Kubadwa kwa mwana ndi chinthu chokondweretsa kwambiri komanso chofunika kwambiri m'moyo wa banja lililonse. Achibale ndi abwenzi onse amafunitsitsa kuyamikira makolo ndi mwana wakhanda ndipo amapereka mphatso iliyonse kwa mwanayo. Koma apa pali vuto - kodi ndi chizoloŵezi chotani kupereka mwana wakhanda? Zimasankha kuti kusankha mphatso kwa mwana wakhanda ndi ntchito yovuta kwambiri.
Njira yosavuta ndi kuvomereza kugula mphatso ndi makolo a mwanayo. Koma makolo ambiri mwaulemu kapena modzichepetsa samakonda kupereka mphatso, koma amapereka kusankha kwawo. Pachifukwa ichi, mphatso siidadabwitsa ndipo kubweretsa kwake sikudzachititsa chidwi ndikudabwa ndikudabwa. Pofuna kudzipangira nokha mphatso, muyenera kusamala ndikuyesera kudziwa zomwe zikusowa mu dowry wa mwanayo. Zomwe zili m'nkhaniyi zidzakuthandizani kusankha kusankha mphatso.
Zimene mungapereke mwana wakhanda sizinakonzedwe
Mwachikhalidwe, ndi mwambo kupereka mayi wamng'ono ali ndi mphatso kwa khanda, maluwa. Komabe, izi siziyenera kuchitika, monga mungu uli ndi mphamvu zowonongeka ndipo zingayambitse vutoli, mayi ndi mwana wakhanda. Ngati simukufuna kuyamikira maluwa popanda maluwa, pali njira - kupereka maluwa a balloons. Maluwa oterewa sakhala okhawo otetezeka, koma komanso oyambirira, sadzafota tsiku lotsatira ndipo adzakhalabe kukumbukira makolo kwa nthawi yaitali.
Mphatso zosafunika m'zaka zazing'ono ndizozitayirira zofewa, zidole ndi magalimoto. Mwanayo ayamba kusewera nawo osati posachedwa, ndipo masewerawa atenga malo ndikusonkhanitsa fumbi. Kugula zamaseŵera, ndibwino kuletsa zosankha zomwe zidzakhala zosangalatsa kwa mwana wakhanda posachedwa. M'masabata oyambirira a moyo, kumathamanga, zowonongeka, zonyamulira zowamba zapamwamba zotsamba zidzakhala zofunikira. Zosowa zonse ziyenera kutsimikiziridwa.
Kulimbana ndi mphatso yotsutsana ndizojambula. Sitikudziwa kuti maulendo ndi njira yoyamba yofunikira ndipo sizomwe zimakhala zovuta. Ngati mudasankha makapu, musanagule, muyenera kufotokoza ndi makolo anu mtundu womwe amagwiritsa ntchito.
Mphatso ina yodziwika, koma nthawi zambiri imakhala yopanda phindu, ndi mbozi ndi mabotolo. Masiku ano, ana ambiri samadya zakudya zokhazokha, ndipo zosankhidwazo zimayenera kuyankhulana payekhapayekha, ana amakhanda amakhala okondwa kwambiri pankhaniyi ndipo, monga lamulo, amagwiritsidwa ntchito kwachitsulo chimodzi.
Musathamangire kugula sukulu yakukwera. Wotchuka m'mbuyomo pafupi ndi amayi onse, posachedwa sizingafunike. Amayi amakono samakonda kuika mwanayo pabwalo la masewero, ndipo amavvalanso muzenera kapena m'manja mwake. Choncho, kufunikira kugula malo oyenera ayenera kukambirana ndi makolowo.
Zonsezi zikugwirizananso ndi oyendayenda omwe amaperekanso mwana wakhanda. Maganizo a makolo amakono kwa oyenda ndi otsutsana kwambiri - anthu ena amawakana, koma wina amawagwiritsa ntchito mosangalala. Kuonjezerapo, chisankho chogwiritsa ntchito woyenda sichidatengedwe kale kusiyana ndi msinkhu wa miyezi isanu. Choncho, kupereka wopita popanda chilolezo cha makolo sichivomerezedwa.
Palibe chifukwa chofunikira kupereka zinyenyeswa mankhwala - mankhwala oyeretsa, ma teya azachipatala, mapaipi a gasi, syringes. Zinthu izi ndi amayi ndipo amalowa mankhwala, chifukwa zabwino kuposa iye palibe amene amadziwa zomwe zimayenera mwana wake. Mphatso yoteroyo siyidzawoneka yoyenera ndikuyang'ana mtengo wotsika mtengo.
