Kumbukirani zonse zomwe mwalangizidwa m'magazini a mafashoni kwa amayi. Kapena, mosiyana, kumbukirani zonsezi, ndipo chitani zosiyana. Kodi mukufunadi kukwatiwa? Kenaka muiwale mau awa: Masiku ano ndi okhudzana ndi chiwerewere, kudziimira ndi chikazi, kulakalaka ndi kukondweretsa. Magazini olongosoka amasonyeza kuti awa ndi akazi ngati amuna? Kumbukirani - izi ndi zopanda pake! Amuna angakhale, ndipo ngati akazi awa, koma amakwatirana kwathunthu ndi ena. Choncho, kuti mukwatirane nokha ndi munthu aliyense, muyenera kukumbukira malamulo ena.
Samalani mosamala chomwe chiri chifukwa chenicheni chomwe wokonda sakufuna kukwatira. Nthawi zina zimachitika kuti zifukwa sizili mwa inu konse. Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe zimalepheretsa amuna kupanga chisankho chokwanira ngati ukwati, choncho safuna kukwatiwa. Zina mwa izo zingawoneke zosangalatsa komanso zosasangalatsa kwa inu. Koma kumbukirani, ziri choncho, zikuwoneka. Ndipo iye, mwachitsanzo, mozama safuna kukwatira chifukwa akuwopa ndi gulu la maukwati asanakwatirane. Ngati chifukwa chake ndi chonchi, mum'dziwitse kuti simudzayika vutoli pamapewa ake, ndipo mumapereka nkhaniyi kwa makolo anu.
Amuna ambiri amawopa kwambiri kukwatiwa, chifukwa amawopa kwambiri ndi mawu oti "kwanthawizonse". Yesetsani kumudziwitsa kuti ngati chinachake mwadzidzidzi sichikutha, ndiye kuti nthawi iliyonse mungathe kusudzulana, monga momwe maukwati ambiri asanakwatirane.
Kotero, pamene izo zatha, ndikwanira kusonyeza malingaliro pang'ono ndi luntha, ndikumaganiza kuti wokondedwayo wakwatira kale. Pokhapokha musanakwatirane, ganizirani mozama, koma kodi izi ndi zomwe mukuyesera kukwaniritsa? Chifukwa ufulu ndi ufulu. Ndipo malingaliro a "mbewa imvi" akhoza kutayika bwino.
Julia Sobolevskaya , makamaka pa malowa