Sitingathe kufika kwa mwana nthawi yoyamba. Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Yankho lake ndi lodziwikiratu - muyenera kuzizoloŵera ku ufulu, osati pa masewera okha, komanso kuntchito ndi kumanga nyumba.
PAMALO OYAMBA
Mfundo yakuti ana sakonda kukhala ndekha mwachibadwa. Ndi kubadwa kwa mwana wamwamuna m'dziko lathu, monga mu banja lirilonse lomwe likuoneka ngati mwana woyamba, chimwemwe ndi chisamaliro zinawonjezeredwa. Pamene mwamuna wanga anali kugwira ntchito, ndinkayenera kuchapa ndi kusamba zovala, ndikuphika chakudya, ndipo ndinkafuna kupuma, koma mwana wanga ankafuna kuti azisamalira miniti iliyonse.
Ndinatulutsa khanda pakati pa chipinda, ndinatsegula zitseko zonse ndikuchita ntchito zapakhomo, nthawi zina ndikufuula kuchokera kuchimbudzi ndi kunja kwa khitchini ndikufotokozera zomwe ndikuchita tsopano ndi pamene ndidzabweranso. Mwanayo sanamvetse tanthawuzo la mawuwo, koma adayang'anitsitsa kusuntha kwathu kuzungulira nyumbayo, anamva mawu anga otetezeka ndipo anavomera kudikira pang'ono.
Ngakhale mwanayo asasunthire yekha, wina akhoza kuyesa ndi chidole chowala. Komabe, pempho loyambirira la mwanayo kuti abwerere kuchipatala, ndiye kuti kupezeka kwanu sikudzakhalanso ndi phokoso - mwanayo adzadziwa: Amayi adzabwera posachedwa. Pamene mwana wathu wamkazi anali yekha, mwanayo anali wokondwa, chifukwa panthawi imeneyo mlongo wamng'onoyo amayesera kupambana piramidi, kugogoda mitsuko, ndipo izi ndi zina, komanso masewera. Koma mwana wamwamuna wazaka ziwiri ndi wa miyezi isanu ndi umodzi anali, ndithudi, kovuta kukambirana, kachiwiri thandizo la amayi linkafunika. Yankho lake linapezeka: Ndinabzala m'khitchini pafupi ndi kabati, kumene ndinayamba kutulutsa zinthu zowononga ndi chopukusira nyama. Aliyense anali wokondwa: mphika wa masewera a phokoso unali wambiri, ndipo ndinkatha kulamulira nthawi ndi nthawi.
Pamene mwanayo ayamba kukwawa, ndi nthawi yoti mayi ayende momasuka. M'chipinda chodyera, mayi amatha kulola mwanayo kuti agwetse makapu kuchokera ku sofa, kupita kumagazini osangalatsa, kukhitchini - kusewera, mwachitsanzo, ndi zida zamatabwa. Zochita zoterezi zimakhala ndi luso lapamwamba lakumagalimoto, ndipo kulikonse amayi amatha kuyang'anira mwana wake, popanda kusokoneza kuphika kwa chakudya chamadzulo kapena kutsuka pansi.
OTHANDIZA ANTHU
Pakati pa chaka, ana amayamba ndi chimwemwe chochuluka kuti achite ntchito yosavuta ya amayi - kunyamula chipinda mu chipinda, kubweretsa supuni kuchokera pa tebulo, ndi zina zotero Ndikufuna kukumbukira poyang'ana kutsogolo, koma choonadi chofunikira: ntchito yopangidwa kuchokera kwa munthu. Kotero - ana ozoloŵera kugwira ntchito! Izi zili ndi ife, akuluakulu komanso nthawi zina anthu otopa kwambiri, ntchito ya kusukulu si yosangalatsa kwambiri, koma kwa mwanayo zonse zili zatsopano, choncho musaphonye mwayi wokondweretsa iye ndi bizinesi yatsopano komanso panthawi imodzimodziyo kuti mupindule nawo. Choyamba, ana amatha kutsuka okha, kutsuka mano awo ndi kupukuta nkhope zawo ndi matayala awo, ndipo kachiwiri, akhoza kutumikira patebulo: kubweretsa kapena makapu oyera, mbale, zikho, ndichitatu - kuthandizira mayi kuphika chakudya: perekani batala, mitsuko ya mchere, shuga, tirigu, chachinayi - kuphimba chifuwa chanu (pambuyo pa kuphunzitsa pang'ono zinthu zonse zidzatuluka!) ndi kusonkhanitsa mapilo, pamene mayi akunyamulira bulangeti mu chipinda chowonekera cha sofa. Ndipo ana amasangalala kulandira alendo-ana panthawi yomwe mayi anga amamwa tiyi kukhitchini ndi makolo ake. Inde, aliyense wa ife akhoza kusintha mndandanda umenewu pa luntha lathu. Mwachibadwidwe, ndi kosavuta kudyetsa mwanayo mwiniwake kapena kumubzala pa mphika kusiyana ndi kupatsa wokondedwa wake ufulu wochulukirapo, ndikusambitsuka ndikusambitsa zakudya zonse m'thupi kapena zoipitsa. Koma ndikukhulupirirani, mwanayo adzapeza mwamsanga lusoli, monga mibadwo yambiri ya makolo ake.
