Taphunzira mwakhama kuyambira ubwana: osati kupsompsonana popanda kumenyana, koma nthawi za kuvina mofulumira pambali ya mkono sizingatheke, ndi nthawi yosintha lingaliro lanu la makhalidwe abwino ndi maganizo a moyo wapamtima .
Mikangano "ya".
Mwakumana mwadzidzidzi, mutasintha mbali ziwiri zazing'ono, komanso mwadzidzidzi muli ndi mantha kuti mumagwirizana. Kodi izi zimachitika? Ndipo bwanji! Inu mumapitabe, mumapuma pantchito, ndipo mumadziwa kuti ndi nthawi yopanga chisankho. Chikondi ndi chokwanira chokhazikika mwadzidzidzi. Maganizo anu ndi owona mtima, mumakhala okondwa, zomwe zimatsimikiziranso kuti mumayamikira mnzanuyo. Mulimonsemo, kugonana kosangalatsa kwa nthawi yoyamba sikungakhaleko.
Zimakhala kuti kupuma pakati pa ubale kumakhala kwa nthawi yayitali kuti muiwale pamene mumapsompsonona, osatchula zina. Ndiyeno winawake akuwoneka yemwe angakukondereni, akukuitanani kuti mudye chakudya, koma simukudziwa kuti mnzanuyo akhoza kupitilira. Komabe, watopa kwambiri ndi kusungulumwa kuti kugonana ndi mnyamata wabwino ndibwino kwambiri. Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, mumadzakhala wokondwa madzulo, omwe adzakula kukhala okonda kwambiri, monga otsiriza.
Nthawi zina paulendo wathu pali amuna, kumbuyo komwe kumakhala njanji yaitali ya mitima yosweka. Ndipo mutatha misonkhano yambiri, mumadziwa kuti mwakonzeka kumupatsa komanso mtima wanu. Munthu wotero akamapanga tsiku, palibe malo oti aganizire. Mutha kutayika chirichonse kapena kukhala mwini wa mkwatibwi, ngakhale kwa kanthawi. Pachifukwa ichi, kugonana pa tsiku loyamba ndi kosangalatsa, koma n'kofunika. Komabe, palibe amene adachotsa chisangalalo chokhala nacho chokhumba.
Ngati mugawana malingaliro a chikazi, mukuwona msungwana wamakono komanso wosakondwera, mukhoza kuvomereza mosavuta kugonana mukamafuna, mungathe. Ndipo palibe kusiyana komwe kudzakhala - pa tsiku loyamba kapena lakhumi. Pano pali munthu wina wosasunthika amene angathe kukuthandizani pokambirana pa nkhaniyi, ndipo muyenera kuchita zina osati chifukwa cha zosangalatsa, koma kuti mukhale ndi chithunzi cha mtsikana wa zaka za m'ma 2100.
Kodi mukuganiza kuti ndi zopusa kuti mupange zolinga zazikulu, chifukwa moyo ndi wosadziŵika bwino? Ndiye kwa inu palibe vuto kuti kugonana pa tsiku loyamba linali malo oti mukhale. Inde, ndani amadziwa, mwadzidzidzi, mnyamata wosadziwikayo ndi tsogolo lanu? Muzochitika za mpikisano wamtchire, sizakhala zopusa kwambiri kufalikira ndi mabanja. Ngati mukukhala tsiku limodzi, njirayi siyi yoipa kwambiri kwa inu.
Ndipo, potsirizira pake, ngati mumudyetsa chakudya cham'mawa motalika kwambiri, amamvetsera chidwi ndi msungwana wochulukirapo amene sangayembekezere mpaka ukwatiwo kapena kubweranso kwachiwiri. Amuna, mwatsoka, sakhala achikondi monga ife ndipo amayenda pansi pa mwezi kwa miyezi yambiri akuwoneka kuti si njira yabwino yowonekera.
