Onvas sanena
Mukudziwa kuti mnyamata ali ndi chibwenzi, yemwe nthawi zambiri amamuuza ndi kumuwona, ndiye chifukwa chake sakufuna kukufotokozerani. Amalume nthawi zonse amakhala ndi zifukwa zana, chifukwa simungathe kusonkhana. Ngati mutha kukonzekera msonkhano, ndiye kuti nthawi zonse zimakhala zovuta, chifukwa zonse zimatha. Zikatero, sizosadabwitsa kuti muli ndi nsanje pa mnyamata wanu. Ndipotu, momwe amadzibisa chibwenzi chake molimba mtima, amatha kukayikira kwambiri. Muyeneranso kuyesa mozama kulankhula ndi masewera. N'kutheka kuti mtsikanayu ali ndi zokonda komanso zozoloŵera zomwe ndizosiyana kwambiri ndi zanu ndipo mnyamatayu akuwopa kuti simudzatenga. Mwinamwake ndinu munthu wanzeru komanso wodekha, ndipo chibwenzi chake chimalumbira monga mtumiki, amamwa vodka mu malita ndipo saledzera, ndipo ambiri, malingana ndi miyezo yanu, akuchita zoipa. Pachifukwa ichi, n'zosadabwitsa kuti sakufuna kukufotokozerani, kotero kuti pamapeto pake anthu awiri omwe ali pafupi naye adzangodana wina ndi mnzake, ndipo ali pakati pa moto wachiwiri. Choncho, afotokoze mnyamatayo kuti chilichonse chimene mtsikanayo ali nacho, mukumudziwa mwachizolowezi ndipo palibe choyipa panthawi yomwe chibwenzi sichidzachitike. Munthu sangamvetsetse kuti mumangofuna kutsimikizira kuti si mdani wanu.
Ngati munthuyo sakufuna kukudziwitsani, musanafunse funsoli, mukhoza kuyesa nokha ndi mtsikanayu pazomwe mukukumana nazo. Osangoyamba kuwachitira zoipa ndi kunena chinachake. Muyenera kuyankhulana mwachidziwikire ndikuwona momwe mtsikanayo angayankhire. Ngati iye alidi bwenzi lenileni, iye amadziwa nthawi yomweyo vuto lake ndi khalidwe lake ndi mayankho akuthandizani kumvetsetsa kuti palibe chodandaula ndi ubwenzi wawo ndi ubale okha. Koma pamene mayi ayamba kutsutsa momveka bwino, ndipo zowonjezereka zimapangitsa kuti anthu asakuyang'anitseni - kumveka phokoso. Kulankhula kwakukulu kwa mnyamata ndikumufotokozera kuti khalidwe lake silolendo. Choncho, amachititsa inu ndi onse pamodzi, kapena adzasankha: inu kapena iye.
Zofuna zowonjezereka zapadera
Mnyamata wanu amathera nthawi yochuluka spodrugoy, nthawi zonse amanena kuti adakambirananso masewera atsopano kapena atayidwa pa mutu wa Nkhondo yachiwiri ya padziko lonse. Ndipo mukudziwa kuti sangalankhulane ndi inu, chifukwa simukufuna. Ndipo pang'onopang'ono, mumayamba kudya, chifukwa ngati chibwenzi chanu chimamukonda, koma simunatero, ndiye mwinamwake tsiku lina adzakusintha. Pankhaniyi, musadandaule. Palibe chowopsya komanso choipa chifukwa chakuti mwamuna wanu akuyankhula za chinachake kwa mnzanu, ndipo ndi inu simukukambirana. Aliyense amafuna kukhala ndi anzanu ofunika. Koma amasankha munthu wokondedwa ndi zina. Kuphatikizanso apo, ngati anali naye bwenzi asanakumane nanu kapena kukumana, mutakumana kale, komabe adakusankhirani, osati iye, zikutanthawuza ngati kuti sizinali zosangalatsa, sizimapangitsa kumverera kwina koma kwina. Choncho musaganize za mavuto omwe kulibe. Gwirizanani, mfiti zomwe muli ndi zokambirana zomwe mumakambirana ndi anzanu ndi abwenzi, koma musalankhule za munthu uyu, chifukwa sakufuna. Kotero, mmalo mogwiritsa ntchito mphamvu pa nsanje, ndi bwino kufunsa chimene mnyamatayo akukukopa. Musasowa kudzikakamiza nokha. Ngati simukufunikira kwenikweni, pitirizani zomwe mumakonda. Koma ngati simukufuna kudziwa dziko lake kuchokera ku mfundo, ndiye kuti mukufunabe kutsegulira chitseko. Mwina mungapeze zinthu zambiri zosangalatsa ndipo posachedwa mudzatha kukambirana zonse ndi iye ndi chibwenzi chake.