KUPHUNZIRA NDI KUCHITA
Injini ya kudziimira ya mwanayo, ndithudi, mwanayo akuphunzira maluso osiyanasiyana ndi njira zogwirizana ndi zinthu zozungulira. Podziwa luso limeneli ndi njirazi, mwanayo akhoza kuzigwiritsa ntchito mofanana kapena pazinthu zosinthidwa pang'ono - choncho anene a psychologists a ana ndi aphunzitsi. Ndipo timaphunzitsa ana kuti azikwawa, kuyenda ndi kuthamanga, koma amayenera kuphunzira ndikudzipangira okha - gwiritsani ntchito mphika, kusesa pansi ndi tsache, ngati mumamira, fufuzani mpango ndikupukuta mphuno zanu, etc. Zonsezi mwanayo amaphunzira bwino komanso mofulumira ngati kuti muwawonetse iwo mu mawonekedwe osewera. Mwachitsanzo, mumaphunzitsa mwana kuti adye yekha - kupeza supuni mkamwa mwanu. Khalani pafupi ndi chidole chomwe chiri chosavuta kuyeretsa, ndipo lolani mwanayo ayese ndi "kudyetsa" izo. Posachedwa mudzapeza kuti mwana wanu wokondedwa akuyesera kudyetsa yekha ndi zikopa kumbali yake: abambo, achibale, abwenzi ndi zimbalangondo. "Kudyetsa" koteroku kumangosintha luso la mwanayo, komanso kumapangitsa kuti azisewera ntchito zosiyanasiyana.
Pofuna kuteteza mwana kuti asamangokhalira kukhumudwa komanso kukhumudwa, Amayi ayenera kukhala ndi nthawi yosintha ntchito yake. Ndipo pano kulenga kumathandiza - chimodzi mwa zigawo zofunika kwambiri pazochitika za mwanayo. Mukhoza kukopera chala pa ufa wophika pa tebulo, kapena mukhoza kujambula papepala. Mukhoza kuwongolera mapensulo achikuda ndi ofiira, ndikuphunzitseni momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito phokosoli. Mukhoza kutenga bokosi la pulasitiki ndikukonzekera ntchito ya achinyamata ojambula zithunzi. Ine mwadala sindimatchula zenizeni ndikumangiriza apa, chifukwa timayankhula za makalasi ndi masewera popanda mayi anga kutenga nawo mbali. Maphunziro ochititsa chidwi ndi ochuluka, ndithudi, amakhala osangalatsa kwambiri kawiri pamodzi ndi amayi anga, koma ngati ali kutali kwa miniti, miniti iyi siidzakhala yopanda pake.
M'banja mwathu, chinthu chomwe chimakonda kwambiri chikukoka pa pepala lalikulu la Whatman. Ndikuwongolera mapensulo, ndikuikapo chomanjamanja pansi, ndiye timasankha mutu wojambula, mwachitsanzo, Africa, ndipo ndikulemba mapu ambiri a Africa. Ana omwe ali ndi chidwi chachikulu amakoka zambiri (mapiramidi, mitsinje, zipululu). Kusewera mu ziweto za ku Africa kapena Dr. Aybolit pa khadi lopanga, anyamatawo ndi okondweretsa kwambiri kuposa omwe anagula, makamaka popeza wina akhoza kutulutsa zinthu zosowa. Mukamapatsa mwana izi kapena ntchitoyi, musaiwale kulingalira za msinkhu wake, makamaka kukonzekera ntchito yodziimira yekha: ngati mwana wayamba kuyenda, nthawi zonse amakhala ndi luso latsopano, masewera ena ndi zochitika zingathe kumbuyo. Mwana wamkuluyo ayenera kukumbukira mtundu wa ntchito ndi ntchito zomwe amamuyembekezera masana, kuti aphunzire kukonza nthawi yake yaulere - zinthu zamtengo wapatali komanso zoyembekezeredwa kwake zidzakhala nthawi ya masewera odziimira. Ndipo chofunikira kwambiri - mwanayo ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti akachita chinachake, amawathandiza makolo ndipo ndiwothandiza kwambiri. Chabwino, ngati iye sanagwire ntchito yake yonse mwakachetechete tsiku lonse ndipo sanasokoneze mayi ake, koma adasesa pansi, asamba mbale, anadza ndi masewera atsopano kwa mlongo wamng'onoyo, ndiye munthu wabwino chabe!