Dikirani, ndi iye!
Kaya timakonda kapena ayi, mphamvu yoyamba kwa mnyamata ndi yaikulu kwambiri moti imakhudza kwambiri maganizo a munthu kapena chinthu. Akatswiri a zamaganizo anapatsa chodabwitsa ichi dzina lakuti imprinting - "imprinting". Malingana ndi maganizo oyambirira, ubongo umayamba kufanizitsa ndi zizindikiro zabwino zomwe zakhazikitsidwa kale. Izi ndizo, fano la kalonga wokongola, limene munalota, nthawi yoyamba kumva nkhani ya Cinderella, idzayamikiridwa kwambiri ndi munthuyo, kumuthandiza kukhala woyenera. Koma izi ndizochitika mwachikondi panthawi yoyamba, ndiko kuti, mwangwiro mwathunthu wa zowawa zoyamba ndi zoyenera. Tiyeni tisamayembekezere zotsatira zabwino za zochitikazo ndi kuyesa kukopa maganizo a MCH.
Popanda mawu
Kotero, inu mukuwona "chinthu" -mnyamata, ndipo, ndithudi, mukuyenera kuti muchite chinachake-bwerani, muyang'ane naye, mumudziwe, muzingoyankhula, chifukwa cha njira zingapo zokondweretsa mnyamata. Mwinamwake mukudziwa kale kuti zambiri zomwe timalandira kuchokera ku zizindikiro zosalankhula - chifukwa munthuyo amawoneka, amayenda, amayang'ana. Poyamba, izi ndizofunika kwambiri. Nchiyani chomwe chidzagwira ntchito motsimikizika? Chidaliro. Munthu wosatsimikizika sangathe kukhala wodekha, ndipo nkhawa imangowerengedwa ndikuchitapo kanthu, ngakhale kuti mukuyesera kudziyerekezera kuti zonse zili bwino. Kungokhala "okoma mtima" sikuyenera kuchitidwa. Pumulani. Palibe choopsa chochitika.
Mfundo iyi ikutsatira mwachindunji kuchokera kumbuyo. Musamamamatire mnyamata ndipo musayese kugwedezeka kuti mutenge mpata kapena malo omwe mumakhala nawo - izo ziwoneka, ndipo zotsatira sizigwira ntchito. Poyesera kugunda pomwepo, simukusowa kuti muwonetsere wosakanizidwa wa clown ndi wojambula wa kanema wamkati. Kuwonetsa kakomedwe kowoneka mowonjezereka kungaoneke kuti sikwanira ndithu. Chisangalalo choyamba ndi njira yabwino kwambiri. Kenaka ganizirani pazochitikazo. Mawu otsika, Zoonadi, simukusowa kuyankhula mwachidwi ndi mabasi. Yesetsani kuyankhula mochepa monga mwachirengedwe kwa inu. Kuwonekera mwachidwi. Mawu akuti "kufotokozera" akutanthauza, choyamba, kuti simungayang'ane msilikaliyo mosalekeza, kapena, kutsogolo, yang'anani maso anu poopa kumuyang'ana. Mwa njira, kumbukirani wotchuka "mu ngodya - pamphuno - pa phunziro"? Sizithunzithunzi zoterezi: kuyenda kwa maso mosiyana kuchokera pansi ndikumveka bwino kwambiri. Koma, mwinamwake, kumafunikanso pang'ono. Mungayesere pakali pano pagalasi, kuti mukhale ndi zida zokwanira pa nthawi yoyenera.
Ndipo tsopano tikulankhula
Tiyeni tiyembekezere kuti simukuyenera kumangomangirira chabe ndi manja.
Mu nthawi ya "miniti yoyamba" ya njira zoyenera kuti muyankhule ndi mnyamata sizinali zambiri. Mungayesere kuyankhula chifukwa cha njira zingapo zokondweretsa mnyamata: Pangani chitamando. Inde, ziyenera kukhala zowona mtima komanso zofunika - zosagwirizana. Muloleni iye amve ngati katswiri. Funsani funso lirilonse ponena za zomwe mnyamatayo amamvetsetsa (koma osokonezeka mu dongosolo loyendetsa pansi panthaka). Kukhala "womvera" mwakhama sikukutanthauza kuti, "m'malo mwake, sungani mapulitsiro ndi zolemba, zomwe zimasonyeza kuti mumamvetsa zonse ndipo mukuzifuna. Ganizirani ziganizo zambiri pa msonkhano wa khumi kapena makalata oganiza bwino. Ndipo ndibwino kuti musapatukepo pang'onopang'ono zinthu zokhumudwitsa: mphuno yothamanga, kutafuna chingamu kapena chakudya m'kamwa mwanu.
Ntchito zapakhomo
Ngati muli ndi mwayi ndipo muli ndi nthawi kuti mudziwe zofuna zawo ndi zokonda zanu, muyenera kukonzekera. Choyamba, funsani za zokonda zake mu nyimbo ndi mafashoni. Komabe, ndife okonzeka kwambiri kwa anthu omwe ali ngati ife, ndipo mutu wa zokambirana udzakhala wosavuta kupeza. Yesani kulingalira makhalidwe omwe atsikana amamukopa. Yesetsani kupeza lingaliro lofunikira, lingaliro, mwinamwake ngakhale lomveka. Kodi chibwenzi chake chimamukopa kapena amasankha atsikana omwe sagwira ntchito, osadziletsa?
Pa nthawi yomweyi, mawonekedwe apamwamba kwambiri monga "mnyamata amakonda ma blondes" kapena "osayanjanitsa ndi atsikana mumphindi" mungathe kudumpha pamutu. Mawu oterowo nthawi zambiri sagwirizana ndi zenizeni, ndipo n'zotheka kuika chidwi pa wokonda blond mu mini, ngakhale muli brunette mu jeans.
Lolani chithunzi cholakwika
Ziribe kanthu kuti mumalota bwanji za chidziwitso "monga kanema", zochita zochititsa mantha ndi zopanda nzeru zimachokera kukumbukira bwino kwambiri. Kotero ngati mukumverera ngati muli ndi mwayi wokhoza kugogoda pa galasi la madzi, funsani kuvina pamene palibe wina akuvina, kapena kuchita chinthu china chonyansa, ndiye kuti ndi bwino. Koma ngati mukukayikira ngakhale dontho, musachite chilichonse chonchi. Makhalidwe anu sayenera kukhala opanga ndikuzunzidwa. Musanachite chilichonse, ganizirani za momwe zidzakhalire pa izo, koma zokhuza nokha kutonthoza njira zingapo zokondweretsa mnyamata.
Mphamvu ya maganizo oyambirira kwa mnyamata ndi wamkulu kwambiri moti sizosintha kusintha maganizo anu panthawi yoyamba yolankhulana.
Kukonda poyang'ana koyamba sikophweka. Koma ife tidzathetsa!