Zokongola kwambiri kuposa ine
Maofesi a amayi nthawi zonse amatipanga ife kudziona kuti ndife oposa momwe ife tirili ndi kukonza mavuto ambirimbiri. Choncho, mmalo mochitira nsanje ndi kuganizira za kuti mnyamatayo ali wokoma ndi okongola, ndi bwino kukumbukira zotsatirazi: munthu aliyense ali ndi miyezo yake yokongola. Ngati mtsikanayo akuwoneka wokongola, sizikutanthauza kuti iyeyo ali m'maso mwake. Wina amakonda kukhala woonda komanso wamtali, ena - otsika ndi otsika, ena monga mtsikanayo amawoneka ngati wachinyamata. Dzikumbutseni nokha m'mene abwenzi anu ndi abwenzi omwe amagonana nawo akukambirana za atsikana. Kawirikawiri zimachitika kuti onse agwirizane pa lingaliro lomwelo. Kawirikawiri, aliyense amawona zabwino zake. Ndipo, panjira, sikuti nthawi zonse timasankha anthu omwe timawaona kuti ndi abwino. Ndikuganiza kuti mwakhala monga choncho: mumalota ndi maso a buluu, ndipo mumakumana ndi brunette ya maso. Pa maonekedwe pokha pa mphindi yoyamba ndikusankha achinyamata okha omwe samvetsa chilichonse mu chiyanjano konse. Choncho, ngati munthu asankha dzina, ndiye kuti mwa iwe amawona kukongola komwe kumakondweretsa diso lake. Ndipo mtundu uliwonse wa chithunzi chimene simunamuone ngati chibwenzi chake, amangomvera chisoni.
Zoona, pangakhale vuto pamene mumayamba kuona kuti chibwenzi chanu mwa mnzanu samangoona bwenzi basi. Musanayambe kuganiza, yesetsani kufufuza mozama zomwe zilipo, chifukwa chakuti nsanje, monga mantha, maso ndi abwino.Ndipo ngati mumakhulupirira kuti chibwenzi chanu chimamvera chisoni bwenzi lake lokongola, ndiye muyenera kulankhula naye momasuka. Osangoyenera kupukuta ma scandals ndi kupanga amatsenga. Ngati ali ndi chikondi ndi bwenzi, ndiye kuti sipadzakhala thandizo kulira. Zingokhala zokhazokha, kumbukirani kuti simungathe kulamulira mtima wanu, ndipo ngati sakunamiza ndipo sanachite chilichonse cholakwa, ndiye kuti palibe amene ali ndi ufulu woweruza munthu chifukwa chakumverera. Ndipo ngati pangakhale kusakhulupirika, muyenera kuchoka nthawi yomweyo kuchokera kwa munthu wotere, chifukwa simukuyenera kukhala pafupi ndi munthu amene samalemekeza mkazi komanso munthu. Kupandukira, izi ndizo, poyamba, kusonyeza ulemu.
Aliyense wokondana amafuna kuti wokondedwa akhale wake yekha. Koma tikufunikira kumvetsetsa kuti aliyense wa ife amafunikira ufulu woulankhulana, womwe ulibe munthu mmodzi. Amuna omwe amathera nthawi pamodzi pamodzi ndi awiri okha si achilendo. Anthu amafunika kupuma pang'ono kuchokera kwa wina ndi mzake, mwinamwake iwo amatha kutopa ndi omwe amamukonda. Choncho, ngati simukuwona chifukwa chomveka chochitira nsanje, yesetsani kusamala ubwenzi wa mnzanu ndi kumvetsa. Pambuyo pa zonse, aliyense m'moyo sayenera kukhala wokondedwa yekha, komanso wokondedwa woona, kaya akhale mwamuna kapena mkazi.