Mungaganize kuti izi ndi zopanda pake zomwe siziyenera kuziganizira. Ndipo mwachabe! Pambuyo pake, zimadalira iwo khalidwe la moyo wanu wa kugonana, mgwirizano wa dziko lanu lapamtima. Nazi mfundo zochititsa chidwi zokhuza kugonana zomwe mukufunikira kudziwa. Dziwone nokha ndi mnzanuyo ndi maso ena. Ndipo-chifukwa cha chifukwa ...
1. Mkazi aliyense akhoza kupeza malo omwe zimakhala zosavuta komanso zosavuta.
Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mukhoza kuyima pa zomwe zapindula ndikusiya kuyesa konse. Koma ndi bwino kudziwa kupambana kupambana, zomwe zidzakuthandizani mulimonsemo. Kumbukirani malingaliro anu, kutsindika, pa malo omwe ali amphamvu komanso ozama. Izi zidzakhala zodabwitsa zanu m'tsogolomu.
2. Mphoto yanu yopambana ingasinthe.
Pa moyo, kumvetsetsa kwathu, mawonekedwe athu ndi zosowa zathu zakuthupi zimasintha. Ndipo zomwe zimawoneka zabwino zaka khumi zapitazo ndi mwamuna wake woyamba, zikhoza kusiya kugwira ntchito. Penyani momwe kusintha kwanu kumasinthira. Ndipo musaganize kuti chinachake chalakwika ndi inu. Pezani malo atsopano, momwemo ndi mphamvu yomweyo yomwe mungamve kuti ndi yovuta. Kapena mwinamwake mukhoza kulilimbitsa ...
3. Kugonana kumakhalapo chifukwa.
Zimakhala zachilendo pa chifukwa chimodzi chosavuta: amagwira ntchito. Ndipo, ngati mukusowa zokhudzidwa zatsopano, konzekerani chipinda m'nyumba yina, khalani madzulo pamodzi, musambe ndi chithovu ndipo kamodzi mu moyo wanu yesetsani kuyatsa makandulo. Kodi ndi corny? Koma zogwira mtima! Kumbukirani kuti imamenyedwa ndi kuyesedwa ndi aliyense. Ingosangalala ndi kusangalala.
4. Nthawi zonse zimawoneka kuti aliyense akugonana nthawi zambiri kuposa iwe.
Palibe chinthu chonga "chizolowezi chogonana". Ndikofunika, kani, khalidwe, ndipo ndi bwino kudzifunsa nokha funso limodzi: kodi inuyo mumagonana mokwanira tsopano? Ndipo ngati mutayankha "inde", ndiye kuti mukhoza kutulutsa nambala iliyonse.
5. Mwinamwake ndiyenera kuyankhula ndi mwamuna?
Sizovuta kunena za kugonana, koma taganizirani: sizinthu zochepa zochititsa manyazi kuti zikhumbo zanu zobisika zidzakwaniritsidwe? Ndipotu, anthu sangaganizire zomwe mukufuna. Ngakhale atakhala okonda komanso akufunitsitsa kukukondweretsani.
6. Kugonana kosinthika kungakhale kosavuta kuposa nthawi zonse.
Izi ndizolongosoka bwino komanso zanzeru: kuyembekezera kumachititsa zozizwitsa ndi amuna ndi akazi. Taganizani za izo. Ndipo bwino - yesani! Lembani munthu wanu mwa kukambirana za kugonana komweko, kuganiza, kukonzekera mwakhalidwe. Madzulo, chisangalalo chidzafika pachimake. Kugonana sikungokhululukika.
7. Mayi amafunikira nthawi kuti azigonana.
Masana, anthu ambiri amafunira chidwi chanu: ana anu, anzako ndi abwana kuntchito, mbuye wanu omwe mwamuitana kuti mukonzeko makina ochapa ... Zili zokayikitsa kuti mudzatha kukhalanso wobadwa kuchokera kwa mayi wogwira ntchito komanso mayi wa banja kuti mukhale ndi chidwi chogonana panthawi yomweyo. Muyenera kupuma! Kodi mwamuna asambe mbale pamene mumasamba ndikuwerenga bukuli? Ndipo, mwinamwake, zitatha izi mudzayamba kugonana. Nthawi zambiri mumagonana, chilakolakocho chimakula kwambiri. Zikondwerero zabwino zimakukakamizani kuti mupeze nthawi zosangalatsa. Ndipo mosiyana: ngati mumakonda kuchita popanda kugonana, zimayamba kuoneka kuti sizikufunikira.
9. Ngakhale ngati mukufunadi kugona ndi kugona atangogonana, fufuzani mphamvu yakuuka ndi kupita kuchimbudzi.
Nchifukwa chiyani chiri chofunikira kwambiri? Chifukwa nthawi zambiri amachepetsa chiopsezo cha matenda. Komabe, ngati muli ndi bwenzi losatha ndipo muli otsimikizikadi - lamuloli nthawi zina lingalephereke.
