Chilankhulo cha manja
Pofuna kukukopa chidwi, iye amayesetsa mwakhama kusonyeza yekha. Mwachitsanzo, mwadzidzidzi angayambe kuchita zinthu mopitirira malire, kukhala wodandaula, wotsutsa, kapena wotsutsa, adzapita pang'onopang'ono - chofunika kwambiri, ayenera kukhala wosiyana ndi misala yonse, kuti muzindikire.
Ngati munthu ali ndi chidwi ndi zomwe akuwona, kamwa yake imatsegula mosagwirizana ndipo ziphuphu zake zimatha. Chidwi china chimene mungapereke kwa ophunzira ake. Ichi ndi chizindikiro cha 100% chimene munthu akufuna.
Mukangoyang'ana munthuyo, nthawi yomweyo amayamba kukonza chinachake kuchokera kumaso ake - manja, chimanga, masokosi. Izi zikusonyeza kuti akufuna kukudodometsani, kapena chidwi kuti mumamukondweretsa.
Amayamba kukhudza nkhope yake pokambirana nanu - ichi ndi chizindikiro chosonyeza chisangalalo, chilakolako chowoneka bwino.
Aimirira patsogolo panu, akugwira manja ake m'chiuno kapena pa lamba - amadzidalira. Ndipo manja osamvetsetsa amatsindika malo omwe akufuna kuti muwadandaule.
Mwamunayo anaponyera jekete yake kapena thukuta kuzungulira mapewa anu, akufuna kuti akuwotha. Chizindikiro choterocho ndi chofunika kwambiri - ndiwe mkazi wake, akufuna kuteteza ndikukuteteza.
Pazinthu
Amanyansidwa akunena za momwe chakudya chimaphikidwa m'malo ammudzi. Malingaliro amenewa apangidwa kwa akazi kuti sipangakhale kanthu kabwino kuposa kuphika kunyumba. Mwamunayu amatha kumvetsa kuti ndi bwino kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama pa chinthu chofunikira kusiyana ndi kuwawononga.
Mukufuna kupita kwinakwake kukaluma, ndipo mwamuna wanu mwadzidzidzi akuyamba kukuuzani momwe kuyenda kuli kofunikira pamwezi. Pali chifukwa chosavuta - alibe ndalama zokwanira pompano kuti azilipira kaye.
M'malo mwa kutengeka kokondedwa kumaphatikizapo pulogalamu yophika kapena amaika m'magazini otchuka odyera. Malingaliro oterewa amatanthauza kuti wokondedwa angafune kuwona mbale zosiyanasiyana zomwe zakonzedwa ndi iwe.
Zinsinsi za kuyankhulana
1. Amuna samawakonda poyera ndipo amafotokozera mozama mtima awo. Ngati wokondedwa wakuuzani kuti ndinu wokongola muvalidwe - ichi ndi chitsanzo chapamwamba kwambiri. Simungathe kumva mawu awa: okongola, odabwitsa, okongola. Zonsezi zimachokera ku mawu achikazi.
2. Amuna onse amakhala ndi chizolowezi chosokoneza. Iwo samachita izi kuti akukhumudwitseni inu, koma nthawi zambiri sizichitika mosazindikira. Ubongo wamwamuna umaganizira kupanga chisankho. Pachifukwachi, pamene mutha kulimbana ndi vutoli - likhoza kupereka kale njira zingapo zothetsera vutoli, osamvetsetsa mfundo zanu mpaka mapeto.
3. Mukakambirana ndi mwamuna, nthawi zonse muziyamba ndi chinthu chachikulu, ndiyeno muyambe kumvetsetsa. Lankhulani pamene kuli kotheka - malingaliro kwa amayi apatsidwa mosavuta, koma amuna awo amamvetsa bwino.
4. Anthu onse amakonda kukangana. Musati mutenge izi ngati chikhumbo chokangana ndi kuwononga ubale wanu. Ndibwino kuti musamuvutitse - amuna ndi akazi nthawi zonse amatsimikizira chinachake, ndicho chikhalidwe chawo.
5. Mukawona kuti mkangano ukuyandikira - mutengeni dzanja kapena kukumbatirani. Kumkhudza iye, mumasokoneza malingaliro ake ndi kutanthauzira kuchokera ku khalidwe labwino lomwe likuwonekera pamtima.
Malangizo a amuna samakhala omveka nthawi zonse, ndipo nthawi zina amakhumudwitsa. Zikuwoneka kuti tsopano ndikumuuza zonse zomwe ndikuganiza! . . Koma khalani olekerera kugonana kolimba, phunzirani kuwamvetsa - ndiye kulankhulana kudzakhala kopanda zodandaula ndi kusamvetsetsana, mwa chimwemwe kwa inu nonse.