Nkhani ya moyo wa heroine, yemwe amatchedwa matendawa, ndi wokhumudwa kwambiri. Adel Hugo, mwana wamkazi wa mlembi wotchuka wa ku France, anavutika ndi chikondi chosadziwika kwa mkulu wa ku Britain Albert Pinson. Adele anali munthu wanzeru komanso waluso, yemwe anali ndi tsogolo labwino, chifukwa adatengera dzina la bambo ake, koma ndi luso la kulemba. Mwatsoka, amagwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zake zonse pozunza wokondedwa wake. Pambuyo pa ntchito ya Pinson anasamutsidwa kupita ku Canada, kenaka kupita ku India, ndipo kulikonse komwe Adele ankakonda naye. Ngakhale kuti sikunali chikondi, komatu sikunali kukondweretsa.
Adele sanakwatire, alibe banja, anamaliza moyo wake kumsasa kwa odwala m'maganizo ali ndi zaka 85. Koma zikuwoneka kuti moyo wa osauka Adele unatha ngakhale pamene anali pafupi zaka makumi atatu ndipo anapita kumadera akutali ku Canada, kufunafuna Pinson. Iye analemba makalata kwa Albert, yemwe ankati iye ndi mkazi wake. Mwa zochita zake, Adele anakhumudwitsa kwambiri mwana wake wamkazi. Pambuyo pake, atasokoneza ndalama zonse, adasokonekera pachilumba cha Borneo, kumene Pinson ankatumikira, kufikira atapezeka ndi kubwerera ku France.
Zizindikiro
Matenda Adeli amasiyanitsa ndi chikondi chosadziwika. Munthu akamangokhala ndi chibwenzi cholimba ndi wosankhidwa wake, ndipo kumverera kumayamba kutsogolera moyo wake wonse, izi ndizo mwayi wokhala ndi alamu. Ngati boma liyambitsidwa, ndiye kuti silingatheke kuchoka payekha.
Omwe akudwala Adélie syndrome ndi amayi ambiri. Zaka, maonekedwe kapena chikhalidwe chawo sichifunikira. Ndi kulakwitsa kuganiza kuti akazi okhawo osakondweretsa amakhala okhudzidwa ndi malingaliro osagwirizana. Kaŵirikaŵiri, yemwe amachititsa matendawa amayamba kukonda ndi munthu yemwe sakudziwika ndi mwamuna wake ndipo sangathe kumanga ubale ndi wina aliyense. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti okonda anzawo osasangalala ndi osakondwa ndipo sakufuna ubale weniweni womwe ungathe kuwononga chinyengo chawo.
Wopweteka wa Adelie's syndrome akhoza kudziwika ndi zochita zachipongwe zomwe amachita mu dzina la chikondi chomwe sichilipo. Koma pamene zonse zangoyambira, matenda a Adelie amadziwika bwino ngati momwemo. Chizindikiro choyamba chowonekera cha matenda a maganizo - malingaliro onse amangozungulira anthu. Munthu sangathe kuganiza kapena kulankhula china chilichonse koma chilakolako. Chifukwa chake, abwenzi amatha pang'onopang'ono kumoyo wake, ndipo kusowa kwakulankhulana kumangowonjezera boma.
Anthu omwe ali ndi matenda a Adela nthawi zambiri amasintha maganizo awo chifukwa cha kupsinjika mtima, kukondwera kwakukulu. Yambani mavuto ndi kugona, musafune kudya. Wopwetekedwayo amakhala wotengeka kwambiri mukumverera kuti sangakwanitse kugwira ntchito zapakhomo, samagonjetsa ntchito zothandizira. Icho chimadula kwathunthu kuchokera kunja kwa dziko, ndipo pa nthawi yomweyo chirichonse chogwirizana ndi wokondedwa chimakhala chofunikira kwambiri. Zodziwika bwino monga mapepala, mapepala osasinthasintha amasungidwa bwino ndi kusungidwa, monga chizindikiro cha chikondi.
Chithandizo
Matenda a Adele ndiwodalirika, ndipo amachititsa munthu komanso mowa, nicotine kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo ndipo amachititsa zotsatira zovuta. Koma ngati mwamuna amasonyeza mphamvu zokwanira ndi kukhumba, amatha kudzipatula yekha ndi okondedwa ake kuvutika.
Kotero, chifukwa chachikulu chomwe chimayambitsa matenda onse ndi obsession ndi munthu m'modzi, chimachokera kwa icho kuti chikhale chosamveka, ngakhale zinali zovuta. B. Shaw adatsimikiza kuti tikuvutika chifukwa tili ndi nthawi yokwanira yoti tiganizire kuti ndife ovuta bwanji. Choncho, muyenera kukonzekera moyo wanu mwakuti mulibe nthawi yochepa yomwe mungathe. Dzifunseni nokha zosangalatsa, kuyamba kuphunzira chinachake chatsopano, monga zinenero, kupita ku magulu akukwera. Chinthu chachikulu ndichokuti ntchito yanu ndi yatsopano kwa inu ndipo imafuna kubwerera kwathunthu.
Kuti muchotse malingaliro ovuta, pitirizani kukumbukira. Limbikitsani kuchotsa chirichonse chokhudzana ndi chikhumbo chanu: makalata, mauthenga pa foni, zithunzi, positi. Yesetsani kupewa malo omwe mudali pamodzi. Kawirikawiri munthu wokondedwa wosakondeka amawoneka kuti ndi wabwino, wopanda zolakwa, koma izi siziri choncho. Yesetsani kukumbukira za zofooka zake, mwinamwake, ino ndi nthawi yokha yomwe zingakhale bwino kukumbukira zolemba ndi mikangano. Pomaliza, yesetsani kukhala odzikonda, ndikuganizirani momwe ubale wanu ulili wopindulitsa, ndipo ndani amene adapindula pa nthawi yopuma.