Mosasamala kuti ndani amene amalankhula mawuwa, nkofunikira kutsatira malamulo osavuta:
- Chotupitsa sayenera kukhala motalika kwambiri, mwinamwake palibe amene angamvetsere mpaka mapeto;
- Ponena za anthu okwatirana kumene, ndi bwino kupeŵa zosangalatsa za mitu yawo (mwachitsanzo, maubwenzi akale), musanenanso kugonana, ndalama, chiwonongeko, etc .;
- Mawonekedwe ovuta kwambiri omwe amadziwika kuti ndi a nthabwala kapena amatsenga, amathetsa mpweya;
- Chotupitsa ndibwino kuphika ndi kubwereza kunyumba: makolo, achibale ndi mboni nthawi zambiri amadandaula kwambiri, choncho zimasokoneza.
Chabwino, tsopano timapereka ukwati wabwino kwa makolo, mboni, mabwenzi ndi achibale.
Kulimbana ndi ukwati kuchokera kwa makolo
Amayi a mkwatibwi pa ukwatiwo amadandaula kwambiri. Pa chofufumitsa, iye akhoza kufotokoza chikondi chake chonse ndi chikondi chake, nkufunira mwana wamkazi wachimwemwe ndi kumupatsa mawu olekanitsa. Mizere yoyenera:
Muli ndi tsiku lapadera lero.
Kotero khalani okondwa nthawizonse.
Pakhale msewu wowala,
Lolani kukhala banja lochezeka.
Khalani wokhudzika, wachifundo, chikondi,
Kuwopa kwamisonkhano yoyamba.
Ndipo mphete zomwe anazitenga m'manja mwao,
Onetsetsani kuti mupulumutse mpaka mapeto.
Mulole mu moyo wanu konse
Masiku amenewo sadzabwerezedwa,
Chikondi nthawi zonse ndi chofunikira,
Ndipo kamodzi kokha kukwatira!
Amayi a mkwati amalandira mpongozi wake m'banja lake. Pa toast, ayenera kufotokoza maganizo ake kwa mwana wawo wamkazi.
Liwu likunjenjemera pang'ono kwa ine,
Ndipo mtima wa mayi ndi wathanzi.
Kukhala nanu tsopano ndi mkazi wanu,
Ndipo ndimakhala pang'ono kumanzere.
Umu ndi m'mene Mulungu akukudalitsirani:
Chikondi cha banja ndi chimwemwe kwa inu.
Ndikutumiza syllable yanga yoyamikira,
Ngakhale mkazi wanu ali ndi nsanje pang'ono.
Musagwirizanitse kufunika kwa izo,
Tsopano chinthu chofunikira kwambiri n'chosiyana kwambiri.
Kodi mumapanga chiyani, mwana wanu, banja lanu,
Chidzakupulumutsani kuchisoni.
Mulole chimwemwe chanu chikhale chabwino,
Lolani chikondi sichimatha pachabe.
Ndipo zidzakhala zophweka kwa inu ndi wina ndi mnzake,
Musamenyane ndi mikangano.
Ndikukhumba kuti chitonthozo cha nyumba yanu,
Ndipo mawu a ana amveka mwa iye.
Kuyenda mumsewu kuchokera ku alamu ndi mayesero
Bwerani ku zomwe munalota.
Ndipo ngati mukufuna dzanja langa
Kugonjera kwake, kutentha kumamuwotha.
Chofunika kwambiri lero ndi banja lanu kwa ine,
Ine ndikudwala naye ndi moyo wanga.
Tsopano ndilibe mwana wamwamuna,
Tsopano mwana wanga wamkazi wapatsidwa ufulu.
Mulungu akupatseni inu, ana, zabwino zokha,
Kuti moyo ukhale wosangalatsa.
Kumbukirani mphindi iyi kwamuyaya,
Lolani ilo likhale lopatulika.
Tsopano sitiri mkwati ndi mkwatibwi chabe,
Kuyambira tsopano, inu ndinu mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Ndipo kukupatsani mavuto,
Mulole motowo usatseke m'magazi.
Tikukufunirani thanzi. Tikukhumba iwe chimwemwe.
