Momwe mungalimbikitsire maubwenzi m'banja

Malingana ndi chidziwitso cha akatswiri a maganizo, mawu omwe anthu ambiri amasonyeza kuti chikondi chaukwati chimamwalira, chili ndi gawo lina la choonadi. Komabe, malinga ndi akatswiri a maganizo, moyo muukwati ukhoza kukhala wautali komanso wodzaza. Ndizokwanira kuti onse awiri ayenera kukumbukira kuti ngakhale kumverera kwa wina, kapena ukwatiwo ndi chinthu chowonekera komanso chosatha. Ukwati, monga chiyanjano china chirichonse, nthawi zonse uyenera "kutsitsimutsidwa" mothandizidwa ndi "jekeseni watsopano". Pansipa tipereke zina mwa iwo ndikuwonetsa momwe angathandizire pankhaniyi.

Pitani kwinakwake kwa mlungu

Malangizo awa sakutanthauza ulendo wodziwika ku malo a tchuthi pamapeto a sabata. Zivomereze, sizingatheke kuti izi zingathandize kuthandizira ubale. Ndibwino kuti mupite kwinakwake kumene simunakhalepo, mwachitsanzo, paulendo ku malo akutali. Monga mwasankha - mukhoza kupita kumeneko, kumene iwo anali atapumula palimodzi, kumene kumadzaza zinthu zambiri, amakhala m'nyumba imodzi kapena hotelo, monga momwemo. Izi zingawoneke zachilendo, koma ulendo woterewu ukhoza kuthandizira kusintha maganizo.

Pangani zodabwitsa

Simungathe ngakhale kulingalira momwe mungatonthozere malingaliro anu ndi zosayembekezereka zosayembekezereka. Musamangoganizira zochitika zomwe simukumbukira kapena maholide, koma perekani chinachake kwa mnzanuyo monga zodabwitsa. Ngati mphatsoyo siyembekezeredwe, ndiye kuti imakhala yamtengo wapatali kuposa wamba. Mphatso ikhoza kukhala chirichonse - ngakhale chokoleti pansi pa pillow, ngakhale positi yomwe mumamuuza mnzanuyo kuti ndiwefunika bwanji kwa inu.

Funsani mafunso

Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti pokhala pafupi, okwatirana nthawi zambiri amakondwera ndi zochitika za theka lawo lachiwiri, osachepera asanu peresenti ya nthawi yonse yokambirana. Yesetsani kukhala ndi chizolowezi chofunsa wophunzira wanu momwe tsiku lake linayendera, chomwe chinakondweretsa iye, chomwe chinamukhumudwitsa iye. Tulutsani misonkhano yaing'ono yamadzulo ku khitchini kuti mukapange tiyi komanso kukambirana bwino. Chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kutengedwa - ngati interlocutor ali wotopa, simukuyenera kumusunga, kupitiliza kukambirana, komwe sikusangalatsanso, koma kumatopetsa.

Gwirani izo

Kulankhulana sikuphatikizapo mawu okha. Gwirani theka lachiwiri nthawi zambiri momwe zingathere ndi zina. Yambani ndi manja osavuta-khalani pafupi ndi inu, ikani mutu wanu paphewa, kukumbatirani, kukwapula tsitsi lanu. Zizindikiro izi zowunikira zidzathandiza mnzanuyo kupuma pang'ono kuchokera kuntchito yovuta.

Yankhulani za inu nokha

Musakhale chete. Ngati chinachake chikukuvutitsani, tsatirani molimba mtima malingaliro anu, ngakhale mutakhala otsimikiza kuti munthu yemwe mukumuyankhulayo sakuvomerezana. Nthawi zambiri kusagwirizana kwa malingaliro kungasokoneze ubwenzi wanu. Musazengereze kusonyeza mnzanuyo kuti ndinu leech nayenso.

Dzisamalireni nokha

Musadzithamange nokha! Imodzi mwa njira zothandiza kwambiri kuti muthe kukonzanso ubale ndi kusamalira maonekedwe anu. Mukawona makilogalamu owonjezera m'chiuno - mwamsanga ku masewera olimbitsa thupi. Yang'anani tsitsi lanu, mawonekedwe anu onse - wokondedwa ndi zabwino kwambiri kuti akuwoneni bwino, m'malo mosiyana.

Sinthani malo

Ngati mukufuna kupititsa patsogolo ubale wanu wapamtima, mutha kukumbukira kuti chipinda sichimalo okha m'nyumba momwe mungadziperekere kukondweretsa kugonana. Musayese kukonzekera chinachake-yesetsani kugonjetsa mwadzidzidzi, kawirikawiri zimakhala bwino kuposa kale.

Pitani kukagona limodzi

Malangizo amenewa amaperekedwa ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo ochokera ku United States of America Mark Goulston. Amanena kuti ngati banja ligona limodzi, limapereka mpata wosadziƔa zomwe anamva m'zaka zoyambirira zaukwati wawo, akugona limodzi. Katswiri wa zamaganizo amanena kuti malinga ndi zomwe ananena, ambiri a okwatirana okondwa akuchita chimodzimodzi, ngakhale atadzuka pa nthawi zosiyana.

Fotokozani mwachikondi

Kodi mukuganiza kuti izi ndizomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pazitsulo? Imeneyi ndi imodzi mwa njira zosavuta komanso nthawi imodzi zowonjezereka kuti zithetsere ubale - umangouza mnzanuyo kuti umamukonda, kuti ali wokondedwa kwa inu monga pachiyambi cha chiyanjano chanu, monga tsiku loyamba lanu.