Kulowa mu chiyanjano cholimba kwambiri, zimakhala zomveka chifukwa chake okonda ndondomeko kawirikawiri, ndipo, ndikumbukira zodandaula za abwenzi, sindimvetsa zomwe akusowa. Tsopano ndili pakati pa zochitika zonsezi, ndipo ndikutha kufotokoza zonse mwachindunji kuchokera kumalowa, kukupatsani malingaliro anga, malingaliro ndi zolingalira. Masiku oyambirira timasamala kwambiri, Ndipo tsopano ndadziwa chifukwa chake timakangana ndi okwatirana athu. Ndinamvetsa zolakwitsa za amayi pochita ndi amuna . Chimene sichiyenera kuchita, ndi momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito, komanso chomwe chingakhale ngati mukulakwitsa. Koma ndife anthu onse, kotero kuti tonsefe timatha kulakwitsa.
Chifukwa chakuti chidwi chathu choyamba kwa munthu wathu wokongola chimapatsidwa chisamaliro choyipa, ndipo tikadzipereka kwathunthu kwa abwenzi athu, ndiye kuti sataya chidwi, ayi, amangoyamba kutisokoneza ndi zinthu zina zofunikira. Chimene chingakhale chofunika kwambiri kuposa ife, mukuganiza. Palibe, ife basi, chifukwa kuwala sikunasonkhane, akazi okondedwa, apa inu muli chifukwa cha wokondedwa wanu, tulukani minofu mu spa-salon, kapena manicure, kapena makongoletsedwe - ayi! Mudzabwezeranso chidwi kwambiri pazinthu izi, kotero kuti zomwe wokondedwa wathu angatiwone, momwe timayambira, ndife okonzeka kupukuta ndi kupukuta kwa masiku, kungoti aone nzeru zathu zokha, ndipo palibe wina aliyense! Ndipo lolani amuna ena ayambe kutichitira nsanje kuti ndife ake popanda tsatanetsatane.
Kotero, pamene tayamba kugawa chidwi cha wokondedwa wathu ndi zochitika zosafunikira, timakhala okhumudwa komanso okhumudwa, ndikukhulupirira kuti ndibwino kuti tizisamala, ndipo palibe wina kapena china chilichonse. Timayamba kuchitira nsanje kuyambira mayi ndi mchimwene wanga ndipo timatha ndi tizilombo toyambitsa matenda ndi mtedza, timayamba kukopa pinki yathu yokongola, yopanda pinki ya siponji, ndikumuuza kuti sakonda ife.
Cholakwika 1 ! Timayamba kuphunzitsa mwa iye kuti sakonda ife, ndipo patapita kanthawi malingaliro amagwira ntchito, ndipo amasiya kutikonda ife. Munthu aliyense akhoza kuthetsa malingaliro ndi kuponderezana, ndipo munthu aliyense ali ndi mphamvu yokha kugonjera kuganiza uku. Ndipo inu nokha mukuwononga chimwemwe chanu, kumuuza iye kuti sakakukondani inu ndi misozi pamaso pake.
Cholakwika 2 ! Inu simuli oleza mtima. Limbikitsani nthawi imene iye sakuyamwitsa ndi iwe, koma ndi galimoto yake. Ngati sangakupatseni nthawi, ndipo sakukuuzani kuti "mukhululukire wokondedwa wanga (wokondedwa wanga, mwana wanga, dzuwa langa ndi zina zotero), koma amangonena kuti" sindingathe lero, ndikuyenera kukonza galimoto ndi Vasya ", izi sizikutanthauza kuti Simukukonda, zikutanthauza kuti akufunikira kukonza galimotoyo ndi Vasya. Chitani chinachake, mmalo mwa kudya ubongo wanu mopanda pake ngati "sakonda ine ndipo samandimvera."
Cholakwika 3 ! Siinu nokha padziko lapansi pafupi naye. Ali ndi mayi, m'bale ndi gulu la ana apamtima. Amafunanso chidwi chake, monga inu, choncho phunzirani kugawana ndi banja lake, chifukwa amawadziwa bwino kwambiri kuposa inu. Mnzanga wina adadandaula kuti bwenzi lake silipita naye ku cinema pa tsiku lake, koma patsiku lake, koma anapita kukathandiza mchimwene wake kumanga nyumba. Chofunika kwambiri ndi chiyani? Kodi filimu kapena nyumba? Muyenera kupereka nsembe chifukwa cha chikondi. Mwinamwake iye anadzimana tsiku limene iye amapita kukacheza ndi wokondedwa wake, koma mchimwene wake onse atapempha thandizo pomanga nyumbayo. Ndizovuta kuposa kanema.
