Momwe mungagwirire mnyamata ndi zomwe amamvetsera

Mkazi aliyense amafuna kuti azikonda amuna. Izi sizosadabwitsa, chifukwa malingaliro ndi zokwanira zimathandiza ife kumverera okongola ndi kudzidalira. Ndi chifukwa chake atsikana ambiri amasangalala ndi funsoli: momwe angagwirire mnyamata ndipo amamvetsera chiyani?

Inde, pachiyambi, amuna amakhala ndi chidwi ndi maonekedwe. Musadzipusitse nokha ndikudzipangitsa nokha kuti kwa mnyamata wofunikira kwambiri ndi dziko lanu lolemera kwambiri. Sitikunenedwa kuti izi ndizopanda pake kwa iwo, koma pofufuza msungwana pamsewu, amuna ambiri saganiza kuti akulemba ndakatulo kapena munthu wachifundo. Koma amayang'ana mwachidwi pamilingo ndi m'chifuwa.

Ndicho chifukwa chake nthawi zonse muyenera kukhala okonzeka bwino komanso okongola. Anyamata amakonda pamene mkazi ali ndi chiwerengero. Pewani kuvala zovala zanu ndi mathalauza ambiri. Yesetsani kuvala madiresi ndi miketi, zisoti ndi jeans ziyenera kutsindika mwaulemu ulemu wanu ndi kubisala zolakwika. Komanso musaiwale zidendene. Nthawi zonse amachititsa miyendo yawo kukhala yochepa, ndipo mchitidwe wawo umakhala wochepa. Posankha zovala, simuyenera kusiya kuzinyadira ndi kuyankhula momveka bwino. Inde, ndi ichi mungamuthandize mnyamata, koma usiku umodzi wokha. Zovala ziyenera kukhala monga izi. Kuti muzimva mwachidule moona mtima. Mwachitsanzo, ngati mutabvala sweatshirt ndi neckline, musamabvaleketiketi yachabechabe. Akabudula amfupi adzawoneka ndi T-shirt yosatsekedwa bwino.

Pafupifupi achinyamata onse amakonda atsikana atakhala ndi tsitsi lalitali. Choncho, posankha tsitsi, musayime mwachidule. N'zoona kuti tsitsi lalitali limafuna kusamalidwa bwino. Palibe yemwe angakonde dona wonyezimira, tsitsi lofiira pamutu pake. Choncho, m'pofunika kutaya nthawi ndi ndalama pamasikisi osiyanasiyana, magetsi, shamposi, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zitsulo zanu zikhale zamoyo, zowirira komanso zonyezimira.

Ndiponso, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito zodzoladzola zabwino, zapamwamba kwambiri. Sankhani mapangidwe oyenera ndipo onetsetsani kuti mithunzi siidasindikidwe, ndipo inki sinafalikira.

Dziwani momwe mungasankhire zipangizo zoyenera. Chokongola thumba, thumba, zodzikongoletsera - chirichonse chiyenera kumangiriza chithunzi chanu chachikazi ndi chokongola.

Pokhapokha mutatha kunena kuti mukuwoneka bwino, pitani ku yankho lotsatira la funso: momwe mungagwirire mnyamata ndi zomwe amamvetsera.

