Kwa iye
- Yang'anani mnzanuyo. Msungwana aliyense ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi zizolowezi zake, khalidwe lake, umunthu wake, ndipo mwachiwonekere, malo ake osadziwika komanso njira zopezera chisangalalo. Mwatsoka, sikuti munthu aliyense amatha kuzindikira izi ndikusintha kwa yemwe kale anali naye pachibwenzi, makamaka ngati panali nthawi yochepa pakati pa maubwenzi. Inde, sikofunikira kufunsa mafunso a khalidwe lapamtima pa tsiku loyamba, koma aliyense amene ali ndi kafukufuku kakang'ono angathe kuzindikira zomwe zimachititsa kuti ayankhe bwino kwambiri kuchokera kwa wokondedwayo;
- Lankhulani pa kugonana. Kawirikawiri, amuna amakhala okhutira ndi opanga mauthenga pokhapokha pamsinkhu wa chibwenzi ndi kutsogolo, ndipo mwachindunji pabedi samakhala ngati nsomba. Kumbukirani kuti amai amakonda ndi makutu awo, komanso kuti kunyalanyaza kapena kuvomerezedwa komwe kumatha kung'ung'udza m'makutu anu kungathandize kwambiri popereka chisangalalo chokwanira kwa wokondedwayo;
- Musatengeke ndi chinthu chimodzi. Zoonadi, mfundo yokondweretsa G ndi yabwino, koma musamangoganizira chabe. Sikunatchulidwe kuti n'zotheka kupulumutsa mtsikana ku zosangalatsa komanso mothandizidwa ndi njira zina, mwachitsanzo kwa amayi ambiri, magulu osiyana siyana amakhala njira yabwino kwambiri komanso yokondweretsa kwambiri;
- Valani kondomu pasadakhale, osati kutsogolera kuti mtsikanayo anakumbutsani nokha. Ngakhale ngati zikuwoneka kuti ndi wamisala komanso osasinthika, muzoyanjana sizikulepheretsani kulondola, kusamala ndi kusamala pa mbali yanu. Ngati simukuiwala za izi, kupulumutsa mtsikanayo kuti akukumbutseni, njira yonseyi idzayenda bwino komanso yosavuta;
- Yesetsani kulimbikira kwambiri kukulitsa luso lanu pankhani ya kugonana, ngakhale mutasiya kusuta ndikukhala ndi mawonekedwe anu - izi zili zoyenera. Mwamtheradi ngati mutatsatira mawonekedwe anu, mukhoza kubweretsa mtsikanayo kumaliseche, yomwe imakhala yamphamvu kwambiri kuposa kampani imodzi. Komanso ndi bwino kukumbukira kuti msinkhu wa kuyenda ndi woyenera nthawi zambiri mpaka kumapeto kwa kugonana, koma osati pachiyambi, pokhapokha ngati mukugonana panthawi yovuta;
Kwa iye
- Munthuyo akuyang'ane! Mwamuna amakonda maso ake, aliyense amadziwa izi. Komabe, pazifukwa zina nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti mkazi akuyesera kuti abweretse kukongola kwa moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku, koma osati pabedi. Sizakhalanso mochedwa kwambiri kuti mudziwe momwe mungagwirire bwino kuti muwonetsere nokha muwona wokongola kwambiri. Izi, kuphatikizapo chikhumbo chenicheni chokondweretsa wokondedwa, zingathe kukondweretsa kwambiri kugonana kwanu;
- Chitanipo kanthu. Malangizo awa akhoza kuwoneka osadabwitsa, chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti njira yoyenera ndi yowona kuti kugonana kumakhala kolimba. Komabe, ichi si chiphunzitso, ndipo inunso mukhoza kutenga njira yonyenga m'manja mwanu. Musakhale wamanyazi, yesetsani kunyenga mnzanuyo ndikumutsogolera - iye adzakuthokozani ndithu;
- Musaiwale za inu nokha. Inde, ndizo - khalani odzikonda, chifukwa mukufunikira kugonana mosiyana ndi mnzanuyo. Mundikhulupirire ine, kukhutira kwa munthu kuchokera mu lingaliro kuti akhoza kukupatsani inu chisangalalo, kudzakulitsa kwambiri chisangalalo chake pa njirayi. Izi ziridi choncho;
- Onetsani chifundo. Ngakhalenso chikondi chaching'ono kwambiri chingapangitse khungu kuti likhale lopweteka. Kuleza mtima kumatha kuchititsa ubale wanu kukhala tanthauzo lapadera, kutengera kugonana kwachisawawa kukhala kukongola kosaneneka kopanga chikondi. Kusiyana kuli kofunika, ndikhulupirire ine;
- Musakhale amodzi, sungani zambiri. Thandizani mwamuna, chifukwa nthawi zambiri amayenera kupita patsogolo pazogonana, ndipo sizimakhala zosavuta kwa iye nthawi zonse. Ndipo ngakhale kuthandizidwa pang'ono panthawi yomweyi kungathandize kwambiri kusintha khalidwe la kugonana.