1. Kukhala wokhoza kusamalira maganizo.
Atsikana aang'ono angathe kuthetsa zilakolako zamkuntho, ngakhale amatsenga. Amuna amakonda kukhululukira zinthu zoterezi pokhapokha ngati zonsezi zikhoza kuchitika chifukwa cha kusadziŵa zambiri. Pamene mkazi wokhwima ali wokondwa, monga wachinyamata, izi ndi zodabwitsa, kunena pang'ono. Ngati pali chiyanjano pakati pa mkazi ndi mwamuna, amafunika kuthandizidwa, koma zina mwazofunika kuzilamulira. Chotsatira chachikulu ndi kuyanjana kwabwino ndi kusamvetsetsa kwaumtima ndi chifundo, chifukwa amuna nthawi zonse amasaka, omwe ali ndi chidwi chothetsa mavuto ndi kukwaniritsa.
2. Khalani moyo wanu.
Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti munthu akangowoneka mmoyo wa mkazi, palibe malo ena onse. Amuna amasangalatsidwa ndi chidwi ichi, komabe chingakhalenso chifukwa chake maubwenzi sadzapitiliza. Kuchokera mu msinkhu wina, kudalira, ngakhalenso kuganiza, kumaganiziridwa kokha mwa ana, kotero akazi okhwima sasowa kuyang'anizana ndi ubwana.
Mwinamwake muli ndi ntchito, mabwenzi, zokondweretsa ndi zodandaula zomwe zakhala zikukuchitirani inu kale. monga munthu adawonekera. Musayese kukankhira mwamtheradi zinthu zonse kumbuyo, musasinthe njira yamoyo ya osankhidwa anu. Ndi bwino kumwa nthawi yomwe mumakhala pamodzi. Kotero simudzatopa nthawi yomweyo. Kuphatikizanso, zochepa zing'onozing'ono zimathandizanso chifukwa simukuzindikira zolephera zanu mpaka ulemu wanu ukhale wofunika kwa inu.
3. Sangalalani ndi moyo.
Amayi ambiri amanena kuti n'kosatheka kukhala wachimwemwe komanso yekha pa nthawi yomweyo. Koma osasangalala anthu osasangalala ndi anthu ochepa omwe ali ndi chidwi. Osati anthu onse m'mtima mwawo ndi amodzi okonzeka kupulumutsa amayi okongola kuchokera ku ukapolo wa zolakwika zawo. Dziweruzireni nokha, ndi kangati mumamvetsera omwe akuwoneka ngati kuti mavuto onse a dziko adagwa pa iye? Ndipo ngati mutero, kodi mukufuna kumulowetsa m'moyo wanu? N'kutheka kuti si.
Ngati muli okondwa ndi zomwe muli nazo, koma osasintha zina pamoyo wanu, mudzawoneka okongola koposa ngati tanthauzo lenileni la moyo wanu lidzakhala pachiyanjano ndi munthu wina.
4. Ikani msampha.
Ngati mkazi ndi mwamuna ali ndi chifundo ndi chilakolako poyang'ana poyamba, izi, ndithudi, ndi zodabwitsa. Koma sikuti nthawi zonse zimachitika mwanjira imeneyi, nthawi zambiri munthu amasonyeza chidwi. Mkazi wodziwa zambiri ali ndi mwayi wokopa chidwi. Ngati munthu akuwona kuti umakondweretsa wina, adzakumverani ngakhale mutakhala ndi chidwi.
Choncho, ndi bwino kumudziwa ndi anthu omwe amakupeza iwe wokongola, wanzeru, waluso. Makhalidwe anu abwino atsimikiziridwa, ndizowonjezereka kuti adzakondwera nokha. Mwamuna adzakondwera kuti mkazi wotero amamvetsera.
5. Yang'anani mozama.
Yesani kuwona mwa munthu yemwe ali wokondweretsa kwa inu, chinachake chapadera. Samalani osati pa zomwe zikuwoneka poyang'ana poyamba . Inde, mukhoza kuyamikira mphamvu zonse ndi kutalika ndi kukonzekera, koma yesani kuzindikira chinthu china chimene chimabisala kumbuyo kwa maonekedwe ndi zomwe poyamba zimayendera. Mwamuna adzakondwera ngati muzindikira mwa iye makhalidwe ena, omwe, amakhulupirira, sakuwonekera kwa anthu ena. Yesetsani kuti musakhale ochepa.
6. Pezani chinthu chofanana.
Mwamuna akhoza kukhala mkazi wosangalatsa wa m'badwo uliwonse. Mukhoza kuyandikira mofulumira ngati mumakonda zinthu zomwezo, muli ndi kukoma komweko, ngati mutatsatira mfundo zofanana ndikukhazikitsa zolinga zomwezo. Sikoyenera kutenga nawo mpira kapena makompyuta monga munthu, koma pali zina zofunikira pamoyo wathu zomwe zingakhudzire nonse awiri.
Pa gawo loyamba lachidziwitso phwando likugwira ntchito mwangwiro, momwe mukuwonekera kuti mukufanizira nkhope yake ndi manja ake. Izi zidzakupatsani mbendera kuti ndinu "mabulosi amodzi".
Mzimayi wodziwa bwino nthawi zonse amadziŵa za ulemu wake ndipo amadziwa momwe anganyengerere munthu kumagulu ake. Aliyense ali ndi zinsinsi zambiri, zomwe zimapindulitsa kwambiri. Koma, mwinamwake, palibe njira yabwino yokwatira pa msinkhu uliwonse - ndiko kukonda ndi kukondedwa. Ngati pali zambiri pakati pa inu kusiyana ndi chifundo komanso kuwerengera mofanana ndi momwe mukuonera, ndiye kuti ubale uli ndi mwayi woposa kukhala mgwirizano wa anthu awiri okhazikika.