Ndipo mumadziwanso bwanji ngati mukuyandikira wina ndi mzake, bwanji osati mwa njira yodziwira? Iye akhoza kukhala wokongola, wanzeru ndi wokongola, koma ngati ali pabedi zokhumba zanu ndi mwayi sizikufanana, chiyanjano sichingagwire ntchito. Kodi ndizofunikira kuyembekezera, pambuyo pake, pamene mumalankhulana kwambiri, zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni kwambiri ngati zikutanthauza kuti si munthu wa maloto anu .
Mikangano "motsutsa".
Angaganize kuti ndinu munthu wosasamala kwambiri. Amuna amaloledwa kwambiri kuposa akazi, ndipo amangosangalala nazo izi. Koma, ngati amayi onse adanena kuti akugonana asanalowe m'banja, kodi amuna angathenso bwanji kugwiritsa ntchito ufulu wawo wogonana pamene akufuna, osati nthawi?
Iye amakonda kukwaniritsa ndi kuyamikira akazi omwe ayenera kuti agonjedwe, monga zofunikira. Eya, iwe sungathe kukana ndipo kuzungulira kwanthawi yaitali kumabweretsa njala yowawa. Ingotsimikizirani kuti sikuti mphamvu yanu ndi yofooka, ndipo kupsyinjika kwake kuli kolimba, ndipo simungathe kubwezeretsa
Amatsatira malingaliro owonetsetsa, ndipo iwe ndi wamakono kwambiri kwa iye. Yembekezerani, ngati sakanatsutsa, mwinamwake mnyamata uyu ndi wonyenga chabe amene amakonda chiyambi chochokera kwa mkazi. Zili choncho kuti munangomupatsa zomwe iye walota mwachinsinsi.
Iye sadzakwatira konse msungwana wopeza. Inde, palibe amene akufuna mkazi amene amatsutsa chifukwa chake. Koma kukhudzidwa kwanu kumafotokozedwa mosavuta ndi kumverera ndi chifundo chachikulu. Musanayambe "kuzindikira" izo ndi zovuta kukana.
Icho chinali chiyeso chimene inu simunadutse. Eya, palibe amene ali ndi zolakwa. Ndipo kodi mwatayika kwambiri? Mwinamwake wogwirizanitsa uyu angakuvutitseni ndi kulamulira kwathunthu ndi "zipolopolo zopanda kanthu" nkhondo isanayambe. Moyo wa banja ndi mtundu wotero ndi wovuta kulingalira.
Chimodzi mwa mavuto ofunikira kwambiri pa kugonana ndi ngozi. Inu mumakhala mukugona pabedi ndi maniac kapena wopotoza, ndi wokonda zonyansa. Zilonda zambiri zomwe zimatsata zosangalatsa zosaganiziridwa. Koma, monga akunena, ndani sachita ngozi - samamwa champagne. Mungathe kudziteteza nokha ndi thanzi lanu, njira zamakono zolola.
Zili choncho kuti palibe zifukwa zovuta zokhudzana ndi kugonana pa tsiku loyamba. Muphatikiza iliyonse mukhoza kupeza ubwino wanu. Ndikofunika kutsimikiza kuti mukufunikira, kuti ndi zanu, osati chisankho cha wina.
Ngati panthawi imodzimodziyo mutasiya kuganiza mozama ndi kumvetsera mwachidwi, zotsatira zosautsa ngakhale mutagonana, mungapewe. Pamapeto pake, tikukhala m'zaka zana pamene mzere pakati pa ufulu wa amayi ndi amuna ulibe. Agogo athu agogo sakanatha kuganiza zogonjera zofuna zawo, tili ndi ufulu wonse. Ndiye bwanji osapindula nazo?
Ngati mumayamika miyambo, ndipo mukufuna kusunga nkhope pa mtengo uliwonse, ndiye "ulamuliro wa maulendo atatu" ndi njira yomwe mbadwo wakale unathandizira. Izi "nthawi yomweyo" zidzakuthandizani kumudziwa bwino yemwe angakhale naye payekha, kuti mudziwe nokha mu zilakolako zanu komanso nthawi imodzi kuti musatayike mbiri yanu.