Tonsefe timayesetsa kuti tipeze chimwemwe, tikufuna kukwaniritsa malingaliro ndi chitonthozo ndi dziko lozungulira. Ndipo kwa anthu ambiri, makamaka kwa amayi, chikondi ndi chimodzi mwa zigawo zofunika za chimwemwe chimenechi. Koma ngati anthu okonda kugonana amatha kukondana, kuyang'ana maso a okondedwa, madengu a maluwa ndi zosangalatsa zina zimakhala ngati chizindikiro cha chikondi, ndiye kuti chizindikiro chogonana ndi chilakolako cha kugonana kwa amayi a mtima pa adiresi yawo ...
Lero tikukupemphani kuti mukambirane zinsinsi zazikulu zogonana. Kodi ife, amai, tingakhoze kukondweretsa abwenzi awo pa kama, kuti atipatse kutentha ndi uzimu? Kulondola, zokambirana sizikhala zokhudzana ndi zomwe ziyenera kuchitika, koma zomwe siziyenera kuchitika. Pambuyo pa zonse, chifukwa cha kusiyana kwa kulingalira kwa dziko, akazi ndi amuna nthawizina amayang'ana zinthu zomwezo, monga akunena, kuchokera ku mabelu osiyanasiyana. Ndipo zomwe timaziona ngati zachirengedwe, okhulupirika athu amatha kutentha.
Chinsinsi 1: "DREAM LONGA!"
Inde, m'chilengedwe pali amayi omwe amazizira kwenikweni omwe ali ndi kugonana pamaso pa babu. Komabe, monga akatswiri apeza, palibe ambiri a iwo. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, nthawi zambiri maonekedwe a dziko lapansi angathe kusintha. Koma muzochitika zambiri izi kusamvetsetsana sizomwe zenizeni, koma zakunja ndi zotsatira za kulera. Tikuopa kuti tiwoneke ngati tawopsya komanso osakondana ndi anzathu, choncho timapewa zilakolako zomwe zimatikwiyitsa ndi mphamvu ya kulingalira. Ndipo amavutika ndipo amakwiya.
Kumbukirani: kumunyoza mwamuna chifukwa chakuti nthawi zonse amamuimbira mchitidwe wogonana, amapereka zosankha zatsopano pa masewera achikondi - mawu kapena khalidwe lake - timawakhumudwitsa kwambiri. Ndipo ngakhale anthu osalakwa ndi achilengedwe, kuchokera kumalingaliro aakazi, machitidwe a khalidwe, monga manyazi chifukwa cha kupereka kwa kugonana, amuna amawoneka ngati onyozedwa. Chitonzo ichi chikhoza kukhazikitsidwa monga chonchi: "Kulimbana ndi kugonana kwazing'ono kwambiri, izi ndi zilakolako zonyama zokhazokha zokhazokha."
Monga kukana kapena kutonza anthu omwe ali ndi mphamvu zogonana amalingalira za kusagwirizana kwa abwenzi pa masewera apamtima. Kumbali imodzi, kukakamizidwa kuti ayambe kudziyesa okha, akuopa kuti amve kukana. Koma, nthawi zambiri amalingalira motere: "Popeza sakuyang'ana pa caresses yanga, ndiye kuti ndine wokonda kwambiri, sindikupeza". Koma kwenikweni, palibe amene amakonda kukhala woipa, wolakwika, makamaka amuna. Ndicho chifukwa chake amakwiya.
Momwe mungakhalire?
Ndi zopanda phindu kukana okondedwa awo, makamaka m'mawu. Ngati muli ndi chidwi ndi ubale weniweni ndi wogwirizana ndi munthu uyu, ndiye kuti muyambe kuganiziranso momwe mumayendera. Ganizirani luso lanu moganiza bwino: Kodi mungaiwale zonse zomwe mudaphunzitsa mudakali ana ndikupereka zokhuza kugonana kwanu kapena muyenera kufufuza thandizo kwa wogonana? Ndiponsotu, amuna omwe ali ndi thanzi labwino amakhala osangalala ngati azimayi awo ali okondwa kwambiri ndikuyamba, ndikupereka zosankha zonse zatsopano pa nthawi yogona.