Tikukhumba iwe chikondi cholimba!
Abambo ndi anthu akuluakulu. Kawirikawiri panthawi ya toast, amapereka mawu awo olekanitsa kwa ana. Musati mubise malingaliro, muwonetseni kuti mumakhala ndi nkhawa yani, momwe mukufunira, moyo wa banja ndi wopambana.
Tikufuna kulakalaka mpongozi wake:
Kukhala wokongola nthawi zonse,
Kuti nthawi zonse mukhale osangalala,
Kuti ana ambiri abereke,
Kubereka ana ena.
Kuti chiwerengerocho chinali chosekedwa chinali
Kotero kuti chikwangwani changa chinali chokongoletsedwa.
Kwa mpongozi wake kuti achite zonse,
Ndipo popanda ntchito kuti asakhale,
Osati moyipa kuposa mawa, kuwala pang'ono,
Mwamuna wanga ankawoneka kuti anali wokalamba.
Kuti akwaniritsidwe ndi kulungamitsidwa
Zonse zomwe lero zimafunidwa kuchokera pansi pamtima.
Mkwati ndi wabwino - kukhala wokongola mkwatibwi!
Mabanja okongola m'dziko lino sangapezeke!
Ine ndiri pa ufulu wa bambo anga, ndipo, ndithudi, apongozi anga
Ine ndikufuna kuti ndikukondeni inu, ana okondedwa, kuti mukhumba!
Ndikukhumba inu kuti wina ndi mnzake akonde kwambiri,
Monga palibe amene adakondapo!
Kuti musunge malingaliro anu kwanthawizonse,
Kukhalabe wokhulupirika kwa wina ndi mzake kwamuyaya!
Ukwati umachokera kwa abwenzi
Umboni ndi mboni ndi mabwenzi abwino kwambiri a achinyamata. Ntchito yawo ndikutaya mlengalenga, kuti azisangalatsa alendo, kotero timakonzekeretsa kuti tizinena zamatsinje. Ikhoza kukhala nthabwala.
Pali mabwenzi awiri akale pa tsiku la ukwati wa mmodzi wa iwo.
- Kodi mumakhala bwanji m'banja?
- Simungathe kumwa, simungathe kusuta ...
- Mwinamwake, mukupepesa?
- Simungathe chisoni ngakhale ...
Ndikunena kuti palibe chizunzo m'banja! Ndipo tenga galasi!
Monga bwenzi la mkwatibwi, ndikufuna ndikuuzeni, wokondedwa wanga. Sungani ndi kuyamikira cholengedwa chosasunthikacho, chosakhwima. Musatigwetse pansi! Ife, ndithudi, sitikupatsani inu kwathunthu, koma pamene ali ndi inu - chitani zonse zomwe zingatheke kuti asafune kubwera kwa ife. Chimwemwe ndi chikondi! N'zomvetsa chisoni!
Umboni ayenera kupereka chofufumitsa kwa makolo:
Lero inu, achichepere, muli ndi achibale ambiri, mbali imodzi ndi mzake.
Koma pa nthawi yapadera iyi ndikufuna kutembenukira kwa amayi a achinyamata athu. Si chinsinsi kwa wina aliyense chomwe chimatanthauza kwa amayi athu. Timatembenukira kwachimwemwe ndi chisoni. Ululu wathu ndi ululu wawo, chimwemwe chathu ndi chimwemwe chawo. Ndipo anali ndi ubweya wochuluka bwanji, pamene iwo ankalera ana okongola chotero. Amati ana ang'onoang'ono amakhala osamalidwa, ana aakulu amakhala ndi nkhawa zambiri. Mayi wokondedwa ndi wokongola! Ngakhale tsopano, pamene ana anu alowa mu moyo wodziimira, mitima yanu ikugundabe nkhawa. Mayi wokondeka, wabwino, wokongola! Ndikulitsa galasi chifukwa cha ntchito zanu zabwino, chifukwa cha mitima yanu, chifukwa chakuti mudalera ana okongola kwambiri. Kukugwadira pansi!
Makolo amalemekeza, amalemekeza ndi ulemu.
