Mosakayikira, chisankho chabwino ndi chithandizo cha katswiri wa zamaganizo pamene ali ndi chiwerewere cha ana. Ngati mukufuna kupulumutsa mwana wanu, makamaka wachinyamatayo, kuletsa, kuopseza ndi kulangidwa sikugwira ntchito kwa iye, ngati akufuna kumwa, posachedwapa adzapeza chifukwa, malingaliro, mwayi, ndi zina zotero. Ngati mukufuna kuchotsa mwanayo mowa, muyenera kwambiri kuti mugwire ntchito m'maganizo mwake, kumuthandiza kusankha moyenera za mowa, kugwiritsira ntchito umoyo wake wauzimu, kumverera, kumuthandiza pazochitika zonse za moyo.
Kawirikawiri makolo amafunikanso kuthandizira maganizo. Ngati adziwa mwana wawo ngati munthu wodwala, vutoli silingatheke, amavutika, amayamba kuledzera. Komanso, vuto lomwelo m'banja limapangitsa kuti makolo azilephera kukhumudwa, zovuta ndi zovuta zomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha zochitika kwa mwana wawo, ndipo izi ndi zomveka bwino komanso zomveka bwino. Mwana yemwe amaledzera mowa ndikumana ndi chizolowezi chomwa mowa, khalidwe lake ndi loipa, kusokonezeka nthawi zonse, kusowa chidwi kwa moyo, kusowa kudziletsa yekha ndi zochita zake, kuyankha chifukwa cha mawu ake, pamakhala chiwonongeko, kukhumudwa, kuchitira nkhanza makolo , osafuna kulankhula nawo. Mwanayo amadzikakamiza, ndipo potero amadzipereka yekha ku chizunzo chauchidakwa. Iye sangathe kusintha maganizo ake, kusamalira maganizo ake, kukhala ndi kulankhulana ndi kampani popanda kumwa mowa. Ndi chithandizo chake iye amatsitsimutsa ndipo amakhala ndi maganizo ake. Kukhala wosangalatsa, kumangika m'malingaliro kumakopa mwana, popanda iye sangathe kukhala ndi moyo. Ngakhale iye akufuna "kusiya", padzabwera nthawi pamene ayambiranso kumwa mowa. Anzanu ambiri amakhudzidwa kwambiri. Ngati kampani yoledzera yachinyamata, sichikayikira kuti nayenso adzamwa mowa mwauchidakwa, mowa udzawoneka ngati chinthu chachilendo, ndipo ngakhale mosiyana, abwenzi amalimbikitsana kuti amwe nawo, afotokoze nkhani zozizwitsa zomwe zimachitika panthawi yomwe amamwa mowa. Mowa m'maganizo mwa mwanayo amalephera kukhala ndi malo oyenera kutero, samakhalanso akumuvulaza chifukwa cha zamoyo, chifukwa, monga, aliyense amamwa ndipo palibe amene amamwalira, zotsatira zake zoipa zimakhala zosayanjanitsika, kuphwanya makhalidwe, kusowa chikumbumtima pakumwa mowa - kuyesa. Mowa umayamba kuyang'ana m'maso mwake ngati chakumwa chomwe chimamulola iye kukhala ndi nthawi yabwino ndi yosangalatsa ndi abwenzi, kusangalala, kudzipereka yekha kuchitapo chake ndi kupeza nkhani zambiri zosangalatsa monga zotsatira, kuwonjezera zochitika zina pa moyo wake. Zotsatira zake, mwanayo amayamba kukhala wosasamala, kumwa mowa kungayambitse mavuto ake, kuphatikizapo achibale, abwenzi, chibwenzi, chilengedwe ndi malamulo.
Kwa anthu onse omwe amamwa mowa kwa nthawi yayitali, thandizo la katswiri wa zamaganizo, psychotherapy chifukwa chodalira mowa zidzakhala zothandiza. Izi, choyamba, zidzathandiza kukhazikitsa maubwenzi m'banja, chifukwa cha uchidakwa wa mwana nthawi zonse zimanyozedwa, zifukwa zomveka, kutsutsana, kusagwirizana. Nthaŵi zambiri, mwana akhoza kudzimva kuti ndi wolakwa, koma sungapulumutse ku mowa, koma akhoza kupangitsa boma kukhala loipa kwambiri - kusayanjanitsika, kusayanjanitsika, kudzimva kuti alibe mphamvu potsutsana ndi mowa. Kupanda chiyembekezo kumabweretsa kusowa kwachangu. Makolo sayenera kumuimba mlandu, kumukwapula ndikumukwapula, kuwadzudzula chifukwa cha mavuto awo onse, ziribe kanthu momwe zingakhalire zovuta, koma ana ayenera kumvetsetsa, ayenera kumverera chikondi ndi kudalira, mwinamwake iwo sangathe kupirira okha. Katswiri wa zamaganizo amathandiza kuthetsa mikangano yosadziwika bwino, kukhazikitsa mgwirizano pakati pa mwanayo ndi makolo ake, ndi maganizo ake payekha, kumulimbikitsa kuti amenyane ndi mowa, kutsegula maso ake ku zotsatira zake ndi kuchotsa chophimba choyesa pinki kumbuyo komwe mowa umabisala. Chithandizo cha wodwala chimayamba nthawi yomwe amadziwa kuti akuledzeretsa komanso akudalira, akufuna kukonza. Palibe amene angasinthe munthu ngati sakufuna, kotero munthu ayenera kuzindikira kuti ali ndi vuto lomwe limamuvulaza osati iye yekha, koma banja lake. Kuyambira nthawi imeneyo, mwanayo amadziwa kuti ali ndi vuto, ndipo mankhwala amayamba ndi mowa.
Komabe, chithandizo cha maganizo sichidzabwezeretsa chithandizo cha katswiri wa zamaganizo. Ngati nkhaniyi ndi yovuta ndipo palibe njira zomwe zingathandize kuthana ndi kudalira, mwanayo amafunika kukonzedwanso ndi kuikidwa kuchipatala, kumulimbikitsa ku chirichonse chatsopano, kuphatikizapo moyo, kuponyera zizolowezi zakale. Kuledzeretsa kawirikawiri kumabweretsa mavuto a mkati mwa mwanayo, chifukwa cha mtundu wina wa mikangano mkati mwa moyo wake. Zifukwa zikhoza kukhala zosiyana, koma apa kukambirana ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo kudzathandizira kuzindikira mavutowa a mwanayo ndi kumuthandiza kuthana nawo, mtsogolo chilakolako cha mowa chidzatha.
Mosakayika, thandizo la katswiri wa zamaganizo pa moyo wovutawu ndi wofunika, ndipo nthawi zina limasewera ngakhale gawo lapadera ndipo ndiyo njira yokhayo yotulukira. Koma simuyenera kuiwala za udindo wapatali wa makolo mwa mwana, kupambana kwawo kawirikawiri kumadalira khalidwe lawo, komanso zotsatira zake. Musamuimba mlandu mwanayo, mumuthandize ndipo musamulole kuti amuiwale kuti mumamukonda. Ndiye vuto la mowa lidzathetsedwa, ndipo pamodzi mukhoza kuthandizira.