Kuchokera ku zowonjezereka za malingaliro oipa, mukhoza kupanga zolakwa zambiri ndikuwaza nkhuni. Chinthu choyamba chimene chimabwera m'malingaliro ndi munthu amene akupereka kusakhulupirika - kuswa ubale.
Ganizirani zifukwa zowonongera, ndipo yesetsani kupeza momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito kuyamwa chifukwa chopandukira mnzanuyo.
Chikondi chodutsa. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti chikondi chochoka ndicho chifukwa chachikulu chimene amachitira anzawo amachitira chiwembu. Muzochitika izi, ndi bwino kulankhula momasuka ndi mnzanuyo, fufuzani zomwe zikuchitika pakati pa inu ndi kusankha zomwe mungachite. Koma, monga lamulo, mgwirizano woterowo udzawonongeka.
Mavuto pakati pa okondedwa . Kuwonekera kwa mavuto mu maubwenzi kawirikawiri kumabweretsa chiwonongeko. Ngati mnzanuyo asintha, izi sizikutanthauza kuti iye amakukondani. Chiwembu, pa mbali yake, ndi njira yapadera yothetsera mavuto anu. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu akuganiza kuti mwamusiya, simunamvere. Amawona njira imodzi - kutchera khutu kwa antchito ake. Chodabwitsa kwambiri, koma pazochitika zoterozo, nthawi zambiri kupandukira kumabweretsa banjalo pamodzi ndikugwirizananso.
Mavuto apakati ndi wokondedwa . Mavuto angakhale osiyana kwambiri.
Mwachitsanzo, simukufuna kukhala ndi chibwenzi cholimba. Wokondedwa akamaona kuti ubalewu ukuyenda kupita kumalo atsopano, oopsa kwambiri, mantha ndi zovuta mkati zimadzutsa mwa iye. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, chiwembu sichimubweretsa chisangalalo, koma, mmalo mwake, ndi kuzunzika kokha.
Kukhalitsa mwachindunji, nayenso, kumapangitsa anthu kuti achite chiwembu. Kusintha ndi kugonana ndi wokondedwa, mnzanuyo amayesera kudzionjezera kudzilemekeza.
Maganizo ozikika. "Mwamuna ayenera kukhala ndi mkazi kuwonjezera pa mkazi wake, akhale ndi ambuye" kapena "ngati mkazi ali ndi mutu, ndiye kuti ayenera kukhala wokonda." Munthu akamakhala ndikuchita zinthu mwa kudalira maganizo a anthu, amalankhulanso za kumverera kosasamala mwa iyemwini.
Zifukwa zomwe wothetsera bwenzi limathetsera chiwembu zingakhale zosiyana. Koma, momwe mungasinthire kusintha ndi kusunga ubale?
Choyamba chomwe chimachitidwa kuti chinyengo ndicho chilakolako chosiya kugonana. Koma, ngati mukondanabe, muyenera kuyang'ana njira zopewera zotsatira zoipa.
Ngati kugulitsidwa, komabe kunachitika, a psychologists amalangiza kuyembekezera nthawi, pamene maganizo athazikika, ndipo mukhoza kuyang'anitsitsa mkhalidwe. Kumvetsetsa kuti onse awiriwa akuvutika chifukwa cha kusakhulupirika. Mufuna kukambirana, koma ngati inu nokha simungathetse vuto, ndiye kambiranani ndi katswiri.
Kuchita zinthu zosasintha kumasintha wokondedwa, kumbukirani kuti amuna amafuna kugonana ndi kukhutira. Sadzadzaza ndi borscht ndi pelmeni.
Khalani ndi chidwi ndi zomwe wokondedwa wanu amakonda. Ngati akukuitanirani nsomba, musakane. Zosangalatsa zofanana zili pafupi kwambiri. Musati muikire zizolowezi zanu pa anthu. Amuna amateteza chitetezo chawo pamene wina akuyendetsa pa zopatulika.
Yang'anani maonekedwe anu. Mkazi wokongola - amachititsa chikhumbo cha munthu ndi chidwi.
Musati mukhale mkazi - awona. Ndikofunika kuti munthu azindikire kuti nyumba yake ndi malo ake achitetezo. Akabwerera kunyumba, safuna kuti azizunzidwa. M'malo mwake, mwamuna amathamangira kwa mkazi ngati nthawi zonse amakomana naye ndi kumwetulira ndi chimwemwe.
Ndipo, potsirizira pake, kukhumudwitsa kusintha kapena kupeĊµa chiwonongeko konse, madona okondedwa, khalani onyada ndipo muziwakonda amuna anu!