Zoonadi, njira zoyamba mu nkhani yovutayi ziyenera kuchitika kupyolera mwa sindingathe. Chinthu chodabwitsa ndi chakuti muzinthu izi sizingatheke, koma muyenera kupempha thandizo kwa mnzanuyo. Yesetsani kulankhula naye, koma osati pa nthawi ya ubwenzi. Muuzeni kuti mukufuna kusintha chibwenzi chanu. Funsani zomwe angafune kuchokera kwa inu, ndiuzeni, ndi njira ziti, mawu, akhoza kukuthandizani kuti mukhale osangalala.
Azimayi ena amathandizidwa kupeza zolaula zolaula kapena mavidiyo. Wina ndi wosavuta kuti adziŵe nkhani zimenezi yekha, ndipo wina satsutsana ndi mwamuna kapena mnzake. Chinthu chachikulu ndikupanga chisankho pa zomwe mukuyenera kukonzanso malingaliro anu pa kugonana, komanso kuti musamaganizire za nthawi yomwe "simukufuna."
Chinthu chachiwiri: "SINTHA CHINYAMATA CHANU NDI MAFUNSO ENA"
Ndani samakondwera ndi mfundo yakuti mkazi muzinthu zonse amadalira maganizo ndi zochitika za mnzanuyo! Ambiri, komabe, monga momwe poyamba, chifukwa kuchokera kwa wokondedwayo, maubwenzi oterewa amafunikira kukangana kwakukulu. Inde! Ndipotu mayiyo adzipereka yekha, ndiye kuti wapatsidwa udindo wake. Ndipo ngati udindo uwu sikuti umangotengera tsogolo lake, komanso chifukwa cha zochitika zake? Ndiko komwe galuyo aikidwa. Amuna amasangalala ngati amamvetsera. Koma ngati mawu aliwonse 'kapena zochita zikuwoneka ngati choonadi chokhalitsa, sichingatheke, chifukwa ndi choyenera. Zomwezo, oimira amphamvu athu aumunthu ndi omwe ali ndi udindo waukulu koposa.
N'chimodzimodzinso ndi kugonana. Ndizosangalatsa kukhala wokondedwa wachikondi. Koma ngati mzimayiyo, pokhala wosasangalatsa, mwadzidzidzi sanatuluke, amatha kunena kuti: "Bwanji nanga? Muyenera kudziwa zonse ndikukhoza kuchita zonse! Ndipo "sindinatenthe". Koma izi sizosangalatsa konse. Mwamuna amamva ngati kuyesedwa, nkhawa, ndikuopa kuti asapirire. Ndipo chifukwa chake, nthawi zambiri mumapewa misonkhano. Ndipo izi zakhala zosasangalatsa kale kwa dona wake.
Momwe mungakhalire?
Chabwino, choyamba, tiyeni tikumbukire kuti zolaula ndi chipatso cha kuyesetsa. Chachiwiri, mkazi aliyense ndi chinsinsi, aliyense ali ndi zinsinsi zake zazikulu. Inde, pali njira zina zomwe zimakondweretsa amayi ambiri, koma ndi inu omwe simungachite. Choncho, nthawi zonse kufotokozera gawo mu masewera achikondi monga "mtsogoleri -" ndizolakwika ndipo zimangokhala zosangalatsa. Chachitatu, munthu sangalowe mkati mwa malingaliro a mkazi wake, ngakhale atakhala naye limodzi kwa nthawi yaitali. Nchiyani cholakwika ndi icho, ngati iwe ukamuuza iye zina zomwe angasankhe kuchita zomwe zingasangalatse onsewo?
