aliyense amene angapulumutse chisamaliro mosamala. Amayi ena amaganiza kuti ndi kosavuta kuti alowe usilikali okha kusiyana ndi kulola anthu awo. Kodi angadziwe bwanji kuti ngati munthu alowa kunkhondo, iyi si mapeto a dziko lapansi?
Choyamba, simukusowa kusonyeza mnyamata amene akutumikira, ndiwe woipa bwanji. Inde, kuti mukhale ndi maganizo, nanunso, sangagwire ntchito. Koma, chinthu chimodzi, pamene munadzilola nokha kulira paphewa. Ndipo palinso zina, mukamuuza nthawi zonse za momwe mukuvutikira, momwe simukufunira kukhala opanda iye komanso nthawi yomweyo, mumalira nthawi zonse. Kumbukirani kuti bwenzi lanu, chibwenzi kapena mchimwene sizingakhale zophweka. Amangomvetsetsa kuti palibe chomwe chingasinthe ndikuyesa kudzipangira yekha. Ndipo mfundo yakuti iwe nthawi zonse mumapukutura zamatsenga ndi zochitika, zimapweteka mitsempha yake ndipo imamukhumudwitsa. Inde, amamvetsetsa kuti siwephweka ndipo amakhalanso wovuta. Ndipo khulupirirani ine, iye adzakhala ovuta kwambiri kuposa inu. Msilikali wanu wam'tsogolo sangakhale ndi nthawi yochuluka ngati mukulira pa zithunzi ndikukumbukira chilichonse. Choncho, yesetsani kudziletsa nokha, ndipo choyamba, chithandizani.
Koma ngati mutapeza mphamvu yakulepheretsani, pamene munthu wanu wapafupi ali pafupi, bwanji kuti musadwale maganizo ake atapitako kukapereka ulemu kwa a Motherland.
Kotero, poyamba, musalole kuti mukhale ndi chikhulupiliro. Mukamamvetsera kwambiri nyimbo zomwe mumazikonda, penyani mafilimu ndipo muziyenda kumeneko, komwe mumakonda kupita, zovuta kwambiri. Zindikirani kuti, pamapeto, palibe amene wamwalira ndipo ndi chaka chimodzi. Zoonadi, ndizovuta komanso zoipa popanda kuthandizidwa ndi mbadwa, koma izi sizingakhale zovuta kwambiri zomwe zingakuchitikire. Yesetsani kulingalira mwachidwi ndikuganiza kuti chibwenzi chanu (bwenzi, m'bale) sakufuna kuti mudziwononge nokha, mukulakalaka. Kumbukirani kuti kamodzi, kumbuyo kwa zaka za zana la khumi ndi zisanu ndi zitatu, asilikali adatengedwa zaka makumi awiri ndi zisanu. Izo zinali zowopsya kwambiri. Azimayi a nthawi imeneyo amatha kumvetsa. Ndipo chinthu chachikulu ndikuti musamangokhalira kuchita zinazake.
Inde, tonsefe tinamva za zomwe zikuchitika mu gulu lamakono ndi malingaliro akutikoka ife zithunzi zoopsa kwambiri. Simusowa kuti mupachikike pa izi. Pamapeto pake, ngati nthawi zonse mumaganizira za zoipa, ndiye kuti zimachitika, koma ngati mukukonzekera zabwino - zonse zimathera bwino. Mbadwa yanu, sichipusa ndipo idzatha kuyenda pansi pazimenezo. Musamanyalanyaze luso lake ndikuganiza kuti adzachita chinachake cholakwika, chomwe chidzabweretsa zotsatira zoipa.
Chaka chilichonse achinyamata masauzande ambiri amadutsa mumsasa, ndipo ndi owerengeka chabe omwe amangodandaula za zomwe zikuchitika. Choncho, simusowa kusintha, ndipo makamaka, kuti musinthe wogwira ntchito mtsogolo kuti chinachake chimuchitikire.
Panthawi ya utumiki, mukhoza kuitana nthawi ndi nthawi, kotero simungakhale wovuta popanda munthu wobadwa. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kupulumuka miyezi yoyamba, pamene, mwinamwake, mpata wolankhulana bwino sizingatero. Ndiye, pamene ayamba kukuyitanani, sungani nokha ndipo musazengere. Inde, munganene kuti ndinu otopa, ndipo mulibe, koma simukusowa kukweza otsutsawo. Kumvetsetsa kuti akufuna kumva mau a chibadwidwe, kulandira gawo la mphamvu ndi mphamvu, kuti akhale ndi mphamvu zogwira ntchitoyo. Ndipo ngati mumubweretsa kusokonezeka ndi choipa, ndiye kuti zikhoza kuchitika kuti mnyamatayu sakutcha inu konse. Choncho, nthawi zonse muziletsa kukhumudwa kwanu ndipo musalole kudziyika nokha pamtima kuposa alendo.
Pamene munthu wanu wapafupi akutumikira, simukusowa kutseka padziko lonse ndikukhalabe. Kotero iwe uzingowonjezereka. Kulankhulana ndi anzanu, kusangalala, kuyenda, kupuma. Simuyenera kudzipereka nokha, ndikukangana pa izi ndi mawu awa: Ngati sangathe kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yake bwino, ndiye kuti ndikusiya zonse ndikugwirizana. Munthu wamba sangayamikire nsembe zoterozo ndipo amaona kuti ndizopusa. Choncho, muzichita bwino komanso musamachite zinthu mopitirira malire. Susowa kusunga kalendala ndi kutaya masiku. Kotero inu mungoganizira chabe kuti munthu wobadwirayo sali pafupi. Ndibwino kuti musaganize za nthawi ndikukhala moyo. Chitani bizinesi yanu, mutenge nawo mbali yatsopano, phunzirani anthu. Mukachita izi, chaka chino chidzakhala chosavuta komanso chosavuta kuposa momwe mukuganizira. Inde, poyamba sichidzakhala chophweka kwa inu, koma m'kupita kwa nthawi mudzaphunzira kuchitira nzeru zomwe zikuchitika ndikusiya kuganizira kuti palibe munthu amene mumawakonda komanso amene mumamukonda.
Ndipo pamene abweranso - ndi pamene mungathe kulira mochuluka monga momwe mukufunira, chifukwa misonzi iyi siidzamupweteka ndikumvetsa chisoni, koma kungosonyeza momwe amamukondera komanso kuyembekezera.