Chikhumbo cha kusamalira, kuteteza ndi kupatsa chirichonse kutali si chikondi monga chotere kapena malingaliro, ndicho chotsatira cha chikondi.
Tiyeni tione mmene mungakhalire ndi wokondedwa wanu.
Chilakolako . Izi ndizovuta kwambiri. Kuwopsya - pamene muli tsiku louluka, mukuganiza kuti simungagone mpaka litakufunsani maloto abwino. Tosca ndi pamene mudakangana, ndipo mukufuna kulira. Kuti izo sizikwanira mokwanira.
Kukumva kuti ndikumva kuwawa, mungathe kumvetseranso dziko lozungulira inu, kusungulumwa, chisoni ndi chisoni,
Zosangalatsa . Kumverera kokongola kwambiri kumene iwe ungakhoze kumverera kwa wokondedwa.
Mumakondwera pazinthu zonse zomwe zimachitika m'tsogolo mwanu. M'mawa munadzuka ndipo chinthu choyamba chimene munachiwona chinali momwe amamwetulira mokoma m'maloto. Kodi ichi si chifukwa cha chimwemwe?
Nkhawa . Pamene mumasamala zomwe zimamuchitikira. Mukuda nkhawa ndi thanzi lake ndi maganizo ake. Pambuyo pake, mumamukonda ndipo mumamufunira zabwino kwambiri.
Kudalira . Maziko a ubwenzi wamphamvu ndi odalirika pa gulu lirilonse. Kudalira ndikumverera kovuta kwambiri komwe kukhoza kutayika mu mphindi imodzi. Ndipo nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kuti zikhale zoyenera. Koma, mitima yachikondi imatha kuthana ndi vuto lililonse.
Nsanje ndi chifukwa cha kutha kwa mabanja okondana. Koma, kumverera kotereku ndi nthano mwa munthu aliyense. Ndikofunika kulimbana nawo, pamene kukhudzidwa ndi kukhudzidwa ndi nsanje kumakulepheretsani kukhala ndi chifuwa chonse. Ndipo kachidutswa kakang'ono ka nsanje kamangokhalira kupanga chiyanjano chokwanira kwambiri.
Ndipotu, mndandanda wakumverera kwa wokondedwa wanu ndi waukulu. Kulemba mndandanda m'nkhani imodzi kudzakhala kovuta kwambiri. Komanso, munthu aliyense ali ndi mphamvu yake yapadera yomverera. Aliyense wa ife ali ndi malire a kumverera ndi kumverera.
Pamene mumakonda, mukhoza kumverera limodzi: chikondi ndi chidani, chimwemwe ndi mkwiyo, chisangalalo ndi kusungunuka, kukhumudwa ndi kukhumudwa, kuyamika, kuunika, kudalira, kapena mosiyana, Nsanje ndi kuopa kutayika wokondedwa, kudzichepetsa kapena kukayikira.
Monga mukuonera, mndandandawu ndi wosiyana, ngakhale kuti sizimveka zonse. Anthu ambiri akhoza kukhala ndi moyo nthawi zonse ndipo, mwachitsanzo, sakhala ndi nsanje kapena kukhumudwa kwa wokondedwa.
Zingathe kutsutsidwa kuti palikumverera kwa wokondedwa amene sitikumudziwabe, chifukwa palibe amene anayenera kutero.
Zimakhalanso zovuta kufotokoza malingaliro. Gwiritsani ntchito mawu achiyankhulo kuti musonyeze izi kapena kumverera kuli zopusa. Njira yabwino yofotokozera malingaliro anu ndi kungoitchula iyo mukamamva.
Ndili ndi zaka, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kuti munthu afotokoze mmene akumvera. Ngakhale ana ang'onoang'ono ali akatswiri pazinthu izi, samagwiritsa ntchito mawu ofuula, koma amangolankhula momasuka za momwe amamvera.
Maganizo - ndi mphamvu zopanda malire. Kumverera kumverera kwa chikondi, munthu amatha kuchita zinthu zodabwitsa kwambiri. Mkazi wofooka, wokwiya ndi nsanje, amatha kumupangitsa munthu wamkulu kumenyedwa.
Ndizotheka kunena kuti kumverera sikungaganizire. Iwo ali amphamvu kwambiri kuti munthu ataya luso loganiza ndi kusinkhasinkha. Iye ali mu mphamvu zonse za mphamvu. Munthu yemwe amatha kumverera amatha kusintha pansi pa chikoka ndi maganizo.