Tsopano chizoloƔezi cholera mwana kuchokera pa chinsalu chiri chofewa kwambiri. Komabe, aphunzitsi ndi ana a psychologist akunena kuti sikofunikira kutsegula mwana wanu wamkulu - ndi bwino kuwathandiza kukhala omasuka mu malo oyandikana nawo, kotero kuti mosavuta ndi moyenera "alowe" mu moyo watsopano. Kodi mungachite bwanji zimenezi? Choyamba! Kusewera ndi mwana ndi ntchito yofunika kwambiri yophunzira. Kuonjezerapo, izi ndi zosangalatsa zokondweretsa - kwa inu ndi mwana.
Ndikufunanso kuganizira kufunikira kokhala ndi masewera a ana a ana. Ndizosangalatsa, zothandiza, zokondweretsa, komanso chofunikira kwambiri, ntchito yopititsa patsogolo! Monga momwe adatero mphunzitsi V. Sukhomlinsky: "Maganizo a mwanayo ali phindu la zala zake." Inde, mwakhala mukuzindikira kuti mwana wanu amaphunzira chilengedwe mwa kukhudza, zolembera. Umu ndi m'mene amadziwira "kuzizira" ndi "kutentha", "zovuta" ndi "zofewa".
Pochita kupanga masewera a ana aamuna, ndiye kuti mumayambitsa ndi kuyambitsa chitukuko cha ubongo, kulankhula kwa mwana wanu. Inu mumakhala ndi luso la kulenga ndi malingaliro a zinyenyeswazi.
Ichi ndi chifukwa chakuti dzanja limapatsidwa tanthauzo lapadera mu khungu la ubongo. Choncho, pokonza maburashi a mwanayo, mukuthandizira kwambiri pa ubongo wonse. Zotsatira zake, pali chidziwitso chofulumira komanso chofunika kwambiri. Nthawi yomweyo zala ndi mapepala a peni la mwana zimasintha, pulasitiki ndizolondola - imayamba nthawi yomweyo kulankhula.
Cholinga china chofunikira cha masewera azing'ono, ndikuitana zotsatirazi: Zochita zosavutazi zimakulolani kuti muzitha kugwira ntchito ya mauthenga abwino a ubongo - kuti azitha kuyanjana pamodzi ndi mgwirizano. Masewerawa amapanga "mlatho" pakati pa maulendo, motero amapangitsa malingaliro a mwanayo (omwe ali ndi udindo woyenera), komanso kufotokozera mawu ake (ntchito ya kumanzere kwa dziko lapansi). Ngati "mlatho" uwu ndi wolimba, ndiye kuti zizindikiro za mitsempha zimabuka kawirikawiri, njira zoganiza zimakhala zogwira ntchito, chidwi cha mwanayo, luso lake likukula. Choncho, ngati mukufuna kuti mwana wanu azikhala mofulumira kwambiri kuposa anzako, ngati mukufuna kumva mawu ake mwamsanga mwamsanga - musakhale aulesi kuti mumvetsere maburashi ake ndi zala zake, makamaka kuyambira ali aang'ono kwambiri.
Mwa njira, masewera a ana aang'ono - ichi sichikhalidwe cha zaka makumi awiri. Iwo analipo mu mafuko osiyanasiyana, mbiri yawo ili ndi masamba ambiri. Mwachitsanzo, ku China, zochitika zapadera zimapezeka ndi mipira (miyala kapena chitsulo - ziribe kanthu). Ngati mumachita nawo nthawi zonse - mungathe kuzindikira kuwonjezeka kwa kukumbukira, m'maganizo ndi m'magazi. Mipira imathetsa mavuto, kumalimbikitsa kugwirizana, kutengeka ndi mphamvu ya manja.
Koma ku Japan, walnuts amagwiritsidwa ntchito pazochita ndi zala ndi manja. Mukhozanso kutsegula pensulo imodzi muzitsamba zotsekedwa. Ndipo ku Russia ana ochokera ku tchire ankaphunzitsidwa masewera omwe timadziwika nawo "Ladushki", "Magpie-Crow" kapena "Mbuzi Yamphongo".
Tsopano njira izi zikukula zimaperekedwa makamaka kwa akatswiri, chifukwa maseƔera a ana - chilengedwe chonse chothandiza ana mu chitukuko, mthupi ndi makhalidwe!