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Iye anali mmodzi wa iwo. Zonsezi zinayamba monga wina aliyense, malinga ndi mwambo wa banal: Choyamba panali chikondi ... Osati chikondi, koma "KUKONDA" ndi kalata yaikulu. Amene amalemba ndime ndi kulemba m'mabuku. Chisangalalo chachikulu, chosangalatsa chomwe sichinawoneke kuti chikutha. Kumverera komwe kumapangitsa kuti anthu azivutika maganizo ndi zokoma zokoma. Ndipo zinkawoneka kuti anali munthu wapadera komanso wapadera, mnyamata wokondedwa, yemwe anali akumuyembekezera kwa nthawi yayitali ndipo potsirizira pake anapeza. Ndipo tsopano moyo wosangalatsa, tsiku ndi tsiku uyenera kukhala nkhani yachinsinsi ...
Koma, mwatsoka, chirichonse sichiri chophweka. Pogwiritsa ntchito nthawi, zonse zinasintha. Nkhaniyi inasiya kukhala yodabwitsa kwambiri, zithunzizo zinatha, ndipo lingaliro linayamba kuti chimwemwe-mapeto sakanakhala ...
Tsiku lina, atakhala kunja kwawindo pa nthawi yachisanu, madzulo adakwera pamasamba ake akale ndikumbukira ndi misonzi m'maso mwake momwe zinayambira: Anayang'ana mwachikondi kwa mnyamatayo ndipo amamvetsera mwachidwi ku mawu onse. Mkaziyo adamuyamikira ndikumuyamikira, ndipo panalibe chinyengo m'mawu ake. Anamuona kuti ndi wabwino kwambiri, wokongola komanso wokondedwa kwambiri. Ndipo miniti iliyonse yomwe ndimakhala ndi wokondedwayo imawoneka ngati yamuyaya, ndipo ndikulakalaka kuti maubwenzi amenewa sanagwe. Ndipo chikondi ichi sichinali chimodzi. Ndipo ntchito iliyonse, ngakhale yaying'ono kwambiri, siinayankhidwebe. Mnyamata amene ankamukonda anam'pembedza.
Kodi zonsezi zapezeka kuti? Ndipo zotsalazo ndi ziti? Palibe zokambirana zautali, zowona, palibe kumvetsetsana komanso kugwirizanirana. Palibe zodabwitsa zosayembekezereka, chikondi chosakonzedwa masewero ndipo nyumba idatonthozedwa chimodzimodzi. Moyo wake wonse unali wosamvetsetseka kwa iye, njira yothetsera yomwe imakhala pachisindikizo cha kusalabadira.
Ubale ndi okondedwa anu unagwa. Ndipo kunali kosatheka kuyembekezera, mwinamwake kungakhale kuchedwa kukonza chinachake kenako. Mafunso ambiri ankamuvutitsa iye, ndipo panali nthawi yaying'ono yopanga zisankho ...
Muyenera kuthana ndi mavuto onse mu dongosolo. Ndipo kotero, ubalewo unagwa, ndipo miyezi yotsiriza ya moyo inagwera mu tartaras. Koma nchifukwa ninji chinachitika palimodzi kotero? Nchiyani chinachitidwa cholakwika poyamba? Mwinamwake, malingaliro athazikika, chikondi chadutsa, ndi chikondi ndipo sizinali zonse? Ngati munthu asanamvetsetseko ndi zizindikiro zina, ndipo tsopano, pozindikira kuti ndinu weniweni, akufuna kuti athawe, mwinamwake musamamugwire? Ndipotu, palibe amene amayenera misozi ya msungwana ndipo mtsikana aliyense amafuna munthu wokhulupirika, wodalirika, osati wotsutsa. Tiyeni tipeze yankho: mwinamwake, kugonana ndi mnyamata wokondedwa ukugwera chifukwa chakuti sakonda zokwanira, kapena sakondana kukonda. Musasokoneze chikondi ndi chikondi ndipo muyenera kudzipangira nokha kamodzi kokha, kaya mwamunayo ndi woyenera kuti muvutike komanso ngati mukufuna kubwezeretsa chirichonse.