Komabe, ndizosatheka kuti mutenge nawo mbali. Oimira abambo amphamvu samawakonda zopanda chilolezo. Ndipo ngati chochitika chimodzi cha "merges" yanu chiri ngati chimzake ... "Choyamba chotsani chisoti chanu. Ayi, ndi pang'onopang'ono. Tsopano pantyhose. Sakani m'khosi. Ayi, uwu si khosi, ndi kubwerera. Ine ndinapempha mu khosi! "Chabwino, ndi zina zotero. Kodi ndizosangalatsa? Mulimonsemo, amuna ochokera "zozizwitsa" zoterezi amayamba kumva okonda zoipa ndipo ali ovutika kwambiri.
Tiyeni tigwirizane: ngati muli ndi chidwi ndi munthu uyu ndipo mukuyesera kumanga naye ubale wamphamvu ndi wokondweretsa, yesetsani kuthetsa nthawi zochepetsera ngati chiyanjano. Ngati ndi choncho, awiri ndi osiyana. Lero - inu, mawa - iye. Kulingalira mu bizinesi iliyonse posachedwa kumadzetsa imfa. Yesani kukumbukira izi!
Chinsinsi 3: "PHUNZIRANI MODZI WA WINA"
Amayi ambiri samadziwa kuti amuna ambiri amadziwika ndi mbolo yawo. Pafupifupi malinga ndi Mayakovsky: "Timati" phwando ", timatanthauza" Lenin ". Timati "Lenin", timatanthauza "phwando". Pano pali nkhani yomweyo.
Kupitiliza kuchoka ku chidziwitso ichi, kumbukirani: kusamala mokwanira ku ziwalo zobisika za wokondedwa pa nthawi yopanga chikondi, kuopa kuwakhudza - ndiko kunyoza. Ndipo nkofunikanso kugwirizanitsa ndi malingaliro. Ngati mkazi, akunyengerera mbolo ya munthu, amanyansidwa kapena kuopa kuti chinthuchi "chikufuna kuphulika" m'manja mwake, sizikawoneka kuti akufuna kubwereza. Pambuyo pake, maganizo athu onse, ngati sali olembedwa pamaso, amamveka bwino. Woimira wogonana ndi mphamvu zogonana mosaganizira bwino: ngati "khalidwe lake lalikulu" limayambitsidwa ndi malingaliro okhumudwitsa, ndiye kuti iye mwini sayenera kukhoti.
Kuchulukanso kosafunika ndi kuchepetsa chikondi chonse cha caresses cha mbolo imodzi. Mwamunayo amayamba kumverera ngati mukuyesera kumupangitsa kuti ayambe mwamsanga kuthetsa chibwenzi mu nthawi yolemba. Mukuganiza nokha sizosangalatsa kwambiri.
Momwe mungakhalire?
Posankha njira yothetsera kusautsika kwanu ndi mantha, wina ayeneranso kupanga chisankho: osapindula ndi thandizo la katswiri. Ngati mutasankha kuchita zofuna zanu, yesetsani kulankhula ndi abwenzi anu enieni ndikufunsani uphungu wawo: kuthetsa vutoli. Mwina zingakhale zosavuta kwa inu anzanu ena atavomereza kuti akukumana ndi mavuto omwewo. Zochitikazo zimakhala zovuta kwambiri, choncho timakhala osungulumwa m'mabvutowa ndipo nthawi zambiri sitidziwa kuti mavuto athu ndi ofanana. Chabwino, ndithudi, zingakhale zabwino kuwerenga mabuku, momwe akatswiri omwe amadziŵa bwino amachititsa kuthetsa vutoli.
Ngati mumatsimikiza mtima kuti mwamuna wanu ali ndi malo amodzi okhawo omwe ali ndi ziwalo za thupi, yesetsani kumufunsa funso (osati pabedi, koma "musanafike" kapena "pambuyo"): ndizinthu zina ziti zomwe akuyembekezera kuchokera kwa inu? Mwinamwake iye wagona ndipo akuwona kuti iwe uyamba kukonda chikondi ndi minofu kapena potsiriza kuganiza za kuluma izo kumbuyo kwa khutu lako? Ndipo iwe suli tulo kapena mzimu. Dzikumbutseni nokha, chifukwa simukukonda pamene manja ake ali pa miniti yoyamba ali pamalo anu olakalaka. Ndikufuna kuyamba kwina. Ndipo amuna ndiwonso anthu.