Sikofunika kugula chakudya cha mwana kwa mphatso kwa mwana wakhanda. Chosankha chake ndi chapayekha ndipo simukudziwa kuti mwana watsopanoyo amadyetsedwa bwanji. Chakudya cha ana chingaperekedwe kwa mwanayo atangovomerezedwa ndi mwana wake.
Bukuli ndi mphatso yabwino kwambiri, koma panopa lamulo ili silikugwira ntchito nthawi zonse. Msika wa mabuku ndi oversaturated ndi mabuku okhudza kusamalira ana ndi kulera kwawo, pamene olemba awo nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi maganizo osiyana. Choncho, musalemetse mayi wamng'onoyo kuti adziwe zambiri. Ndithudi iye ali ndi lingaliro lake pa nkhaniyi ndipo adzasankha mabuku pazinthu za ana mogwirizana ndi mfundo ndi zikhulupiriro zake.
Zovala zingakhale mphatso yabwino, chinthu chachikulu ndicho kusankha kukula kwake ndikutsatira mafashoni a ana. Kugula zovala kuti zikule, muyenera kukumbukira kuti m'miyezi itatu yoyamba mwanayo amakula pafupifupi masentimita asanu pamwezi. Mphatso yamtengo wapatali idzakhala yotupa, yokhazikika pamapewa, ryoshonki, thupi, cotton ndi silk coverall. Ngati mutumikiza kapu kapena bulasi ndi manja anu, mphatso imeneyi idzakondweretsa mwanayo ndi amayi ake.
Mphatso zabwino za ana
Kotero, ife tinaganiza pa zomwe mphatso siziyenera kuperekedwa. Tsopano ndi nthawi yomvetsera zinthu zomwe zidzakhumba ndi zothandiza kwa mwanayo ndi banja lake.
Kugona ndi mphatso yabwino komanso yothandiza yomwe sizingakhale zodabwitsa. Mukhoza kupereka mipando ya ana, yomwe imaphatikizapo mapepala, pillowcase ndi chivundikiro cha chidole kapena choyikapo cha talasi zosiyana siyana ndi bokosi la ubweya. Mphatso yamtengo wapatali idzakhala yopangidwa, yomwe imaphatikizapo mbali zothandizira komanso zida zotetezera, zivalo zazikulu zamatumba ndi mabulangete a ana adzabweretsanso bwino m'banja lililonse. Mphatso zotere zimatsimikiziridwa kuti ndizofunidwa, koma sizinayikidwa pambali pambali ya kabati.
Photogoods. Makolo atsopano amayesa kutenga gawo lililonse pa chitukuko cha mwana wawo mu chithunzi. Kupambana kochepa kwambiri kwa mwana kumawachititsa chidwi kwambiri ndi kunjenjemera, chifukwa amakonda kujambula mwana wawo. Ndicho chifukwa, mphatso monga kamera, chithunzi cha albamu ndi mafelemu azithunzi sizingakhale zodabwitsa. Mphatso yapachiyambi idzakhala albamu ya chithunzi, diary ya chaka choyamba cha moyo, momwe simungathe kujambula zithunzi zokha, koma ndikulembanso zofunikira zomwe zimachitika ndi mwana wakhanda - atayamba kutembenuka, amakhala pansi, anayamba kusekerera, kuthamanga, kutchula mawu oyambirira, ndi zina zotero. mafelemu ojambula bwino kwambiri a ana, opangidwa mwa mawonekedwe a nyama kapena nthano zamatsenga.
Woyendetsa. Njinga ya olumala ndi yofunikira kwa ana onse popanda kupatulapo, ndipo motero, idzakhala mphatso yofunika komanso yofunikira. Komabe, kusankha msola ndi ntchito yofunika kwambiri. Kugula njinga ya olumala, nkofunikira kuyankhulana ndi makolo ndikupeza zomwe amakonda.
Chophimba ndi mphatso yabwino komanso yofunikira kwa munthu wamng'ono, ngati makolo sanagulitse pasadakhale. Kusankha chophimba kumakhala kosavuta kwambiri, kusiyana ndi galimoto, chinthu chachikulu - kuwona, kuti anaphedwa kuchokera ku zipangizo zachilengedwe ndi certificated. Mwinamwake iyi si mphatso yapachiyambi, yomwe nthawi zambiri imaperekedwa, koma yothandiza kwambiri.
Chinsinsi chofunika kwambiri cha mphatso yabwino kwa mwana ndiwonetsedwe kwa chikondi ndi chisamaliro. Lolani mphatsoyo kukhala yochepetsetsa komanso yotsika mtengo, koma yosankhidwa ndi yoperekedwa mwachikondi, ndi mzimu womwe uli mkati mwake.