Amati asungwana ochokera m'banja labwino sayenera kukumana ndi amuna osadziwika, koma amadziwikanso kuti otsutsa amakopeka.
Iye anali womanizer - tsopano sakonda moyo mwa mkazi wake ndi ana ake, iye amamenya zidebe ndipo sanachite kanthu - kwa zaka zingapo za moyo wa banja iye sanangokhala pansi, koma anapanganso ntchito yabwino.
Amuna amene zimakhala zovuta kugwirizana komanso osatheka kusintha amatchulidwa m'njira zosiyanasiyana: "mtundu woipa", "chikhalidwe choumala" sichikhala chophweka, kawirikawiri. Koma mu moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku iwo akhoza kudziwonetsera nokha monga momwe mumafunira. Chiwonetserochi ndi chachikulu kwambiri - kuchokera ku chigwedezo ndi grouch kupita ku chete ndi "beeches." Winawake ankakonda kufotokoza zakukhosi kwawo ndi kuyankhula momasuka, wina amayenera kukhala osangalala. Kodi, kwenikweni, ndi "khalidwe lolemera"? Nchiyani chomwe chiyenera kuonedwa ngati chovomerezeka, ndipo ndi zolakwika zotani, chiyanjanitso chomwe simunaphunzirepo? N'zosatheka kufotokoza ndondomeko zosavuta kapena zochepa. Koma onse ndi owolowa manja ndi uphungu wanzeru monga "kukhala wochenjera - khalani bata" ndipo "ngati mukonda, zithani"
Zifukwa zolimbana ndi zofooka za anthu zomwe timakhala nazo nthawi zambiri. Koma pali zina mwazofunikira kwambiri. Ambiri a ife timaganiza kuti: ngati munthu amasintha, mavuto onse amatha, mavuto amatha, ndipo moyo umakhala wosangalatsa kwambiri. Kodi izi zilidi choncho? Phunzirani kuthandizira mayeso osavuta. Kulemba mndandanda wa zolemba zanu zonse, mwinamwake, sizidzakhala zovuta. Yesani kupanga ndandanda yomweyi yoyenera. Pambuyo pa zonse, kuti akonde mwamuna momwe alili, ndikofunikira kuti adzikumbutse yekha - chomwe iye ali.