Kugonana monga kuyembekezera.
Funso lofunika kwambiri lokhudza kugonana koyamba ndi mnyamata watsopano, kawirikawiri limapezeka pamene chibwenzicho chimayamba kukopa mtsikanayo. Koma, kapena ngati okwatirana onsewa ali ndi mphamvu yothandizana kwambiri. Pa nthawi zoterezi, ndizochepa kuti muwoloke mzerewu ndikukhala pabedi limodzi. Koma, ndikulosera zotsatira za zomwe zidzachitike kenako, ndi momwe zidzakhalire mtsogolomu zikhoza kuganiziridwa kapena kuganiziridwa. Mwa njira, malinga ndi kafukufuku, chodabwitsa ndi chakuti gawo limodzi mwa atsikana, ngakhale kamodzi m'moyo wawo, komabe anagonana ndi bwana watsopano pa tsiku loyamba. Ngakhale, ngakhale zitakhala zomvetsa chisoni bwanji, pafupifupi theka la oimira omwe akuyendetsa nawo zachiwerewere pa nthawiyi akudandaula. Kuwonjezera pa zonsezi, akatswiri a zamaganizo adakhazikitsa chidziwitso kuti patsiku loyambirira, msungwana ali wokana kukana chibwenzi kumbali, mwayi woti amuitanira tsiku lachiwiri ndi pafupifupi 50 mpaka 50 peresenti.
Tsiku loyamba ndi kugonana.
Ndi chiyani chomwe chikhoza kutulukamo, ngati mtsikanayo ali kale tsiku loyamba akugonana ndi chibwenzi chatsopano? Apa tikuyenera kuzindikira kuti anthu omwe pa tsiku loyamba amadziwa kugonana amakhala odzidalira okha ndipo sangathe kukhumudwitsa mnzawo watsopano. Komanso, amangokonda kugonana ndipo sangathe kukhala popanda izo. Mwachidule, kugonana ndi chimodzi mwa malo oyamba m'miyoyo yawo. Koma, ndondomeko iyi, monga lamulo, ili ndi mbali ziwiri, yachiŵiri yomwe imanena kuti kufooka koteroko kwa kugonana ndi kudzidalira kwakukulu kungathe kuwononga chikhalidwe cha ubale. Iwo sangakhoze basi kugwira ntchito. Ubale wotere ndi mnyamata watsopano, amene amatchedwa "kugonana usiku umodzi" osati kenanso. Chabwino, ndipo ngati banjali likutsogoleredwa ndi chinthu china chosiyana ndi chilakolako chofanana ndi chilakolako, zingatheke kuti zonse mwamsanga ngati palibe, sizipita kulikonse. Ngakhale kuti zochitika zabwino komanso ngakhale ukwati, palibe amene angakane. Inde, mu zochitika izi, mwayi wa zochitika zoterozo umakula, mwachitsanzo, chifukwa cha mimba yosakonzekera. Koma ngati chirichonse chiri chabwino ndi usiku womwe mnyamatayu akuitanidwira kapena kuperekedwa kukakumana, onetsetsani kuti kugonana kwanu koyamba kunalimbikitsa ubale wanu, ndiyeno zonse zidzakhala zofanana.
Pafupi ndi sabata.
Kugonana koyamba pakati pa sabata pambuyo podziwana, nthawi zambiri, kumakhala chiyambi, zomwe zimayambitsa maubwenzi atsopano ndi achidule, maziko omwe ali, ndithudi, kugonana. Koma, musanene kuti, masiku asanu ndi awiri, kapena kuti izo zidzanenedwa, sabata lonse liri kale nthawi, komanso, osati laling'ono. Pa masiku asanu ndi awiri awa, achinyamata pamisonkhano ndi maulendo amatha kudziwana bwino ndikudziwa dziko la mkati lomwe aliyense mwa iwo omwe ali nawo mu chibwenzi chatsopano amakhala. Ndipo ngakhale izi sizinanso. Koma ndi nthawi yoyesa zonse ndikuzindikira kufunika kwakumverera pang'ono. Inde, mwayi woti maubwenzi amenewa adzasinthidwa ku gulu la anthu omwe amatha kukangana ndi mkwati, palibe amene angatsimikizire kuti ali ndi chikhulupiliro chokwanira. Bukuli likhoza kukhala gawo labwino kwambiri lokhazikika ndi maphunziro asanayambe mgwirizano weniweni komanso ukwati.
Pafupi ndi masabata awiri.
Awiriwo adakhalapo kwa masiku khumi ndi anai, ndipo apa ndilo, nthawi yoyamba kuyembekezera ... Malingana ndi chiwerengero, zambiri za maubwenzi oterewa zimatha kukhala zovuta komanso zosatha. Ndipo alamu yaukwati pa njira yawo ikuwonekera momveka bwino komanso mozindikira. Mawu awa ali ndi zotsatira zabwino pakuzindikira ngati ophunzira mu bukuli ali olondola kwa wina ndi mzake ndipo ngati akufunikiradi chiyanjano ichi.
Pafupi ndi mwezi.
Chokondweretsa pa nthawiyi ndi chakuti atatha kukomana ndi mnyamata kwa mwezi umodzi komanso osayanjana naye, woyambitsa woyamba ndi wofunikira kwambiri pazogonana ndi mtsikana mwiniyo. Mwinamwake, pa msinkhu wosamvetsetseka, kugonana kwabwino ndiko kuchita izi chifukwa iwo akufuna kuyamika osankhidwa awo chifukwa cha kuleza mtima kwake ndi kudzipereka kwake. Mwa njira, munda wa mawu awa kuti uyankhule za kugwirizana kwa chiyanjano sizongotaya nthawi. Ndiponsotu, banjali panthawi imeneyi amatha kumvetsetsa bwino ndipo amatha kukopera, aliyense payekha, zowona. Komanso, nthawi ino ndi mayeso abwino kwambiri kwa mnyamata muzogonana, amasangalatsidwa ndi mtsikanayo. Ubale wotero, nthawi zambiri, umatha m'banja.
Pafupifupi miyezi iwiri ndi zina.
Pankhaniyi, mnyamatayo ayenera kupatsidwa ndondomeko ya golidi pa zomwe amamukonda komanso kumvetsa bwenzi lake, yemwe ali wofunitsitsa kuyembekezera malinga ndi nthawi. Zoona, anyamatawa sali ovuta kupeza, ndipo ngakhale kulingalira mu malingaliro awo. Kawirikawiri anyamatawa ndi achikondi weniweni, omwe malo oyamba sakugonana, koma amamva. Ngati msungwanayo atsimikiza kuyang'ana chibwenzi chake, ayenera kukhala okonzeka kuti athe kutenga nawo mbali. Eya, ngati ubale wawo watsutsana ndi mayesowa, ndiye kuti sakulamuliridwa ndi kugonana, koma chikondi! Ndipo chinthu chotsiriza pa nthawi yoyenera kugonana ndi mnyamata ndi kwa inu. Chinthu chachikulu ndi nthawi zonse kumvetsera mwakuya kwanu ndi zomwe mtima umalangiza! Mbuye wabwino kwa inu!