Cholakwika 4 ! Iwe ndiwe wodzikonda kwambiri. Nthawizonse mumakoka bulangeti, ndikuchotsa kutali ndi okondedwa anu. Mumamuchotsa zinthu zimene amakonda, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti azichita zinthu zosangalatsa. Munthu aliyense amakonda kuwona mpira ndi abwenzi ndikumwa mowa, ndipo m'malo mwake amapita kukagula nawo, kapena amapita kukacheza ndi mnzanu, kapena chinachake, chimene mumakonda. Ndipo ngati akukupatsani ntchito yomwe amamukonda, mukukanganuka mphuno zanu, mukukanganitsa mu "grimace" Ndidzasanza tsopano "ndikufuula" osati chirichonse ", ganizirani zomwe mungachite ngati akufuula mofananamo pamalingaliro omwe mumapanga, kuti mutenge nthawi yanu nthawi yapadera.
Cholakwika 5 ! Kwa caprices ake a princess wamng'ono kapena mulungu wamtengo wapatali, ife sitikuwona chikhumbo cha munthu wathu, potero kumupangitsa iye kukhala kapolo kuchokera kwa wokondedwa. Mukusowa mwamuna yemwe adzachita ntchito za amuna, osati imodzi yomwe ikukwaniritsa zokhumba zanu zonse. Iye si wachikulire, Hottabych, yemwe angakhoze kudula tsitsi lake lotsiriza kuti akwaniritse zokhumba zanu zazing'ono. Inde, kwa inu si chikhumbo chozama - kupita ku sitolo ndi kugula bulasi yatsopano, koma yang'anani mwachidule, ndipo inu, ndikuganiza, tidzamvetsa zonse.
Apa tikudandaula kuti abambo athu samatimvetsa konse, ndipo sadziwa zomwe tikusowa. Ndipo ife tikudziwa chomwe chiri chofunikira? Zokhumba zanga ndi zosangalatsa zanga zingasinthe maminiti khumi, ndipo ndimvetsetsa kuti wokondedwa wanga sangathe kusintha kwa iwo komanso pansi pa kusintha kulikonse. Phunzirani kumvetsa wokondedwa wanu, yang'anani zinthu zonse moyenera, kuchepetsa zofuna zanu zazing'ono ndikuziwona. Izi sizidzadziwika, ndipo adzakukondani kwambiri. Chizindikiro chirichonse cha chidwi chake ndikuchiwona ndikuzizwa, koma ndikuzizwa. Ziribe kanthu kuti zowonongeka izi ziri zopanda pake, zimachokera mumtima, ngati mwakhala pamodzi kwa nthawi yayitali, osati "kuthamangira." Ndidzatchula chitsanzo chimodzi, kachiwiri, bwenzi langa adafuna, mawu awa, wowongoka tsitsi limodzi wokondwerera tsiku lake lobadwa, koma sanaulandire. Mmalo mwake, iye analandira kalata mu shopu yogulitsa zovala. Chabwino, panalibe ndalama kwa mnyamata pa nthawiyo, adakonza kale tsiku lake lobadwa, natsogoza atsikana ake apamtima pamodzi naye ku chikwama cha bowling. Sanali wokwiya choncho, adakwiya. Ndipo chirichonse chinali kugwedeza ndi kugwedeza ndi zofuna zake, mwachisangalalo kwa iye iye anali nthiti yolimba kuti asokoneze, kapena mwinamwake iye amamukonda iye kwambiri, koma iwo akadali palimodzi, ndipo iye akusowa kuti aziwongolera. Ndizosadabwitsa kuti akunena kuti "musayang'ane mphatso ya kavalo pakamwa" komanso "kuyembekezera choipa koposa, koma chiyembekezo chabwino", nzeru za anthu, zomwe zimapindula kwa zaka zambiri, nthawi zonse, osatsutsa mphatso zake, koma ingoyang'anirani zomwe mukufuna kuchokera kwa iye, koma musayembekezere kuti iye amvetsetse lingaliro lanu. Ndiyeno, zidzakhala zokondweretsa kwambiri kuti mutenge zomwe mukuyembekezera kuchokera kwa iye, ngati akumvetsa, ndithudi.
Komabe, amuna athu ndi achinyengo ndipo amakhumudwa akamakonda. Amaopa kuchita zoipa pochita zoipa. Ndikhoza kumuuza wokondedwa wanga pamene andibweretsa ine mtengo wotsika mtengo popanda chifukwa, ndipo pamene andiyang'ana m'maso mokonda ine, ndipo akuti "wokondedwa, ndikufuna kuti ndikukomereni." Kodi ndingamuuze bwanji kuti izi zimakhala zotsika mtengo komanso zosavuta, ngati zikuyimira chikondi chake. Inde, amatha kusankha zabwino koposa, koma pambuyo pake, amuna samakhala ndi kukoma kotheratu pankhani ya mphatso kwa wokondedwa.
Mfundo yaikulu ya maubwenzi abwino, omwe amabwereza magazini onse a amayi a masiku athu "muyenera kumvetsa amuna kuti atimvetsetse." Kondani amuna anu, ndipo iwo adzakukondani kuposa momwe mumamukondera.