Pamene nsalu zapamwamba zowonjezera, zitsulo zamabedi ndi zinthu zina zamatabwa, mungathe kuwonetsa masewerowa, kuganizira za moyo, mumangotentha kutentha kwake, panikizani ndikumangirira.
Koma apa pali malaya a amuna, izi ndi nkhani ina, ndi momwe apongozi anga akunenera kuti malaya a mwamuna wake ndi nkhope yanu. Ndiyeno inu mukuzindikira kuti iwo samasowa makwinya. Kuwonjezera apo, ndi nthawi yamaphunziro, ndi zabwino kusonyeza mwamuna wanga, malaya angapo a amuna ovala zitsulo, monga chitsanzo cha matenda ake ndi bungwe lake. Ndipo ngati malaya a mwamuna wake atsekedwa mu kutembenuza kotsiriza, ndiye kuti sipadzakhalanso nthawi yotsalira.
Pa intaneti mungapeze malangizo omwe amalembedwa, mwinamwake, ndi akatswiri ogwiritsira ntchito zowonjezera, ndipo cholinga chawo ndi kuwopseza zovuta zogwirira ntchito za amayi amasiye ndi kulimbikitsa zoyenera zawo. Koma mu bukhu lakale losungiramo nyumba, kumasulidwa kwa zaka za m'ma 50, ndinapeza momwe ndingasamalire zovala za amuna komanso tsopano kwa zaka 20, ndimatsatira malangizo awa, ndipo mwamuna wanga amakhutira ndi kuyimba.
Sitikulankhula za kufunika kokhala ndi zitsulo zabwino, kotero kuti palibe zowonjezera zophimba zopsereza, komiti yabwino yosungira, timapereka malangizo kwa amayi.
Pat malaya.
1. Kuthira ku kolala .
Choyamba, mbali yolakwika ndikuyambira kuchokera kumakona. Timagwiritsira ntchito nthunzi, cholinga chathu ndi "pripasadit" nsalu yaying'ono, zidzakhala zosavuta kumbali kuti tipewe mapepala. Musamamvetsetse zolemberazo pambali yolakwika, musamapanikize moyo wanu. Kenaka chitsulo kutsogolo kutsogolo kwa kolala, kusuntha chitsulo kuchokera kumakona, kunja kwa m'mphepete kupita ku kampani. Musati muweramitse kolala ya malaya pa peyala, ndipo mutayendetsa khola, tidzakhala ndi zotsatira zovuta, ndipo palibe womangiriza yemwe sangathe kukonza.
2. Manja a malaya.
Manjawa amangiridwa ndi chikho. Monga ngati kolala yachitsulo yake yochokera kumbali yolakwika, kuti "abzala" nsalu, kuti asawonekere makwinya pambali kutsogolo. Ngati manjawo akukongoletsedwa ndi bala lachitsulo, chitsulo chokhala ndi mbali yolakwika, ndi cholinga chomwecho. Kenaka mwamsanga ndi mophweka kumangoyima pambali kutsogolo kwa malaya. Pa intaneti, mukhoza kuwerenga kuti "osati monga mukufunikira", kuti mukhale ndivi kuchokera kutsulo pamanja. Iyi ndi bizinesi yanu, mungagwiritse ntchito chidindo chapadera cha manja kuti musokoneze pakati. Koma ngati mwamuna wanu sali snob, musamapanikize moyo wanu, ngati mutha kupeza njira zomwe mungagwiritsire ntchito ndalama zowonjezera.
Kenaka ikani manjawo pamsana. Tiyeni tiwone kuti ngati mutawo uli kale, ndiye kuti wachiwiri ayenera kukhala chimodzimodzi, mwinamwake zidzatuluka mwachindunji. Chitsulo chokhala ndi chitsulo kuchokera paphewa mpaka chitofu, kuchokera muvi mpaka msoko. Choyamba, chitsulo kutsogolo, kenaka chitembenuzireni, chitani bwino ndi kusunga kumbuyo kwa theka. Bweretsani masitepe omwewo ndi malaya ena a malaya.
3. Masamulo okhala ndi mabatani .
Timapukuta shati pa gawo lophatikizana la bolodi ndi gawo lakumtunda, kupweteketsa coquette ndikukwera. Timasuntha chitsulo ndi chitsulo theka lina la alumali. Ndipo timadumpha kuchokera pamphepete momwe mabataniwo aliri, ndikusunthira kumbali.
4. Kumbuyo.
Timapweteka kumbuyo kumbali ya kumanja ya malaya kumbali ya kumanzere, ndipo pamene tikufika pamtsinje, tembenuzirani.
Lembani zoterezi, mbali yoyamba yam'mbali, pamwamba pamsana wa msoko, yambani, yang'anireni coquette, isunthireni, yesani pakati. Kenaka tulukani - mbali ya kumanzere ya coquette, pita kumsana wa dzanja lamanzere, ndi pansi, kumbali ya mbali ya shati.
5. Salifu lamanzere la malaya .
Timagwedeza msoko kuchokera pamsana mpaka pamphepete, pomwe matopewo amapezeka, amangochitika kamodzi kokha, kuzungulira kuzungulira khola ndikuwongolera chikhomo. Makhalidwe abwinowa ndi ophweka - ayambani ndi mfundo zing'onozing'ono, kuchokera kumbali yolakwika, kukwapula makapu ndi kolala. Ndiye manjawo, ngati tiwatsulola pamapeto, sitidzawatsitsa malaya a munthuyo. Tsopano timapweteketsa malaya omwewo, timayenda mozungulirana, tiyambe kuchoka pa mabatani, ndikusunthira kumbali yina. Titatha kutulutsa, timayika malaya pamapachikiti, ozizira. Icho chidzafulumira ndi chophweka. Ndipo ndi zochitika zomwe mungathe pokonza zowonjezera ndikuganiza za moyo ndikuwonetseratu.
Tsopano tikudziwa momwe mungasamalire malaya a munthu ndi momwe mungachitire ndi malamulo onse.