Momwe mungakhalire mpaka Ukwati wa Golide

Mkazi aliyense amene amakwatira maloto ake okondedwa kuti akhale ndi moyo wosangalala pambuyo pake. Komabe, kutali ndi maloto onsewa akukwaniritsidwa. Amayi ambiri mwadzidzidzi amadzizindikiritsa okha momwe kulili kovuta kuthana ndi mavuto omwe achitika popanda kukhumudwitsa zofuna za wina aliyense, momwe angapewere mikangano mwadzidzidzi. Mwinamwake, ena okwatirana amagawana popanda ngakhale kuwona ukwati wawo "wamatabwa". Nchiyani chiyenera kuchitidwa kuti mutha kukhala mwamtendere komanso mosamala mpaka ku ukwati "golidi"? Mwinamwake, malangizo anzeru awa adzakuthandizani kwambiri: Choyamba - chotsani magalasi "a pinki"! Pambuyo pa zonse, ndinu kale msungwana wamkulu kuti mukhulupirire mwamtendere mwa kalonga pa kavalo woyera. Inu mukhoza, ndithudi, kulota pang'ono za izo, koma kokha. Ndipo m'moyo weniweni yesetsani kumvetsera kwambiri pafupi ndi malo a amuna. Mwinamwake, mudzakhala ndi mwayi wokwanira wotsutsa woyenera pa dzanja lanu ndi mtima wanu.

Ngati simukupereka mpumulo ku nkhani zachikondi za Cinderella, ndiye kuti, pogwirizanitsa malingaliro, mubwere ndi nkhani yanu yokha! Ndipo nthawi zambiri kumbukirani nthawi yodabwitsa ya chikondi chanu. N'zotheka kuti ndiye kumeta muzaka 20, munthu wofiira wamdima wakuda akuwoneka ngati kalonga weniweni. Kalonga wanu wokondedwa!

Chachiwiri - ngati mumakhulupirira kwambiri chikondi chenicheni, muyenera kumvetsa chisoni pang'ono. Malinga ndi zomwe anthu odziwa bwino maganizo amaganiza, nthendayi yaumphawi m'moyo wapabanja umakula makamaka chifukwa cha ukwati "chifukwa cha chikondi chachikulu". Ndipo mukuzisowa?

Ngakhale ngati zikuwoneka kuti mwapeza chikondi chenicheni, chowala, musathamangire korona. Mvetserani mwakonzeka kukhala wokonzeka kulandira wokondedwa wanu ndi zofooka zake zonse, zitsimikizirani mphamvu ya ubale wanu.

Chachitatu , khalani okonzeka, mukakwatirana, sikuti mumangomvera zokhazokha kuchokera kwa mwamuna wanu wokondedwa, komanso mumusamalire. Gwiritsani ntchito khama lomwelo pochita ndi wina ndi mnzake. Ndipotu, izi ndi kusiyana pakati pa "chiyanjano" chimene tinalota. Apo ayi, posachedwa ngakhale kugwirizana kwabwino kosagwirizana kumagwirizana.

Chachinayi - musamanyalanyaze mawu opusa akuti ukwati udzasokoneza ntchito yanu, kupewa kuyankhulana ndi mabwenzi akale ndi zina zopanda pake. Ukwati, ndithudi, udzakhala wochepa kwambiri pa ufulu wanu, koma sizikutheka kuti ufulu wanu udzapondereza. Chinthu chachikulu mu moyo wa banja ndi mgwirizano wodalirika pakati pa okwatirana.

Chachisanu - perekani ziwonetsero kuti mudzakondana ngati mukukonda kwambiri, monga nthawi yamakono muunyamata wanu. Mahomoni a chilakolako m'kupita kwa nthawi amakhala ndi chizoloŵezi chogonjetsa, kotero chitani mofatsa. Izi ndi zachilendo. Mwachidule, "konzekerani zinthu" mu ubale wanu wapamtima, muziwatsitsimutsa ndi wokondedwa wanu wokondedwa.

Chachisanu ndi chimodzi , simukuganiza kuti pambuyo pa sitampu mu pasipoti yanu chiyanjano chanu chidzakula mwa iwo okha! Kumbukirani kuti banja la banja ndilo ntchito yowawa tsiku ndi tsiku kwa onse awiri.

Chachisanu ndi chiwiri , inu simukusowa kumudziwa za mwamuna wanu mwamtheradi chirichonse. Izi zikudzaza ndi kutaya chidwi kwa iye. Musamuuze za inu nokha kanthu kakang'ono. Ndipo izi sizikukhudza kokha ku maubwenzi ndi abwenzi ndi ntchito yanu, komanso kwa zinsinsi zazing'ono zanu. Mwamunayo samasowa kudziwa chifukwa chake masaya anu ali ophweka, chifukwa chake maso amawala.

Chachisanu ndi chimodzi , musati muzitsatira mwatsatanetsatane kuti muyang'ane kapena kuyesa kukhala pafupi naye. Ndikhulupirire, posachedwa mutopa kwambiri. Amati njira yabwino kwambiri yodana ndi kukhala pafupi.

Pangani ndemanga yolondola kuchokera kumalangizo apamwamba: khalani moyo wanu, kulandira kuchokera kwa icho chisangalalo ndi chimwemwe. Kenaka muwauze iwo ndi okondedwa anu ndi theka labwino.

Kotero inu mudzakhala omasuka bwino palimodzi. Ndipo mwa njira iyi mutha kukhala ndi mwayi weniweni wokhala ndi ukwati wa "golide" ndithudi muukwati wosangalatsa!