Choyamba, dziwani momveka bwino chifukwa cha kuchoka kwa wokondedwa wanu kapena wokondedwa wanu. Popeza choyamba muyenera kumvetsa chifukwa chake, ndiyeno mukuyang'ana njira yothetsera.
Kawirikawiri timaiwala za zenizeni za amai komanso amuna a maganizo. Monga akunena, amuna ochokera ku Mars, ndi amayi ochokera ku Venus, zimakhala zovuta kuti amvetserane. Koma inu mukhoza ^ Apa chinthu chachikulu ndikumvetsa zinthu zina.
Kulankhula za malingaliro, yesetsani kumvetsetsa nokha poyamba ndikumvetsetsa zomwe zimakulimbikitsani: chilakolako, chikondi, kudzimva, kubwezera, ndi zina.
Pali zitsanzo zambiri za moyo, koma tidzakambirana chimodzi.
Mtsikana wina adakondana ndi mnyamata yemwe ankawoneka ngati wabwino kwambiri. Zonse sizikanakhala kanthu, koma zinachitika kuti iye anatenga pakati. Iye sankafuna mwana, ndipo kotero iye anapita ku kuchotsa mimba. Mipiritsi ingapo ndi zonse zakonzeka. Mwa naivety yake, iye ankaganiza kuti iwo azikhala limodzi. Koma adali ndi zolinga zina pazomweyi. Anamusiya osadziŵa zotsatira za kuchotsa mimba. Pambuyo pake, adayesera kuti abwererenso ...
Ndipo apa pali chitsanzo chachiwiri. Mtsikana wina anakumana ndi chibwenzi chake kwa zaka zitatu. Iwo ankawoneka kuti ali ndi ubale wabwino, koma mwanjira ina iye anayamba kuzindikira kuti iye sanali wofunitsitsa kumuyendera iye. Panali kukayikira koyamba. Pasanapite nthawi anayamba kumakhala ndi abwenzi ndi abwenzi, monga adanena. Ndipo chinali chowonadi, ngati osati kwa wina wotere apa ndi bwenzi lake. Iwo akhala mabwenzi kuyambira ali mwana ndipo palibe chomwe chikanati chichitike. Koma bwenzi lake kale litakumana nawo kawiri kawiri mu cafe, kulandira "mwaubwenzi," monga momwe iwo ankafunira kuyankha. Koma maso sangathe kunama, koma apa panali chowonadi pamaso. Iye anaponya, ndipo adadza kunyumba kwake tsiku lotsatira ndipo ali ndi makamu ambiri omwe amamukonda kwambiri. Koma, tsoka, iye sanakhululukire ... Pambali pake panali funso: momwe mungabwererenso ndikuyanjana ndi wokondedwa wanu?
Amuna amaganiza kuti maluwa a maluwa, mphatso ndi mawu okongola ndizo zonse zomwe mkazi amafunika kuti ayambenso kukondana ndi kukhazikitsa maubwenzi, koma akulakwitsa. Chidziwitso chachikazi ndi chinthu chovuta, koma sikunama. Ndipo nthawi yomweyo timamva pang'ono mwasankhidwa. Choncho, mawu osalankhula amamva chisoni kwambiri mumtima mwathu ndi moyo wathu, ndipo izi si zoyenera kwa munthu aliyense.
Chachiwiri, dzifunseni nokha: kodi nkofunikira kubwezeretsa chikondi ichi ndi kukhazikitsa ubale ndi wokondedwa? Kuchokera pa zomwe tafotokoza pamwambapa, zikuonekeratu kuti chikondi chinali mbali imodzi, komanso kudzikonda. Anamukonda, ndipo adalola kuti am'konda. Ndipo kotero mu maubwenzi ambiri. Koma timaiwala kudzifunsa funsolo: bwanji kubwerera? Kodi tikufunikiradi izi? Chikho chophwanyika sichikugwirizananso palimodzi, ndipo ngati chikapambana, chisokonezocho chidzakhalapobe, ndipo chidzakumbutsa zokha.
Chachitatu, kumbukirani kuti pozungulira pali anthu ambiri, abwenzi omwe ali okonzeka kukuthandizani ndikukuthandizani. Chonde tanani ndi anzanu. Sokonezani kanthawi, ndipo mudzakhala bwino. Kenaka ndi malingaliro atsopano kuyesa kumvetsetsa vutolo.
Ngati zinthu zili zovuta kuti inu nokha musathe kuzizindikira, ndiye kuti muyenera kupita kukaonana ndi katswiri wamaganizo yemwe angayese kuthandiza.
Katswiri wodziwa bwino, sangakupatseni ndondomeko yeniyeni ya zochita zanu, koma zidzakuthandizani kudziwa mfundo zina mu ubale wanu ndi mnzanu. Adzakuthandizani kusankha bwino, kupereka zitsanzo. Akatswiri a zamaganizo nthawi zambiri sapereka njira yothetsera vuto, koma yesetsani kumubweretsa munthu wotere.
Chinthu chachikulu ndikukhulupirira kuti zonse zidzakhala bwino! Maganizo abwino amakopa anthu abwino.
Ngati mwasankha kubwezeretsa chikondi, munthuyu, khalani oyenera muzochita zanu. Muyenera kumvetsetsa zomwe mumachita. Anthu ena sakudziwa momwe angakondere ndipo palibe choyenera kuchita pano. Ngakhale kutenga mimba kuchokera kwa iye, osati kuti iye adzakhala ndi inu. Ndipo ngati izo zatsala, ndiye mweziwo udzakhalanso ndi wina ndipo ukachokabe. Choncho ganizirani mosamala musanabwerere chikondi.