Tsopano mukhoza kulankhula za khalidwe ndi mtendere wamkati. Kumbukirani kuti ngati mnyamata amamvetsera maonekedwe anu, izi sizikutanthauza kuti mumphindi zochepa sadzakhumudwa, atayankhula nanu. Makhalidwe ndi ofunika kwambiri pamene mukufuna kupanga bwino. Amayi onse ndi osiyana. Ena a iwo ndi amayi mwa chirengedwe, koma zina ndizofanana ndi khalidwe lachimuna. Ngati muli m'gulu lachiwiri, ndiye kuti muyang'aniraninso makhalidwe anu. Zoonadi, izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kugwiririra nthawi zonse. Ingomvetsetsani kuti ndi abwenzi mukhoza kuchita monga mukukondera, koma ndi mnyamata muyenera kukhala msungwana weniweni. Choncho, yang'anani kayendedwe kanu, momwe mungalankhulire, momwe mumaseka. Simungathe kusuntha manja anu nthawi zonse, kuyankhula mokweza komanso mumalingaliro, ndikuseka mokweza. Yesetsani kudziletsa nokha ndi kuyang'anira zonse zomwe mumachita. Zoonadi, pachiyambi zidzakhala zovuta, koma kenako mudzazizoloƔera ndikusiya kulingalira za izo. Ndipo chinthu chinanso - musamamwe mowa kwambiri. Ngakhale mutakhala mabwenzi ndi anyamata moyo wanu wonse ndikumwa botolo la mowa mofulumira nthawi zonse, mnyamata sangathe kudziwa. Kawirikawiri, musanene nkhani zomwe zingakulepheretseni. Aloleni iwo aziseketsa kwambiri ndipo ngati mnyamata, pambuyo pake iye sangakuwone msungwana, koma m'bale. Ndipo ngakhalenso kunja kwa chic sikuthandiza pano.

Chinthu china chomwe chili chofunikira kwa mtsikana amene akufuna kuwatenga anthu ndi erudition. Kawirikawiri, anyamata amamvetsera msinkhu wa maphunziro, chikhalidwe cha zomwe mtsikanayo amalankhula. Inde, sikofunikira kwa anyamata onse, koma ndikuganiza kuti Vasya, ndi maphunziro osatha a sukulu zamaphunziro, izi sizili malire a maloto anu. Munthu wamba nthawi zonse amakonda kulankhula za mabuku, luso, masewero. Zimangowoneka kuti amuna amakondwera ndi makompyuta ndi magalimoto. Ndipotu izi siziri choncho. Achinyamata ambiri amawerenga nthawi zonse, amapita kuzojambula zamakono, amakondwera ndi zochitika zatsopano. Ndicho chifukwa chake muyenera nthawizonse kudzipangira. Mukamadziwa zambiri, zambiri zidzakhala zokambirana, chidwi ndi ulemu. Mwa njira, atsikana omwe amamvetsa zambiri komanso zinthu zomwe zimawoneka ngati zachimuna, zimachititsa anyamata kukhala osangalala. Inde, kudzikonda nokha ndi magalimoto ndi zipangizo sikuli koyenera, koma ngati izi zikukukhudzani, onetsetsani kuti mumatchula zokondweretsa zanu pokambirana.

Mayi nthawi zonse ayenera kukhala chinsinsi. Musalankhule za inu nokha mwakamodzi. Inde, kusewera mapuzzles ndi charades sizomwe mungachite, muyenera kungodziwa. Pali zambiri zomwe ziyenera kuperekedwa kapena zosatchulidwa. Osamuuza anthu osadziwika za maofesi awo, mavuto, banja, amzanga. Ndikofunika kumudziwa munthuyo asanatsegule pamaso pake. Pali nkhani zambiri zosangalatsa zomwe sizili zaumwini komanso zili zoyenera kulankhulana mosavuta. Nyimbo, mafilimu, ndale, pamapeto - mndandandawu ukhoza kupitilira kwa nthawi yaitali kwambiri. Sankhani kuchokera kwa iwo zomwe zimagwira ntchito bwino ndikuyankhulana ndi thanzi.

Amuna okongola - uwu ndi luso lomwe lakhalapo kuyambira tili mwana. Funso lokha ndiloti tingathe kuligwiritsa ntchito kapena kulibisa penapake. Ndichifukwa chake, musayiwale kuti ndinu mkazi. Munthu ayenera kuyesa kukhala mkazi weniweni, wodalirika komanso wodzitama, koma asatembenuke kukhala munthu wodzikuza komanso wosazindikira yemwe akufuna kuti agwetsedwe ndi amuna. Anyamata amakonda kuthandizira ndi kuteteza, koma sangathe kukwaniritsa zolinga zonse, ndithudi, ngati sizinthu zosawonongeka. Ndicho chifukwa chake, muzonse mumadziwa muyeso ndikumvetsera mwatchutchutchu wanu, ndiye kuti mutheka bwino.