Momwe mungakwatire aliyense

Anzanu onse okwatirana ali okwatira, ndipo kuti mwatsimikizire kutsirizitsa tsogolo lanu mumatumiza msonkhano wosayembekezereka ndi chibwenzi chakale omwe simunamulemekeze ndipo simunazindikire kusukulu. Zaka 10 za sukulu mudali otsimikiza kuti zikhoza kukhala ndi gulu laling'ono. Kawirikawiri - mbewa imakhala imvi. Ndipo tsopano mbewayi imamvetsera mwatsatanetsatane nkhani zanu zokhudzana ndi ntchito yatsopanoyi, pang'onopang'ono imasintha mphete yagolidi ndi diamondi pa mphete ndipo imati: "Wokondedwa wanga samandilola kupita kuntchito." Mwachidziwitso, ndiwe wokha wokha wosakwatiwa wa kalasi yathu. " Zodziwika bwino? Pali njira imodzi yokha yotulukira. Kukwatirana, ndikutseka pakamwa pakamwa ndi miseche, ndikukwatira aliyense. Kuti izi zikhale zosavuta kuposa momwe zikuwonekera poyamba. Kumalo ati, ndi momwe mungakhalire ndi mwamuna wanu wam'tsogolo - iyi ndi mutu wosiyana. Tidzakhulupirira kuti alipo kale mnyamata yemwe mumagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yake yonse yaulere. Iye kwa inu "wina winanso", kapena kale wokalamba ndi wokhumudwa kwambiri mzanga ndizosafunika konse. Chinthu chachikulu ndichokuti mwachiwonekere sadzapita ndi iwe ku korona. Komabe, kukwatira, ngati mutatsatira malangizo awa molondola, adzafunikanso. Ndiye momwe mungakwatire wina aliyense?

Kumbukirani zonse zomwe mwalangizidwa m'magazini a mafashoni kwa amayi. Kapena, mosiyana, kumbukirani zonsezi, ndipo chitani zosiyana. Kodi mukufunadi kukwatiwa? Kenaka muiwale mau awa: Masiku ano ndi okhudzana ndi chiwerewere, kudziimira ndi chikazi, kulakalaka ndi kukondweretsa. Magazini olongosoka amasonyeza kuti awa ndi akazi ngati amuna? Kumbukirani - izi ndi zopanda pake! Amuna angakhale, ndipo ngati akazi awa, koma amakwatirana kwathunthu ndi ena. Choncho, kuti mukwatirane nokha ndi munthu aliyense, muyenera kukumbukira malamulo ena.

Samalani mosamala chomwe chiri chifukwa chenicheni chomwe wokonda sakufuna kukwatira. Nthawi zina zimachitika kuti zifukwa sizili mwa inu konse. Pali zifukwa zambiri zomwe zimalepheretsa amuna kupanga chisankho chokwanira ngati ukwati, choncho safuna kukwatiwa. Zina mwa izo zingawoneke zosangalatsa komanso zosasangalatsa kwa inu. Koma kumbukirani, ziri choncho, zikuwoneka. Ndipo iye, mwachitsanzo, mozama safuna kukwatira chifukwa akuwopa ndi gulu la maukwati asanakwatirane. Ngati chifukwa chake ndi chonchi, mum'dziwitse kuti simudzayika vutoli pamapewa ake, ndipo mumapereka nkhaniyi kwa makolo anu.

Amuna ambiri amawopa kwambiri kukwatiwa, chifukwa amawopa kwambiri ndi mawu oti "kwanthawizonse". Yesetsani kumudziwitsa kuti ngati chinachake mwadzidzidzi sichikutha, ndiye kuti nthawi iliyonse mungathe kusudzulana, monga momwe maukwati ambiri asanakwatirane.

Kotero, pamene izo zatha, ndikwanira kusonyeza malingaliro pang'ono ndi luntha, ndikumaganiza kuti wokondedwayo wakwatira kale. Pokhapokha musanakwatirane, ganizirani mozama, koma kodi izi ndi zomwe mukuyesera kukwaniritsa? Chifukwa ufulu ndi ufulu. Ndipo malingaliro a "mbewa imvi" akhoza kutayika bwino.

Julia Sobolevskaya , makamaka pa malowa