Mkazi aliyense amafuna moyo wake wonse kuti akhalebe wokondedwa, wokondedwa ndi wofunira mwamuna wake, koma si onse omwe amatha. Sikovuta kuti tipambane mtima wa munthu, wolemba aliyense ali ndi njira zambiri zokopa chinthu chokondedwa mu machitidwe awo. Koma kuti musunge wokondedwa wanu pafupi ndikukhala kwa iye pakati pa chilengedwe ndi tanthauzo la moyo si onse.
1. Mwamuna ndi msaki, mkazi ndi mpikisano
N'zosadabwitsa kuti akunena kuti amai ndi abambo amakhala m'madera osiyanasiyana, motero, ali ndi malingaliro osiyana pa maubwenzi apamtima. Mkazi akuyang'ana chitetezo, kukhazikika ndi chidaliro mwa wosankhidwa wake, koma kwa wokondedwa wake, mbali ya maganizo ndi yofunika kwambiri, yosamveka bwino. Kumbukirani mmene mumamvera. Inu mumadziwana wina ndi mzake, zatsopano zowakopeka, zokondwa ndi kukwiyitsa chidwi chosadziwika. Patapita nthaŵi, anayamba kufooka. Chifukwa chiyani? Mwamunayo wapindula cholinga chake ndipo adachepetsedwa, mwakhala kale mpikisano kwa iye. Inu simunaiwale kuti bamboyo ndi msaki?
Koma zikhozanso kukhala ndi maganizo osiyana. Peasant yokhala ndi zinthu zowonjezera ingathe zaka zambiri kusonkhanitsa fumbi mu chipinda, ndipo adzidzitamandira kwa abwenzi ake nthawi zonse ndi chimbalangondo chokwanira. Simunaganize, chifukwa chiyani izi zikuchitika? Pofuna kupeza pheasant, mwamuna sanafunikire kuyika khama zambiri, zomwe sizingachitike ponena za kusaka chimbalangondo. Apa adadabwa kugula mfuti yamtengo wapatali ndi zida zapadera, kupita ku taiga, kukayang'ana pansi pa chirombocho ndi kupita naye yekha kumenyana koopsa. Kodi mumamva kusiyana? Choncho mfundo yotsatirayi ikusonyeza kuti: kukhala chinthu chofunika komanso chofunika kwa munthu, chomwe iye akufuna kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yake ndi ndalama zake. Musayitane koyambirira ndipo musatenge foni musanayambe kuimba, kusonkhanitsa misonkhano, kukondana ndi kukondana, kufuna ubale wapadera, musataye mphatso ndi zizindikiro za chidwi. Mukamachita zimenezi, muyenera kulemekeza mnzanuyo, musanyoze ulemu wanu. Msaki weniweni sangathe kuthana ndi vutoli.
2. Mwamuna ndi mwana, mkazi ndi mphunzitsi wanzeru
Amuna ndi ana akulu, izi ziyenera kukumbukiridwa nthawi zonse. Ndipo kodi aphunzitsi odziwa bwino sukulu amapanga chiyani pamene ana akuvutika ndi ntchito iliyonse? Cholondola, iwo amawasamalanso pazinthu zina. Choncho, pofuna kukopa munthu ndikukhalabe ndi chidwi mwa iye yekha, mkazi ayenera kukhala wokhazikika komanso wokhazikika.
Kumbukirani, bwalo la zofuna zanu sizingatheke ndipo sizingakhale zochepa kwa osankhidwa anu. Khalani ndi moyo wathunthu, ntchito, kulenga, kuwerenga, kuyenda, kupeza dziko ndikugawana zomwe mumadziwa ndi maganizo anu ndi okondedwa anu. Mwamuna ayenera kuwona ndi kumvetsetsa kuti siyekha pakati pa chilengedwe chonse ndi maonekedwe ake mnzanuyo sali wokonzeka kusinthiratu njira yamoyo ndikuzoloŵera pa guwa la ubale.
3. Aliyense ali ndi mpando wake
Mu ubale muli mipando iwiri - yamwamuna ndi yaikazi, ndikofunikira kuti nthawi zonse muzikumbukira komanso musamafanane ndi malo ena. Kuchokera mu nthawi ya Chipangano Chakale kunakhulupiliridwa kuti munthu - getter, mkazi - woyang'anira nyumba. Inde, nthawi yadzikonzera yokha, koma chinthucho chimakhala chofanana. Choncho, musamamatire maudindo a anthu, ngakhale ali ndi mphamvu yanu. Ndikofunika kuti ukhale wolimbikitsanso munthu ndikumulimbikitsanso zochita ndi zochita za munthu. Tiyeni titenge nthawi, koma mudzadziwa kuti pafupi ndi inu ndi satelanti odalirika omwe ali okonzekera kutenga udindo kwa banja lanu.
