Chikondi ndi ubale pokhala wamkulu

Pamene munthu ali wamkulu , pamene munthu amayamba kukonda, zimamulimbikitsa, zonse zimakhala zokongola komanso zokondweretsa. Zikuwoneka kuti dziko lonse lidzala ndi kukoma mtima komanso kumvetsetsa. Udzu umawoneka wobiriwira, mbalame zikuyimba nyimbo, anthu amamwetulira, ndipo ndizo zonse. Chikondi chimasintha maganizo kwambiri ndipo chimapangitsa kuti anthu azikhala ndi maganizo abwino. Ndikufuna kuimba, kumwetulira nthawi zonse ndi kusangalala ndi moyo komanso kuti wokondedwa wanga ali pafupi ndi ine, choncho zonse ziri bwino. Nthawi zonse amafuna kukhala pafupi ndi munthu wokwera mtengo. Apatulidwa, amanjenjemera. Ndipo pamene ziri pamodzi, ziribe kanthu kuti, chinthu chachikulu ndi wokondedwa wanu. Kotero zingakhale zabwino, kupatsidwa kumverera, kuyenda ndi kutuluka, kukonda ndi kukondedwa.
Koma ziribe kanthu momwe izo zimawonekera, pa kumverera kwa mibadwo yosiyana mosiyana wina ndi mzake. Paunyamata, chirichonse chimakhala chowala kwambiri komanso chophweka. Musasamalire mavuto ang'onoang'ono a pakhomo, ndi zomwe ena anganene. Mumakonda moyo wanu wokha chifukwa chakuti ali ndi inu, ndipo izi zimatsimikizira zambiri, monga zikuwonekera panthawi imeneyo. Munthu sakondedwa chifukwa cha chinachake, koma chifukwa chakuti ali pafupi. Kuposa pa msinkhu uwu umasankhidwa maonekedwe, mawonekedwe a zakuthupi, kutchuka. Pambuyo pake, achinyamata ambiri amapezeka chifukwa chofunika kwambiri, ndikupereka ulamuliro wina.

Chikondi mu msinkhu wachikulire sichikusowa . Osati pachabe pali mwambi woterewu "Iwe uyenera kukwatira muunyamata." Izi zikusonyeza kuti ali wamng'ono, malingalirowo amakhala omasuka ndipo saloledwa kulowa mu chimango. Pamene tikukula, tikuzindikira kuti mwachikondi, pang'ono, timafunikira zigawo zofunikira za maubwenzi odalirika: kukhulupirira, kulemekeza, kumvetsetsa, mwayi wotsutsana, chithandizo, malingaliro amenewa ndi ofunika kwambiri monga chikondi chomwecho. Mwina ndi chifukwa chake akakhala akulu, zimakhala zovuta kupeza banja. Chifukwa iwo amatsogoleredwa osati ndi kumverera kokha, komanso ndi mtima, chidwi. Izi zimayang'anitsitsa mwachidule, zimathandiza pa nthawi yovuta, zimapereka umboni wofuna kuthandizira pa zovuta, kusinthanitsa phewa, komanso kukhala chithandizo chodalirika. Pa matenda, chitetezeni ku mavuto onse. Thandizo lazinthu, chikhumbo chopereka zonse zabwino kwa theka lawo lachiwiri. Zisonyezero zonsezi za chikondi zimakhala zokalamba, pokhapokha zikasonkhanitsidwa pamodzi. Chikondi kwa munthu wopanda zigawo zikuluzikulu n'zotheka, koma sikokwanira kwa nthawi yayitali, ndipo imangopita msanga mukakumana ndi mavuto, mavuto amatha msanga ndikukupangitsani kuona.

Mwamuna yemwe wagwirizana ndi mkazi yemwe ali ndi mwana ali ndi udindo wapadera. Popeza sayenera kuteteza mkazi wake wokondedwa, komanso mwanayo. Mzimayi ali ndi mwana posankha wosankhidwa amachititsa kusankha kwake ndi maganizo ambiri. Popeza iwo ali amodzi ndi mwanayo, ndipo mwamunayo ayenera kumvetsa kuti mayi sangapite motsutsana ndi chifuniro ndi ubwino wa mwana wake. Zonse zabwino kwa mwanayo zidzakhala zabwino kwa amayi. Inu simungakhoze kudzipangitsa nokha mwanjira iliyonse. Ndikofunika kupambana chikhulupiliro, kumvetsetsa. Ngati mwanayo akuwona kuti amayi ake amalemekezedwa, okondedwa, ndiye kuti adzakukondani. Ngati mosiyana, ndiye kuti simungakwanitse kupeza zotsatira zabwino. Ana onse amamverera pa msinkhu wosadziwika, ndizosatheka kuwanyenga.

Ndi zopusa kuganiza kuti chikondi chimangobwera kokha ali wamng'ono. Maganizo amphamvu ndi odalirika amadza panthawi ina. Iwo amatsatira mtundu wa "kusankha" molingana ndi zigawo zomwe tazitchula pamwambapa. Ngati munthu woteroyo amapezeka, chikondi ichi chidzakhalapo kosatha, mosiyana ndi achinyamata. Choncho musazengereze kusonyeza maganizo pa msinkhu uliwonse, koma musaiwale za okondedwa anu, ana, makolo anu. Ayenera kudziwa kuti ndinu wokondwa, mumamva bwino. Aloleni iwo akondwere ndi inu.