Koma nkutheka kuti simungamve kanthu kena koganiza poyankha funso lanu. Wokondedwa wanu, mofanana ndi inu, amakhulupirira modzichepetsa kuti zochitika zake zogonana zimangokhala pamalo amodzi. Ndiye tifunika kuyang'ana zomwe zimatchedwa njira ya poke. Yesetsani kuchisokoneza ndiye, ndiye, simukufunsani kuti: ndi zabwino?
Chinsinsi Chachinayi: "KUKONDA KWAMBIRI!"
Tonsefe timakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi kukongola. Ndipo chifukwa maganizo a maonekedwe awo amatenga malo ambiri m'mitu yathu. Zina mwazochita zogonana, chifukwa cha zochitikazo, zimadziona kuti sizogonana komanso nthawi zonse zimadandaula nazo. Ndipo wina, mosiyana, usana ndi usiku akuyang'ana kuti aziwoneka okongola, okonzeka bwino, ndi zina zotero. Tsono, izi zonsezi zimagogoda amuna omwe ali kunja. Mukufuna kusangalatsa mwamuna wanu kapena mnzanuyo, pezani malo apakati mogwirizana ndi maonekedwe anu.
Kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake izi zimachitika kwenikweni. Tangoganizirani izi: Nthawi zonse, mkaziyo akuyamba kudandaula ndikupereka mawu monga "Tawonani, ndataya mafuta" Kapena "Ambuye, nchifukwa ninji ndili ndi miyendo yoipa kwambiri!" Mwamunayo akuvutika, chifukwa akuyenera kutsutsa, ndiye kuyamikirika kuti zithetse vutoli. Koma ngati atayamikila kuyamikila kumveka, kumayamba kukwiyitsa. Pamapeto pake, bwanayu akufika pozindikira kuti analakwitsa posankha dona.
Komabe, mbuye yemwe ali pa nthawi yovuta kwambiri akudzidzimutsa kuti: "O, ma eyelashes amatha!" Kapena "Mosamala, iwe udzawononga maonekedwe anga!", Kuwonjezera apo, sizingatheke kumusangalatsa mwamuna wake. Sizingatheke kumpsompsona mwachikondi-milomo idzapaka. Pa masaya zigawo za ufa - ndizosavuta. Kenako mphete yake inagwira pamphepete mwa chinsalu, ndipo dzanja lachikondi linakwapula mphete! Kawirikawiri, mmalo mwa zosangalatsa - zina zovuta. Chifukwa chake kukwiya, mwinamwake kusweka kwa maubwenzi.
Momwe mungakhalire?
Ndi maofesiwa n'zotheka kulimbana, ngakhale kuti ndi kovuta. Pali njira zambiri pano. Mmodzi mwa otchuka kwambiri masiku ano ndi kujambula. Pezani munthu wojambula zithunzi waluso ndipo mumufunse kuti afotokoze chithunzi chanu mwakuti zolephera za thupi lathu sizimawoneke, ndipo olemekezekawa akuwonetsedwa, monga akunena, mokwanira. Khalani pamalo otchuka kwambiri ndikudziyesa nokha, kuonetsetsa kuti muli ndi zokongola zambiri zokongola. Azimayi ambiri amaposa anyamata omwe ali ndi matenda othetsera nkhawa m'zochitika zoterezi amathandiza kulingalira za chithunzi chawo mwa chikhalidwe cha "nude." Mwinamwake uwu ndi njira yabwino kwambiri kwa inu? Mvetserani!
Njira yabwino ndi maphunziro a galimoto. Zidzakhala zodabwitsa kuti nthawi zonse muzinena nokha mawu onse okoma ndi okoma, kuyang'ana molunjika m'maso (ndiko, pagalasi).
Ndipo zambiri. Nthawi iliyonse mukamayamikiridwa ku adilesi yanu, yanizani kukonzeka kuthetsa kutsutsa. Ndi bwino kungonena kuti: "Zikomo!" Ndipo kumwetulira.