10. Mukabwerera kuchokera kuchimbudzi, mwamuna wanu akugona.
Pakati pa kugonana, minofu imakhala yovutitsa, ndipo itatha kuyimitsa thupi la munthu nthawi yomweyo relaxes. Kuonjezera apo, magazi amapeza mahomoni ochuluka omwe amayambitsa kugona. Mwachidule, munthu akugona ndipo sangathe kuthandizira.
11. Kuda nkhawa chifukwa chakuti zifukwa zina sizingabwere, ndi njira yeniyeni yopitilirapo.
Mukuganiza kuti: "Cholakwika ndi ine ndi chiyani? Kodi vuto ndi chiyani? Nchifukwa chiyani palibe chomwe chikuchitika? "Koma ... pamene mumaganizira kwambiri, simukumva. Yesetsani kuyang'ana pa zokondweretsa zokha - ndipo chifukwa cha nkhawa simungakhalepo.
12. Njira zothandizira kulera ziyenera kusinthidwa.
Madokotala amakhulupirira kuti mkazi ayenera kuganiziranso njira za kulera kokha kawiri pa moyo wake. Nthawi yoyamba - pamene muli ndi mnzanu wamuyaya, wachiwiri - pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa ana. Zimadalira mahomoni ndi kusintha kwa malamulo, thupi limangidwe. Mukasintha njira za kulera, ndibwino kuti mufunsane ndi dokotala.
13. Musamapweteke panthawi yogonana.
Ngati nthawi zina mumakhala ndikumva bwino mukamagonana, izi siziyenera kukukhumudwitsani. Koma, ngati mwakhumudwa nthawi zambiri, onetsetsani kuti mukuonana ndi dokotala. Musachikoka! Zizindikiro zofanana ndizo matenda aakulu a akazi. Musalole kuti iwo akudutseni modabwa!
14. Nthawi zina kugonana msanga ndi njira yabwino kwambiri.
Ngati mudikira kulakalaka kwakukulu komwe tsiku lina ndikukuphimba iwe ndi mwamuna wako, kuyembekezera kungakhale nthawi yayitali. Yesetsani kusiya zomwe mukuyembekezera ndipo thupi lanu lidzakuthokozani.
15. Nthawi zina mumangofuna kugona.
Nthawi zina, mwatopa moti simungathe ngakhale kusuntha, osakondweretsa zosangalatsa. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti ubale ndi mnzanuyo watha mphamvu. Mwinamwake, zimangonena kuti muli ndi ana aang'ono, ntchito yamanjenje kapena mukufuna kungokhala nokha nokha. Izi ndi zachilendo! Yesetsani kuti mnzanuyo azitenga mokwanira.
16. Kwa mwamuna, kugonana ndi njira yofotokozera malingaliro anu.
Mzimayi akugona ndi mwamuna amene amamukonda, ndipo mwamuna amakonda mkazi amene akugona naye. Mawuwa akuwunikira momveka bwino momwe ife timasiyanirana ndi kugonana. Sikuti aliyense angathe kukuuzani mawu okongola okhudza chikondi chachikulu, ndipo musakhumudwitsidwe chifukwa cha izi.
17. Palibe chochititsa manyazi chifukwa nthawi zina zimangotenga.
Ndithudi mumakonda kukondweretsa mwamuna wanu wokondedwa, ndipo amakhalanso wokondwa kuzindikira kuti akhoza kukupusitsani. Tengani! Izi ndi zothandiza. Ndipo kudzimva kuti ndi wolakwa pano ndi kopambana kwambiri.
18. Inde, mukhoza kuthandiza munthu wokondedwa wanu.
Thupi la mkazi aliyense ndi lapadera. Ndipo munthu angadziwe bwanji za zomwe zimakupatsani chisangalalo, ngati simumamuuza kapena kumuwonetsa zomwe mumakonda? Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kusiya manyazi onyenga ndikuvomereza momveka bwino kuti mukukuyendetsa misala, ndipo mosiyana ndi zimenezo, simukuzikonda. Khulupirirani, mwamunayo adzangokuthokozani nokha pazomwezo. Izi zidzakhala thandizo lenileni kwa iye.
19. Ndili ndi zaka, kugonana kumakhala bwino.
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zochititsa chidwi kwambiri zokhudza kugonana. Mwinamwake zimadalira zomwe zinapindula kapena kusintha kwa hormonal. Mwinamwake ndi chifukwa chakuti pomaliza mwaphunzira kudzidzimvetsa nokha ndi mnzanuyo. Koma, ngakhale zili choncho, tsogolo ndilobwino! Azimayi ambiri amavomereza kuti anayamba kumverera mwachibwibwi pambuyo pa makumi anayi. Ndipo amuna omwe ali ndi msinkhu amakhala omvetsera kwambiri, osamala komanso amatha kudziletsa okha pazogonana.