Amayi ambiri masiku ano amafunitsitsa kutaya mapaundi owonjezerawo. Kwa mkazi, izi sizili zophweka, chifukwa adadza kwa iye chifukwa adziganizira yekha pa chinthu chosakongola kwambiri. Mkazi akufuna kudzimva yekha ndi wodzidalira. Kwa ichi, iye ayenera kukhala wokongola, ali ndi chiwerengero chabwino. Koma kodi ichi chiyenera kukhala chithunzi chotani? M'maganizo a amayi a nthawi ino anauzidwa magawo abwino a chiwerengerocho, chomwe chiyenera kukhala ndi mkazi - 90-60-90.
Azimayi ena anganene kuti sakuona kuti ndizofunikira ndipo sakuzifuna, ngakhale kuti, sizingakhale choncho. Mtsikana akamagula magazini ya amai, amawonetsa TV pa TV kapena filimu, akuyang'ana pa kabukhulo ndi zokometsera, ndiye amawona paliponse zomwe ziri ndi magawo ofanana. Ndipo ngakhale mtsikanayo sakufuna izi, ubongo amakumbukira zithunzi izi ndipo amawayesera.
Ngati mtsikanayo ali kutali kwambiri ndi 90-60-90, ndiye kuti nthawi zambiri amadwala matenda ake, kupweteka kwake, maganizo ake. Kodi zigawo zabwinozi zinachokera kuti?
M'magazini ambiri, kukongola ndi thanzi zimapatsidwa njira yomwe magawo a chiwerengero cha mkazi adatsimikiziridwa. Momwemo, kulemera kwa mkazi kuyenera kukhala wofanana ndi kukula (mu cm) kusiyana ndi 100 ndi khumi mwa kukula. Mwachitsanzo, ngati kutalika kwake ndi 170, ndiye kuti kulemera kwake kuyenera kukhala 170 cm - 100 cm - 17 (kukula kwa 10%) = 53 kg. Chosangalatsa kwambiri, akazi ochepa akhoza "kudzitamandira" kulemera kwake. Ngati mtsikanayo ndi fashoni kapena wovina, ndiye kuti akhoza kusintha thupi lake kuti akhale ndi miyezo yotere, koma kodi izi ziyenera kuchitidwa ndi amayi wamba? Kulemera kwake ndi magawo ake ali pafupi kwambiri ndi kutopa.
Kawirikawiri, magawo ena a chiwerengerocho anakhala ofanana chifukwa amayenera kufanana ndi zithunzi zozizwitsa zodziwika bwino (Zolemba zapamwamba, Vog ndi ena), makamu a TV, oimba, i.e. Atsikana omwe amawombera kawirikawiri pa kanema. Izi ndi chifukwa chakuti kanema kanema ilibe gawo labwino - anthu amawoneka owopsa kuposa momwe iwo aliri. Ndiko kuti abise zotsatirazi, masamu amatenga miyezo yotere.
Choncho, ngati msungwanayo sakutsatira miyambo yomwe amavomereza kuti ndi yovomerezeka, ndiye kuti palibe cholakwika ndi izo. Ndipo kwa amayi ambiri, muyenera kugwiritsa ntchito ndondomeko yapamwambayi, koma mwasintha pang'ono: simuyenera kuchotsa magawo khumi pa kukula, koma peresenti yokha. Chiwerengerochi chikuwonetsa bwino zomwe zimachitika pazimayi, ndipo iwo amawoneka bwino ndikupweteka thanzi lake. Sitiyenera kuiwala kuti kukongola, koposa zonse, ndikowonetsa thanzi la thupi. Palibe magawo ndi miyezo sizingapangitse msungwana kukhala wokongola kwambiri, ndipo zowonjezera kuti apititse patsogolo thanzi.
Asayansi a ku United States, akuyankhula za malo abwino a chiwonetsero cha akazi, kuyandikira kuchokera ku mbali ina. Malinga ndi iwo, magawo abwino ndi thupi lonse labwino. Ndipo pa nthawi yomweyi, mobwerezabwereza, zilibe kanthu kuti mkaziyo akulemera bwanji. Ngati mtsikana ali ndi phokoso lokongola, m'chiuno chochepa ndi m'chiuno chachikazi, ndiye kuti palibe munthu amene angaphonye mtsikana wokongola kwambiri. Ndipo ena azikhulupirira kuti ayenera kulemera.
Ndiyeneranso kuzindikira kuti zotsatira za asayansi omwewa a ku America amasonyeza kuti pakali pano amuna ambiri amanena kuti amakonda atsikana omwe saliatali, koma ali ndi miyendo yaitali. Chiwerengero cha chiwerengero cha atsikanawa chiyenera kukhala. Inde, wina anganene kuti izi siziri zatsopano, ndipo izi sizosadabwitsa, koma ziyenera kuzindikiranso kuti asungwana otero alibe zoyenera kuti apolisi azitsatira.
Asayansi amanena kuti atsikana omwe alibe magawo abwino sayenera kukwiyitsa, chifukwa magawo abwino a mkazi ndi ofanana. Panthawi yonse ya kukhalapo kwa anthu, yankho losavomerezeka ku funso la kukongola kwake silinapezepo. Munthu aliyense ali ndi lingaliro lake pa izi ndi malingaliro ali osiyana kwambiri. Koma mulimonsemo, mtundu uliwonse wa maonekedwe a msungwana mwachibadwa, ayenera kunyada nawo ndipo ngati pali chosowa cholimba, muzisinthe mwa mphamvu yake. Ndipotu, chinthu chofunikira kwambiri ndi chakuti amakonda yekha!