Muyenera kumukumbutsa nthawi zonse kuti iye ndi wabwino kwambiri ndipo simungachite popanda iye. Musamangomutamandira ndikuyamika wokondedwa wanu, kuyerekeza ndi ena (movomerezeka, ndithudi), msiyeni amve kuti ndi wofunikira komanso wosasinthika. Yang'anani mosamala momwe amuna a moyo samapembedzere mwa ana awo aakazi aang'ono. Ndipo chifukwa chakuti akazi achicheperewa moona mtima, pamlingo wa masoka achibadwa amakomera atate awo, kuwatsimikizira moona mtima kukhala abwino koposa pa Dziko Lapansi. Kumbukirani kuti palibe munthu wamkulu amene akanapambana popanda kukhala ndi mkazi wambiri amene anamuuzira.
4. O, kugonana, ndiwe Zonse!
Kugonana - mbali yofunika kwambiri ya ubale pakati pa abambo ndi amai, kotero gawo ili lamoyo liyenera kuperekedwa kwambiri. Kwa zosangalatsa zakuthupi sizinasinthike, ndikofunikira kupanga khama lalikulu. Kumbukirani momwe mudakali ndi chibwenzi pomwe mutangokhalira kugonana, momwe mumasankhira zovala zodzikongoletsera mosamala ndikuwonetseratu bwino momwe amaonekera pa kalilole. Tengani nokha izi zophweka, koma malangizo ofunikira:- valani zokongola zokongola komanso zachigololo. Mwamuna sayenera kuwona zovala zowonongeka tsiku ndi tsiku ndi kuchapa zovala zopanda zovala. Pitani kunyumba ndi zovala zoyera, okonzekera nthawi iliyonse kuti mutuluke m'thupi lanu. Kukhalitsa akabudula afupikitsanso sikudzasiya mnzanuyo mosasamala, ziribe kanthu kuti tsiku lake linali lovuta bwanji. Mupempheni kuti abweretse thaulo ndi tchuthi kupita kuchimbudzi ndipo musakayika kuti adzakugonjetsani m'manja mwake ndikumusiya yekha.
- Ikani thupi lanu mu dongosolo. Kutaya thupi, kulowerera masewera kapena kuvina, kubweretsa ungwiro khungu ndi tsitsi. Ngakhale thupi lanu liribe mafananidwe, liyenera kukhala labwino, loyera komanso lokoma kuti likhale fungo. Chomwe chingakhale chokoma kwambiri kuposa khungu lofewa lakale lakazi ndi zonunkhira kwambiri, komabe kadzitsuka pang'ono pambuyo pa tsitsi losamba!
- Musakhale achinyengo ndipo musazengereze kuyesa pabedi. Yang'anirani limodzi mafilimu olaula, yesetsani masewero ochita masewero, kugonana m'malo osiyanasiyana, osangokhala kunja kwa kama. Mulole mnzanuyo kuti adzuke m'mawa sikumveka kwa ola lakalake, koma anu okonda kumwa mankhwala. Ndikhulupirire, adzakumbukira izi tsiku lonse ndipo adzakubwezerani mokwanira madzulo!
5.Pravilno kudyetsa munthu wanu
Aliyense amadziwa mwambiwu ponena za njira yopita kumtima wa munthu kudzera mmimba. Ziribe kanthu kaya zingakhale zopanda phindu bwanji, koma pali tanthauzo lozama lachidziwikire cha umunthu wamwamuna. Mulole chakudya cha mwambo chitembenukire banja lanu kuti likhale mwambo wina. Ngati mwamuna atangoyamba kugonana akubweretsa kadzutsa pabedi, musakane mwayi umenewu m'tsogolomu. Muuzeni kuti chifukwa cha ichi mudzamuyamika ndi kupsompsonana, kukhudzidwa mtima komanso chakudya chamakono.
Ngakhale mutapanda kuphika chirichonse, perekani bwino tebulo, mupatseni chakudya chamzake, perekani chopukutira, mchere, mchere, zowonjezera. Onetsetsani kuti mukhale naye patebulo, ngakhale chakudya chamadzulo ndipo nthawi ino simudyanso. Musayambe kukambirana kwakukulu mpaka munthuyo atakhutitsa njala yake.
Tikukhulupirira kuti malangizo othandizira awa adzakuthandizani kuti mukhale wofunika kwambiri komanso mkazi yekhayo wokondedwa wanu.