Mnyamata sangakonde maganizo anu pa iye. Inunso simukukonda zambiri.
Mnyamata wanu amatanthauza mtundu wa amuna amene amagwiritsidwa ntchito kukangana ndi kunja. Iye sakonda katatu kalikonse. Nthawi zonse muyenera kumvetsera kusakhutira kwake ndi kufuula.
Pali amuna omwe amanyoza khalidwe lawo. Mawu opweteka - mumakhumudwa nthawi zonse ndi iye. Kudzilemekeza kwanu kukugwa, ndipo amapeza chisangalalo chapadera kuchokera mu njira yonseyi.
Kodi maubwenzi anu a Brazil akulakalaka? Inu nonse mumagwirizana. Mukamapeza mgwirizano, muzochitika zinthu zopangidwa bwino - mbale, mbale, zitsamba.
Ndipo, njira yotsiriza ya amuna - okonda amayamba kuyanjana kumbali. Koma, osati anthu okha omwe akusintha. Akazi sali otsika mu gawo lachimuna laumunthu.
Kusakhutitsidwa kulikonse muukwati, kukangana ndi mikangano ndi mavuto omwe aliyense angathe kuthana nazo ngati akufuna. Kupititsa patsogolo maubwenzi ndi wokondedwa wanu ndikusangalala ndi chikondi chanu - kodi sizomwe mukuyembekezera?
Kodi muli ndi chidwi ndi momwe mungakonzere ubale ndi wokondedwa wanu? Yankho liri. Koma, kuti mukhale ndi ubale wabwino ndi wokondedwa wanu, mwinamwake ngati banja lanu likumvererabe ndipo inu nonse mukufuna kukhala limodzi.
Kodi mungatani kuti mukhale ndi ubale wabwino ndi wokondedwa wanu? Poyamba ndi kofunika kumvetsa, kuti wasiya kukonzekera. Ganizirani zomwe mungasinthe ndi zomwe wokondedwa wanu ayenera kuchita. Kuti muyankhe funso ili, m'pofunika kuchotsa malingaliro onse okhumudwitsa, yongolani kukumverera kwakukulu. Ndikofunika kukhala okonzekera kuti, mu adilesi yanu, mukhoza kumva kutsutsidwa kuchokera kwa wokondedwa wanu. Koma, ngati muli ndi chidwi chokonza ubale ndi okondedwa anu, muyenera kukhala okonzekera chirichonse.
Kupititsa patsogolo maubwenzi ndi okondedwa anu ndiko kotheka, ngati mawu anu onse ndi zochita zanu zidzakhudzidwa ndi chikondi ndi chisamaliro. Wokondedwa sayenera manyazi. Komanso, musayesetse kusintha munthu - kuganiza, zingakhale bwino ngati mukufuna kusintha mosadziwika. Kondani munthu, monga iye aliri. Kulankhulana kwanu, pamene mudzapeza mavuto anu onse ndikuyesera kupeza njira yothetsera vuto, muyenera kukhala okondweretsa komanso okondweretsa. Chotsani mawu owopsya, manyazi, ndi kufuula.
Mwayamba kukhala pamodzi, kwa nthawi yayitali, mu moyo wa aliyense wa inu, malo odandaula ndi zodandaula. Kukoma mtima, chikondi ndi chifundo zimathandizira kuti ukhale ndi aura yomwe aliyense wa inu angakhale omasuka. Yesetsani, ngakhale kuti mukhale ndi makhalidwe omwe mumawakonda omwe munayamba mumawakonda. Malingaliro anu abwino adzalengedwera mwachangu kwa mnyamata, zomwe zidzakuthandizira kukambirana moyenera ndikupeza zotsatira zabwino.
Gawani zomwe mukukumana nazo ndikuwopa, fotokozani zofuna zanu ndi maloto anu: Kodi mungakonde kulandira chiyani kuchokera kwa okondedwa anu. Mwachibadwa, mnyamata wanu ali ndi ufulu wofotokozera zonse zomwe zasungidwa mu moyo wake ndi kulandira kuchokera kwa inu mwamtheradi, nayenso. Kodi mukufuna chiyani kwa iye?
Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti chimwemwe chanu chili m'manja mwanu. Kuti mukhale osangalala, nkofunika kugwira ntchito ndi kugwirira ntchito pa ubale wanu. Mukamvetsetsa izi, mudzapeza chimwemwe ndikulumikizana ndi wokondedwa wanu. Kupititsa patsogolo maubwenzi ndi wokondedwa wanu, yesetsani kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yanu yocheza pamodzi kuti mukhale ndi ntchito yamba - izi zingabweretse banja.
Sungani ndi kuyamikira ubale umene Mulungu wakupatsani. Sonyezani chikondi, ulemu ndi kudalira wokondedwa wanu, ndipo zonse zidzakhala bwino kwa inu.