Kodi timatani tikakhala ndi chidwi chokwanira kapena chokwanira? Monga munthu aliyense wanzeru - timagwiritsa ntchito. Ndipotu, nkofunika kupindula ndi chikhalidwe chilichonse. Koma nthawi zina, mu chizungulire cha zochitika, timaiwala mavuto omwe angathe. Ndikukumana ndi anyamata awiri, kodi izi zidzawatsogolera kuti?
Kulimbika mtima ndi chilakolako cha chiopsezo sizithera mwa iwo eni, koma njira imodzi yopezera kupambana. Kukumana ndi anyamata awiri nthawi imodzi ndi chimodzi mwazoopsa za m'maganizo, zomwe zimawoneka ngati kusukulu, yunivunivesite, kudziwa makolo a wokondedwa, kukafunsira ntchito. Tiyeni tiyang'ane pa chiyambi, chifukwa chake zikumveka - "Ndikumana ndi anyamata awiri," kodi izi zidzawathandiza bwanji posachedwa?
Choyamba, tiyeni tifotokoze: kodi mukuyang'ana anyamata ambiri kuti apindule okha kapena asambira okha? Mwinamwake mumakonda adventures, alibe zofuna zawo, koma zochitika pamoyo - zoposa. Ngati ndi choncho, ndiye kuti ndinu wophunzira. Odzikonda ndi atsikana omwe amakhala ngati asungwana aang'ono omwe sakhala ndi udindo pazochita zawo okha, koma amafunanso zofuna zawo. Pazifukwa izi, mumakumana ndi anyamata awiri kuti muteteze kudzidalira, maganizo atsopano kapena kuseka, izi sizidzawoneka bwino. Panthawi ina, padzakhala chiwongoladzanja - ndipo makadi anu a lipenga adzatsegulidwa. Mwina pangakhale mavuto ndi okondedwa anu, omwe mwatitengera, mapiri a mavuto ndi kufotokoza sizomwe zimakondweretsa. Chabwino, iwe ukufunanji, pamene ukomana ndi anyamata awiri, ndicho chimene chinayambitsa vuto losautsa? Chifukwa cha kuyang'ana kapena zochitika, mumamvetsa kuti anthu ochita chidwi ndi anthu omwe amakhala okondwa kapena osasangalala, koma sayenera kuwamvera. Kotero, ndizo kwa inu, ndimasewera osangalatsa, kapena masewera a moyo.
Koma ngati simunali wothamanga, koma kungoyendayenda pamtunda? Kodi zotsatira za msonkhano wa anyamata awiri ndi zotani? Tiyeni tione njira iyi. Mukukondanso chidwi, ngakhale mtsikana sakonda chidwi. Mwayamba kale kugonana ndi mnyamata ndipo zonse zikuwoneka bwino. Koma kenaka wina wolimba mtima akuwonekera, yemwe akuyesera kutenga kuzinga kwa nyumba ya mtima wanu. Mukukondedwa ndi anthu, chifukwa muli ndi chidwi, ngakhale kuti muli kale pachibwenzi - zimakondweretsa mtsikana aliyense, chifukwa amathabe kukhala wachikazi komanso wokongola. Mu chizunguliro ndi chisangalalo cha zochitikazo, simukuzindikira njira yowopsa. Ndipo izi sizikutanthauza kuti ndinu woipa komanso wosayeruzika posankha kusankha mkhalidwe wabwino kuti mugwiritse ntchito abambo awiri. Simungasankhe omwe angachoke, ndipo amene akukhala ndi ichi sakukupumulitsani. Mulimonsemo, nkhaniyi idzakonzedweratu kumayambiriro, kusiyana ndi pamene idzachedwa kwambiri - ndipo mudzakhalabe pamalo osweka. Khalani wochenjera ndipo musadzipangire nokha zinthu zosasangalatsa, chifukwa chomwe sichikanakhala malo, kukumana ndi anyamata awiri sikungapangitse chabwino chilichonse.
