Kotero, okondedwa inu, mokwanira kuponyera kuyang'ana konyengerera, kupita ku zida zamphamvu ndipo zotsatira zake sizikukupangitsani inu kuyembekezera. Ndikutsimikiza kawirikawiri m'moyo mwanu simunayesere kukondana ndi munthu yemwe mumamukonda, wamanyazi ndi wosatsimikizika kuti adzayankha mofananamo, kukubwezerani. Kotero kumbukirani choonadi chimodzi, palibe ambiri mwa iwo padziko lapansi: Amuna onse amakonda kukondana ndi akazi, komanso amangokwera nawo. Iwo samawona chirichonse chochita chigololo, ngakhale amuna awa ali okwatirana kapena amakhala ndi ubale weniweni. Nthawi zonse zimakhala zokoma kulankhula ndi anthu omwe amakukondani.
Pafupifupi atsikana onse amaopa kuti munthu asakane, osatsimikiza kuti ali ndi mwayi ndi mwamuna uyu. Kumbukirani kuti amuna, ngakhale okongola kwambiri, sakhala akudzimvera okha, kudzikuza kwa mkazi kumamulola kuti asonyeze kukongola kwake. Pali mtundu wina wa amayi omwe amatha kuyamikira anthu ena mosavuta. Monga lamulo, kawirikawiri atsikana oterewa amakonda kukonda amuna ena. Kuwanyengerera kwawo, amapereka, monga mphatso, osati kufunafuna china chilichonse mmalo mwake. Izi zimakopa amuna ngati ntchentche kwa uchi, amapita kwa akazi otere ndikusangalala.
Amuna onse ogonana kwambiri amalimbikitsa maubwenzi ogwirizana ndi amayi omwe samakakamiza, ndipo samasonyeza chikhumbo chawo chokhala ogwirizana nawo. Kuwongolera ndi amuna ndi osalakwa komanso ochezeka.
Kumbukirani kuti munthu poyamba angaganize chifukwa chake mumakonda kukopa, choncho musapitirize kuchita zimenezi ndipo kukayikira kwake kumapita msanga. Koma ngati mwamunayo muli wokongola kwambiri, ndipo mukufunadi kukwaniritsa zolinga zanu ndi masewero anu, ndiye simungathe kuchita popanda zigawo zina. Ganizirani kale kuti kuyankhulana kudzakhala kokondweretsa ndipo kudzabweretsa zosangalatsa zonse, mosasamala kanthu za zotsatira. Onetsani ulemu wanu ndi kumvetsetsa, pa zokambirana zomwe maso ayenera kuunika. Khala wotsimikiza, iwe ndiwe msungwana wokongola ndi wokondweretsa, mwamuna uyu ayenera kulira ndi chimwemwe, kuti iwe wamusamalira. Tangoganizani nokha kuti mumakonda kwambiri heroine, mukhoza kuyesa kugwiritsa ntchito zithunzi zosiyana, koma makamaka ndi alendo. Anzanu achikulire, ndithudi, akudziwani bwino, ndipo ngati ali kale, ndiye kuti mungakhale otsimikiza, ndinu okondweretsa kulankhulana, ndipo luso lakukopana ndi amuna mwa inu linaikidwa ndi chibadwa cha amayi. Choncho, gwiritsani ntchito thanzi lanu, gogolani aliyense momasuka ndi kukhudzidwa, koma musaiwale za chinsinsi chomwe mkazi aliyense ayenera kukhala nacho.
Ndikhoza kugawana nthano yosangalatsa, monga mnzanga, msungwana wodzichepetsa, kwa nthawi yayitali sangaphunzire kukondana ndi anyamata, izi ndikumasowa amuna. Kotero, pa phwando lotsatira la bachelorette ife, titasintha bwenzi ndi chithandizo cha zodzoladzola ndi zipangizo, tinamupatsa malangizo owongoka. Mgwirizanowo unali motere: timamuyang'ana mwakachetechete pa benchi yotsatira, pamene akumangirira maso ndi kumwetulira mokoma mtima. Mowona mtima, sindikukumbukira kuti angati anyamata akuwonetsa chikhumbo chokumana naye, panali ambiri a iwo, ndipo ena akumayankhulanabe. Onse anasangalala ndi zotsatira zake, makamaka chibwenzi chathu chamanyazi. Choncho, ngati mukudzichitira nokha chinthu choterocho, bwerezani zomwe takumana nazo ndi anzathu. Masewera osangalatsa ndi osalakwa angathe kukuthandizani kuposa wamaganizo onse. Ndipo iwe, pambuyo pa kuphunzitsa, kotero, ukhoza kupita kumsaka weniweni, ndi chida chogwira ntchito kwambiri mdziko la anthu, kukwatira.