Ndikuganiza kuti anthu amavomereza,
Ndi chiwombankhanga chotani kuti makolo ayenera kukwezedwa,
Tikufuna kukhala ndi thanzi ndi chimwemwe kuchokera kwa ife!
Zonse zopanda phokoso ndi zam'mwamba zimatenga,
Ndikufuna kuti aliyense azilankhula momveka bwino
Pano pali choponderetsa ichi chomwe timachikweza
Ife tiri a makolo - chiyambi cha kuyamba konse,
Chifukwa kwa ife popanda iwo
Musamuwone wamng'onoyo,
Sitingathe kukhala kapena kuimirira popanda iwo
Ndipo paukwati musayende!
Ukwati umapitirira
Aliyense wa alendo akufuna kumwa ku thanzi la mkwati ndi mkwatibwi ndi toast, kupereka njira zosamvetsetseka:
Ngati kunali kofunikira kuti alembe nkhani yolongosola za moyo waumunthu - iyi ndi nkhani kuchokera ku moyo wa mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Ngati kunali koyenera kuti mulankhule nkhani yophunzitsa za kupusa kwa munthu - iyo ndi nkhani kuchokera ku moyo wa mwamuna ndi mkazi.
Kwaukwati, chitsimikizo chosatha cha nzeru!
Chabwino, kodi mungakonde bwanji mkwati ndi mkwatibwi?
Kuti iwo anali nthawizonse ndi mu chirichonse chomwe iwo ali palimodzi.
Pamodzi adagona, adadya, amamwa,
Ana amapita ku sukulu ya sukulu.
Kuti panalibe ngakhale chifukwa cha kukangana!
Lolani bamboyo nthawi zonse azipereka poyamba.
Mlonda wachikondi molimba mtima, mwaluso.
Ndipo pokhapokha paukwati ukhale "wokhumudwa!".
Wokondedwa mkwati wathu! Tikufuna kukweza galasi kuti tipezeke nthawi zonse! Nthaŵi zonse tsopano ndi mbuye wanu m'moyo, ndizo: chakudya chamwambo, njira zamadzi, zikondwerero zam'mbuyo mu bwalo la banja lanu! Chizoloŵezi chosasinthika! Mwachidziwikire, tikukhumba inu mwayi muzochita zanu zonse za banja, chimwemwe pamoyo wanu. N'zomvetsa chisoni!
Kwa ambiri, chitsanzo cha toast yabwino ndi nkhani ya mbalame yochokera ku "ukapolo wa ku Caucasus". Zambiri za ku Caucasus osati kungosambira pokhapokha muphunziranso kuchokera ku mutu wakuti " Ukwati wa Kummawa ukuwombera ." Timapereka zitsanzo:
Munthu wanzeru anafunsidwa kuti:
- Nzeru yamoyo ndi chiyani?
"Khalani ndi chimwemwe chenicheni ndipo chonde chonde okondedwa anu," iye anayankha.
Ndikulakalaka achinyamata okwatirana atsatire malangizo awa, ndipo moyo wawo udzakhala wokondwa komanso wosangalala!
Wolemba ndakatulo wa Chiarabu, Khalil Gibran, ananena kuti mgwirizanowu ndi denga lokhala ndi zipilala ziwiri. Pamene zipilalazi zili kutali kwambiri, denga lingagwe. Ndikufuna kuti achinyamata adzikhala oleza mtima ndi omvetsetsana, kulemekezana wina ndi mzake, chifukwa makhalidwe amenewa sangawatsogolere kupatukana kwa zigawo ziwiri ku malo oopsa ndipo sangalole kuti denga la nyumba liwonongeke!
Amuna ambiri amafuna kukhala ndi akazi. Amakhulupirira kuti amayi ambiri omwe ali pafupi nawo, omwe amakhala osiyana kwambiri komanso osangalatsa moyo wawo wa banja, amakondana komanso amakondana kwambiri. Choncho tiyeni tiwone kuti mnyamatayo sakufuna kukhala ndi amai, chifukwa mkazi wake yekha akhoza kumutsatira! Kwa achinyamata!