Chifukwa china cha mkhalidwewo "Ndikumana ndi anyamata awiri" ndicho chikoka cha kampaniyo. Inu mukufunsa momwe izo ziriri? Tsopano ndifotokoze. Tangoganizani kuti mumacheza kwambiri moti muli ndi abwenzi ambiri, motero, makampani angapo. Mu kampani iliyonse muli mnyamata mmodzi yemwe angakukopereni, ndi bwino ngati wina samusiya. Choncho, kukhala mu kampani imodzimodzi, pali alangizi othandizira omwe anganene kuti: "Bwanji simukuyang'ana Sasha, Kolya, kapena wina?". Mudzaganiza, ndipo bwanji osatero, ndipo ndithudi pa nthawi ino simukuganiza za zomwe zidzatsogolere. Zomwezo zimachitika mdziko lina. Makampani okhala ndi zosiyana, osiyana, ndi anthu amasiyana kwambiri, amachotsedwa ndi zinthu zosiyanasiyana, ali ndi malo ena ofunikira. Inu mumakonda izo, kuposa momwe izo zikukukhudzani inu. Usikuuno ndi Sasha kuchokera ku kampani yoyamba yomwe mumayankhula za magalimoto, kudziyesa nokha ngati luso lakatswiri wamakina. Ndipo bwanji, osati moyo wanu wonse za zidole zoyamba kuyankhula. Mawa ndi Andreya ochokera ku kampani ina, kukambirana za zomwe zakhala zikuchitika mu masewero apadziko lonse, mumayankhula zokambirana. Ndipo monga anyamata awiriwa ali osiyana ndipo zikuwoneka kuti zonsezo ndi zabwino. Koma apa pakubwera mphindi: mukakumana ndi anyamata awiri, lingaliro likuwonekera: kodi chidzawatsogolera chiyani? Osachepera kanthu, ngati sakudziwa, sakhala ndi anthu ozoloŵera komanso amakhala m'madera osiyanasiyana a mzindawo. Izi zikhoza kunenedwa ngati jackpot ndipo ndinu wopambana. Ndipo ngati iwo amaphunzira ku chipanichi chimodzimodzi, kapena sukulu imodzi? Ndiye ndi bwino kulingalira za: choti muchite, chifukwa simukufuna mavuto kwa wina aliyense. Pali njira ziwiri zothetsera vutoli. Yoyamba ndi kupitiliza mu mzimu womwewo, kukondwera ndi amuna osiyana, podziwa kuti padzakhala kusintha, koma osadandaula nazo. Wachiŵiri ndi kusankha: aliyense yemwe ali pafupi ndi inu, amene mukufuna kumukhalira, motero, kuchotsa chopinga chimodzi, mukhoza kusangalala kwambiri ndi mbali imodzi. Zikatero, mudzasangalala kuti mukakumana ndi anyamata awiri, sizitsogolera kuipa chilichonse.
Njira ina yokomana ndi anyamata awiri ndi yofuna. Ndifotokoze, mukukumana ndi mnyamata, ndipo samakulirirani mokwanira, zikuwoneka kuti mukuyang'ana chimwemwe mwa ena. Mukufuna kudzazitsa chidwi ichi, izi ndi zachibadwa, chikhalidwe cha atsikana ndi ichi, kuzungulira ndi anthu ndi kutentha. Pachifukwa ichi, misonkhano ndi awiri ikhoza kutsogolera pakubwezeredwa kwa mwamuna wina wosafunikira yemwe adzapatsana wina ndi mzake muzonse, wina amakhalabe mukumva, koma osati inu. Koma pangakhale njira ina, monga mwachizoloŵezi, iwe udzakhala wamtundu ngati msungwana wosasinthasintha, kwa wina yemwe alibe okwanira. Chisankho ndi chanu!
Nthawi zonse kumbukirani: mosasamala kanthu kuti ndi munthu wotani, iye ndi mwamuna woyenera ubale waumunthu kwa iyemwini. Karma amabwezeretsa zonse kumalo ake omwe, ndipo ngati simunachite bwino, mumagwiritsa ntchito anyamata awiri, kenako mukatha kukhala amodzi pa malo awo. Ubale ndi anyamata awiri nthawi zonse udzatsogolera ku chinachake, ndipo lolani zotsatira za izi zikubweretseni chimwemwe chokha.