Ngati ubale uli wofunikira, ndipo mukufuna kuwasunga, tidzakambirana ndi funso lina: Nanga bwanji ngati ubale wanu ndi wokondedwa wanu watha?
Mkhalidwe wake unali: Ankafuna kukhala ndi chiyanjano ndi mnyamata, kubweretsa zinthu zonse kumalo ake oyambirira, ndipo adachita zonse bwino:
Choyamba, anafunika kuti akhale chete, asangalale. Mu nthawi zoterezo ndi zovuta kuti ndikhale nokha, choncho ndi bwino kutembenukira kwa bwenzi, katswiri wa zamaganizo, wansembe ... Inde kwa wina aliyense! Kungoyankhula kapena kufuula zonse zopweteka. Tsopano kuti wapeza mtendere, ndi nthawi yoti mudzidziwe nokha, kufufuza mkhalidwe, kupeza zolakwa. Tiyenera kumvetsetsa kuti zakale sizingasinthe. Muyenera kuiwala (ngakhale kuti ndi zovuta), chotsani m'maganizo a m'mbuyomu momwe chiyanjano ndi mnyamata yemwe amamukonda kwambiri chatha, tembenuzirani pepala ndikuyambiranso.
Ndipo, yatsopanoyi, ndithudi, iyenera kukhala yabwino kuposa kale ...
Choyamba, adadzipenda yekha ndi kuzindikira zomwe zasintha mwa iye. Kudzilemekeza kwatayika, kapena msinkhu wake watsika kwambiri. Kenaka anayamba kuganiziranso chifukwa chake amamukonda kwambiri. (Mwina ntchito zoterezo zikuwoneka ngati zongoganizira zokha, koma zatsimikiziridwa kuti achinyamata amafuna chikondi ndi omwe amadziwa kudzimvetsa okha, kumvetsetsa zolakwa zawo ndi kuwongolera mwaluso.) Cholinga chinali chotsatira: kusintha ndikukhala wodalirika ndi msungwana aliyense wolamulira. Kuti chirichonse chizigwira ntchito monga momwe chinkafunira, iye ankafunikira chitsimikizo cha zabwino. Poyamba, iwo anali anyamata, koma tsopano akhoza kukhala chinthu chophweka komanso chotheka mtengo (chakudya, zodzoladzola, zovala, zosangalatsa), zomwe zimakondweretsa kuwonetseredwa kwake konse. Mwachidziwikire, amafunika kudzaza moyo wake ndi kuwala ndi chisangalalo, kupeza chisangalalo m'zinthu zonse.
Ndipo pa nthawi yomwe anali atangokhala ndi chimwemwe ndi chisangalalo cha moyo, mgwirizano wapitawo unali wobwerera. Mnyamata yemwe amamukonda amadziwa kuti amamukonda moona mtima. Amakonda kuseka kwake pamene ali wokondwa, amamukonda misonzi, ngati ali wokondwa, ndipo akuopa kuti adzamupatsa wokondweretsa wina. Anazindikira kuti zinali zopweteka kukhala ndekha ndikutaya chikondi. Kuti mupulumutse, muyenera kupereka chinachake, kuchita chinachake, kupanga zovuta, kusankha zoopsa. Pambuyo ponse, monga wina wamkulu anati:
"Ubwenzi uliwonse ndi woonda kwambiri ngati galasi, koma timayamba kumvetsetsa tikangowonongeka. Mpaka pano, tikuwona ndikumva kuti ubale ukuyamba kuwonongeka ndipo kugwa kwawo kuli pafupi. Koma nthawi zambiri timapitiriza kuchita kanthu. "Koma mwachabe! Ndizochita zomwe zimatsogolera kulephera.