Ndipotu, zomwezo zingalangizedwe kwa amayi omwe sangakwanitse kugula chakudya popanda kupanga. Yang'anani wokongola, yodzikongoletsera, yokonzekeretsa bwino - yayikulu! Komabe, ngati khalidwe lanu likuwonetsa ubale ndi okondedwa anu, ndiye chifukwa chiyani? Yesetsani kuphunzira momwe mungakonde nkhope zanu zonse zomwe zingakhale: zonse zachirengedwe - zopanda utoto, ndi "pepala" pang'ono, komanso "utoto wolimbana nawo."
Chinsinsi 5: "MUSAMAKULE" UTUMIKI "
Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zinsinsi zazikulu zogonana zomwe zimagwirizana. Inde, inde, nkulondola, musati muchite nokha, koma mutengepo kanthu kwa njondayo. Mfundo yakuti amuna amakonda, akakhutira ndi "zokambirana za kugonana," amadziwa ngati si onse, ndiye ambiri. Koma amasangalala okha! Ndipo akukhumudwa kwambiri, pamene mkazi akukana pansi pa izi kapena zotsutsana ndi "mphatso" zoterezi. Ndipo mfundo apa sikuti anthu amasangalala ndi ndondomeko yokha, koma kuti kugonana kwachinsinsi kumawoneka ngati chinthu choyambitsana kwambiri pazochitika zonse zogonana. Ndipo ngati mayiyo samulandira, ndiye kuti sakundikhulupirira.
Ndipo chiwonetsero chimodzi chokha. Mpaka wokhutira ndi munthu aliyense payekha chikondi chimadalira kukula kwa wokondedwa wake. Chabwino, timakonda blagovernym kutipatsa chisangalalo! Amuna ambiri amatha kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino chifukwa chakuti mayi wa mtima ali kumwamba kwachisanu ndi chiwiri kuchokera kumalo ake. Iwo anapangidwa mwachilengedwe ndipo alibe chokhumudwitsa nacho.
Momwe mungakhalire?
Inde, ngati kugonana kwakamwa n'kovuta kwambiri, ingogonjetsa nokha, kuti mubweretse munthu kukondwera, osati phindu. Koma mungayesere kuganiziranso momwe mumaonera chiyanjano chanu. Nthawi zina zimalimbikitsa kupita kukambirana ndi wogonana. Funsani mwamuna wanu kuti asafulumire pamene ali ndi mankhwala olankhula. Lolani kuti "pitirizani" inu, pogwiritsa ntchito njira zosiyana. Mwinamwake, pokhala ndi chisangalalo chokwanira, mumatha kugwiritsa ntchito kugonana pamlomo mosavuta.
Mungathe kukambirana ndi mnzanu momasuka ndikumufunsa kuti akufotokozereni chifukwa chake akulimbikira ntchitoyi komanso mmene akumvera. Pali kuthekera kuti pambuyo pa zokambirana zoterozo mungagwiritse ntchito kugonana kumalankhula ngati kugonana kokha ndikuiwala kuti kupyolera mu ziwalo zoberekera, zotsalira zokhudzana ndi zakudya zimachotsedwanso m'thupi ...
Ndipo amayi ena amakhudzidwa kwambiri pa nthawi yomweyo kuti amangoopa mantha. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kuvomereza pasadakhale ndi mnzanu kuti adzakuwonetsani kudziko la chiyanjano pang'onopang'ono, ndiko kuti, dosed.
Ndipo pomalizira ndikufuna kukukumbutsani kuti nthawi zambiri kusamvana kwathu (kuphatikizapo okondana) kumathetsedwa pakutha kukambirana. Kuyankhula za kugonana, ngakhale mwamuna wanu wokondedwa sikophweka nthawi zonse. Koma ndi zothandiza. Kumbukirani izi ndipo musataye mavuto aliwonse omwe amadza, koma yesetsani kupeza njira mwamsanga. Chimene tikukhumba iwe!